Abby & Ryan Still Don't Know What They're Doing

Abby & Ryan debrief their thoughts and feelings on how the last few episodes have gone - and why they feel that way.

Abby and Ryan are both insecure about being/appearing smart!

• Abby's response is to say very little.
• Ryan's response is to overcompensate.

There's a difference between critiquing the things you do, and critiquing the person doing them.

Limiting beliefs can contain hidden gifts:

• Abby speaks impeccably and accessibly because of how much time she's spent caring about how well spoken she is.
• Ryan's actually pretty smart because of all the overcompensating he did to keep from ever being caught looking stupid.

Relationship Workshop!

• Rupture & Repair
• Owning that your suffering is your suffering
• Acknowledging what you don't know, and being curious
• Speaking your truth even when it's scary
• Being a safe place for the other to speak their truth
• Catching yourself in unhelpful behavioral/linguistic patterns, and PIVOTing
• Choosing to believe the best about the other

GRATITUDE!

• Abby is grateful for the people in her life who kindly nudge her towards people and experiences that are good for her.
• Ryan is grateful for Todd & Cathy Adams, leaders of an online group he recently joined and immediately fell in love with.

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