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Hope Pieced Together is a show that gets real about mental health struggles and how to overcome them. You will hear personal stories, practical tools, and professional insight for the journey toward mental well-being. Whether you listen for you, a loved one, or for how to help in your community, it will be evident that hope is definitely alive! Each month, the host, Sherry Burkhard, RN, includes parts of her own professional and personal story, as well as insight gained at the non-profit organization, Mosaics of Mercy.

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Finding Hope Through Embracing Your Identity: Ali Burkhard

August 01, 2022 • Mosaics of Mercy • Episode 62

Defining who we are versus how our family, friends, and others define us is a common experience; and striking a balance between the two is an especially prevalent struggle for adolescents and young adults. Identity development is the process of aligning how we feel inside with what we project to the outside world and, when there are internal and external influences that interfere with that process, many might find that their mental health is impacted. In today’s episode, you’ll hear from Sherry’s 18-year-old daughter, Ali Burkhard, as she shares her own journey of claiming her identity and how the process has impacted her mental health. We also touch on why counseling has been such a valuable resource for Ali, the importance of setting boundaries in parent-child relationships, and how Ali’s faith has influenced her journey and helped her find hope, plus so much more! Make sure to stay tuned until the end of the episode to hear Ali’s song, ‘Embraced’, which she wrote about her journey of embracing her identity. We hope you’ll join us!

Key Points From This Episode:

Insight into Ali’s personality as an introvert, an internal processor, and a deep thinker.
The social stigma and expectations that can accompany certain stereotypes.
Influencing factors that made the process of identity development difficult for Ali.
Why we shouldn’t make assumptions if we want to build valuable relationships with people.
Ali reflects on the internal conflict that can come with trying to live up to others’ expectations.
Understanding perfectionism as a coping mechanism.
How counseling has been a valuable resource for Ali.
A look at the importance of finding the right counselor for you.
The problem with comparison when it comes to mental health issues.
How Ali learned to voice her feelings and become more connected with her emotions.
Dispelling the stigma that is associated with seeking support for your mental health.
The importance of establishing respectful boundaries in parent-child relationships.
Recognizing that you can’t change other people; you can only work on yourself.
While it’s easy to feel like the victim in certain situations, Ali highlights the fact that it only leaves you feeling disempowered.
Advice for parents: you can’t fix what your child is going through, but you can support them.
A reminder that there is always room to work on yourself.
Ali shares some insight into the song she wrote about her journey of embracing her identity.
Understanding that you’re not broken if you’re struggling and God doesn’t look on you with shame if you’re depressed.
Closing with Ali's story of hope: seeing the response that others have had to her song.

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

‘Embraced’ by Ali Grace on Apple Music

Mosaics of Mercy