Restored: Helping Children of Divorce

Her Dad Cheated, Her Family Broke, But She Broke the Cycle | Autumn: #175

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When your family breaks apart, anger makes sense. But if it has nowhere to go, it can turn into bitterness, depression, addiction, relationship fear, and despair.

In this episode, Autumn shares how her parents’ divorce, her father’s infidelity, generational dysfunction, and sexual abuse shaped the way she saw men, love, marriage, God, and herself. She opens up about the rage she carried, her struggle with pornography addiction, suicidal thoughts, and the fear that she was doomed to repeat her parents’ mistakes.

But her story does not end there.

Autumn also shares how faith, writing, friendship, therapy, forgiveness, and a healthy marriage helped her heal and build a life that looks completely different from the brokenness she came from.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Why anger after divorce is often a response to real loss and injustice
  • How divorce can feel like a death, even when it was “necessary”
  • Why fear of repeating your parents’ mistakes is so common
  • How pornography addiction can be connected to deeper wounds
  • What Autumn learned to look for in a spouse
  • How she forgave her father without pretending the hurt didn’t happen
  • Why your parents’ divorce is part of your story, but not your identity

If you’re from a broken family, angry about what happened, afraid of repeating your parents’ story, or wondering if healthy love is even possible for you, this episode is for you.


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