Restored: Helping Children of Divorce

If God Loves Me, Why Did He Allow This Pain? | Dr. Daniel Meola: #178

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When your parents’ divorce or separation hurts deeply, it can raise painful questions about God: Where was He when my family fell apart? Why didn’t He stop it? And if faith matters so much, why didn’t it save my family?

In this episode, Joey talks with Dr. Daniel Meola, co-founder of Life-Giving Wounds, about suffering, anger, grief, spiritual bypassing, and the struggle many adult children of divorce face in their relationship with God.

They discuss:

  • Why divorce can feel like abandonment by God
  • What to do when faith was used to minimize your pain
  • Why anger and grief aren’t signs of weak faith
  • How to avoid getting stuck in victimhood or spiritual bypassing
  • Why acknowledging your pain may be the first step toward healing
  • How God can transform wounds into strength, love, and purpose

If you’re an adult child of divorce or separation who has ever asked, “God, where were You when my family fell apart?” this episode is for you.


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