OffAir Podcast

Who Sets The Rules In The Bedroom: Men or Women?

β€’ Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru Demuren & Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi

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In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement.

From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits.

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00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex
 02:08 – Who really sets the rules in the bedroom?
 07:06 – Why society assumes men should lead sexually
 11:46 – Silence, fear & the pressure on women
 18:36 – Women carrying condoms: smart or scandalous?
 24:19 – Pharmacy judgement, church leaflets & shame culture
 32:14 – Should intimacy rules be discussed earlier?
 40:18 – Compliments, playlists & setting the mood
 53:44 – Final takeaways: comfort, confidence & consent