Tao Te Ching Verse 64
translated by Sanderson Beck
What stays still is easy to hold.
Without omens it is easy to plan.
The brittle is easy to shatter.
The minute is easy to scatter.
Handle things before they appear.
Organize things before there is confusion.
A tree as big as a person's embrace grows from a tiny shoot.
A tower nine stories high begins with a mound of earth.
A journey of a thousand miles begins under one's feet.
To act is to fail.
To grab is to lose.
Therefore the wise do not act and do not fail.
They do not grab and do not lose.
In handling things people usually fail
when they are about to succeed.
Be as careful at the end as at the beginning,
and there will be no failure.
Therefore the wise desire to have no desires.
They do not value rare treasures.
They learn what is unknown,
returning to what many have missed
so that all things may be natural without interference.
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The Questions
The first thing I want to do is realize how the problem I have is being caused by me. I ask myself:
I’ll know I’ve completed this section if I can clearly see how I am the progenitor of my anger or fear. Now the next series of questions is designed to allow me to see how I have a false belief that is contributing to my propensity to create anger or fear. I want to look at that 4th question and ask, “is there a reason I am doing this? Specifically, what belief system is at work? For me, I believe that if I do what’s in question 4, I’ll get what I’m trying to get in question 3.”
Sometimes I’ll need to explore this a bit in conversation with others or by writing. Once I know which belief is at work, I’ll write it down. I’ve come up with things like, “I am alone, I will feel content if I have money, I can feel safe if this person wouldn’t behave in this way.” Things like that.
OK, so here are the next set of questions:
I find that when I move through those questions, I undo and unlearn some of those destructive thought patterns that I unknowingly created as I grew into adulthood.
Finally, I say: Thank you for showing me this. Please now show me how I may practice living with this new outlook. Please help me be willing to put into practice what has been discovered.