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Fights with Your Friends

June 13, 2021 Paul Brennan
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Fights with Your Friends
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Fights with Your Friends
Jun 13, 2021
Paul Brennan

Keep your friends close......


Brennans solicitors
Lawyers - Property, commercial, disputes, Wills and estates

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Keep your friends close......


Brennans solicitors
Lawyers - Property, commercial, disputes, Wills and estates

Ask a lawyer a simple question like how much will he charge for drawing up a loan document to lend $50,000 to a friend and you would expect a simple $ figure answer. However, your lawyer is more likely to respond, “Are you crazy?”.

Please do not get us lawyers wrong, some of our best friends are, well… friends.   However, our experience is that somehow the universe conspires to make it difficult to get repaid by friends promptly, easily, or in some cases, at all.  They die, lose their jobs, get dementia, become bankrupt, their daughter gets married or their pet develops an expensive medical condition.  All sorts of things happen to make your insistence on repayment seem insensitive and a source of lifetime resentment between you and them.

Unlike in dealings with their own children, people expect their friends to repay loans and believe their sincere expressions of intent to do so.  

You explain to your lawyer that it was your friend who insisted that a legal document be prepared at his expense to protect you.  Your lawyer will advise that for peace of mind, the loan document should have security. For example, a mortgage against a property or charge against some other asset.  Your friend is not keen on the additional expense and may be “mortgaged up to the hilt” in any event.

You go back to your lawyer and ask for a cheaper solution.  He suggests that you obtain post-dated cheques or in the absence of cheques, a promissory note e.g. I promise to pay X the sum of $x.  This may make it easier to get a judgment against your friend but enforcement may require expensive bankruptcy proceedings and even then, you cannot get blood out of a stone.

All in all, if you cannot control your generous nature towards friends, take a tip from your accountant, and don’t have any.


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Extract from "The Art of War, Peace & Palaver: The Contentious Guide to Legal Disputes"