On moving to the next chapter in life:
- Chances are, if you're still here, there's still something left to learn before you're ready to turn the page.
- If it's time, you'll know - the Universe will tell you. You just have to know the language and be listening for the message.
- You're co-creating your life in conjunction with Spirit. It's your discernment PLUS their guidance.
On being righteously selfish:
- Are you moving in your True North? Prioritize yourself. You're already operating in Love & Light and motivated to achieve the highest good of everyone.
- Are you still figuring it out? Pay attention to opportunities to get better at considering the experiences of the people in your life.
On meeting people where they are:
- You're self-referential if you interpret people's actions, behaviors, and words through the lens of your own context. This generates a desire to inform them of your context.
- You're self-effacing if you see people's actions, behaviors, and words as windows into their contexts. This generates curiosity about their contexts.
- How to tell which one you are: listen to what comes out of your mouth. Do you make statements about yourself, or ask questions about them?
Raising self-effacing kids:
- Are you teaching them "do this because people will want you to do it" or "don't do that because people won't want you to do it"?
- Try teaching them to care about other people's experiences.
Relationships with people who aren't healing, and not interested in doing so:
- If they're not mistreating you, try to see them through the lens of their own context, and hold space for them to be what they are.
- Are they mistreating you? Set and keep boundaries, out of respect for yourself. If the boundaries aren't honored, it might be time to consider ending the relationship.
GRATITUDE:
- Abby is grateful for herself! And that she's choosing to take care of herself.
- Ryan is grateful for a friend who convinced him not to trash the art he made as a kid.
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