The Way of the Saint - Offense

Spiritual maturity requires learning to handle offense biblically rather than allowing it to trap us in negative emotions and behaviors. Jesus warned that offenses are inevitable, but we have a choice in how we respond. The key is understanding that offense isn't just something done to us - it's a work that begins in us when we allow hurt to change who we are. Six biblical strategies help us overcome offense: overlook minor slights, stay grounded in God's Word, avoid isolation, pause before responding, refuse bitterness, and remember that our words matter. Jesus provided a clear blueprint in Matthew 18 for addressing serious offenses through direct conversation, mediation, and church involvement when necessary.