MAFS S17 Rocky Retreat

In this episode: dueling chef metaphors, open doors, & facts v opinion

original air date: 02/07/2024

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SPEAKER_00 1:05

Hi, and welcome to this bonus episode of Sassin Sips. Today we are talking about Married at First Sight, Season 17, Episode Rocky Retreat. I'm Lisa, and today I am sipping on. I actually have um an iced coffee, and it has a little bit of peanut butter whiskey in it.

SPEAKER_01 1:29

Oh, nice. I'm proud of you. Good job.

SPEAKER_02 1:33

Thank you. Thank you. You're welcome. And I'm Agnes, and I am drinking on wine, white wine. Yeah. Sunday wine. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:46

You sound like I know you're I know it's that you're sleepy, but you have like that um sex phone operator voice going on for you right now.

SPEAKER_02 1:57

I call it the Phoebe, the Phoebe Buffet syndrome. Funny story. Remember back in the day with our outgoing messages for our cell phones? We would play music.

SPEAKER_01 2:15

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_02 2:17

And my song that I have for my outgoing message was Do Me, Baby. And it just so happened that I was sick when I recorded it. And I had a guy that was like, Can you? He's like, I like when you don't answer the phone because your outgoing message is sexy as fuck.

SPEAKER_01 2:41

I was like, well, thank you. Any hot takes?

SPEAKER_00 2:48

Um well I was thinking wondering if her lack of relationship is kind of to blame and blame them isn't exactly the word I want to use, but maybe kind of the the reason that she doesn't walk already because sh she's inexperienced, so maybe she just can't see the signs like we can see them, or maybe you know, maybe it's just her her strong upbringing that makes her commit to a task and then really want to follow through and not give up. I don't think about that.

SPEAKER_02 3:39

Or a combination of both.

SPEAKER_01 3:42

Yeah. Yeah. That's an interesting episode.

SPEAKER_00 3:47

I I kind of find it interesting with the whole retreat thing and that they had all the couples there. Um and you know me, I love a good like friends vacation.

SPEAKER_02 4:03

This is new to you, that's right.

SPEAKER_00 4:05

You know, and so I I love stuff like that. I love to rent a house with friends and do a long weekend where you can just kind of hang out low-key. You know what I mean? But it's weird for them to be doing it because they're they're friends, but they're not friends. But then also it's like, hmm, and now you have Lauren and Orion, so I'm kind of curious to see how that goes. That trajectory. Uh it's it's giving more things for me to be like, okay. Granted that they're all in the house together, but taking that individually, I'm kind of curious to see how the couples do in that setting. I just don't really have anything else. Like, I don't think any other hot takes, like any, you know.

SPEAKER_02 5:06

This episode has been the first episode a long time where I had a lot of different opinions about the couples. Although it wasn't much, but more than I have the last four or five episodes. Let's start this party off. Let's start off with Claire and Cameron. Well, no Cameron, but for purpose of this episode. Yeah. Claire, let's start off with Claire. Um, she was concerned about going to, as was Lauren, but concerned about going because she isn't a couple. She obviously had no reason to be worried about being the ninth wheel, so to speak, because none of the guys are acting like it's a couples retreat. They feel like it's a hangout. It's like they you would have thought it was one of Lisa's, like you said earlier, grabbing friends, hanging out, you know, which is it is kind of, but it's also to what Lauren said, it's about recessing your relationship, using your friends, you know, it's about you guys coming together as a couple, and then with the other couples who are in the same position and gathering support from one another. The guys don't seem to realize that's what this is. So I don't think Claire has any reason to feel like a ninth wheel at all. Because no one else is.

SPEAKER_00 6:33

I'm sure, yeah, and I'm sure that she she couldn't have foreseen the dumbassness of these raids. Because you no one could have.

SPEAKER_02 6:43

I mean, well as fewers could have, but yeah, this is something you would expect to see.

SPEAKER_00 6:47

No, no, no, but like, but but still they took it to another level.

SPEAKER_02 6:52

They they kicked it up a notch, they did it in the grassi, bam.

SPEAKER_00 6:58

The squad of Ramsey they elevated. Yes. But how actually you bring up a really good point because okay, so Cameron is not there, and the couples, or at least the men who are there, is Brian, Brennan, and Austin. And how is Orion being the most well behaved? Like that is kind of I didn't see that coming, right? Austin and Ecca are there, and they're all there, she's so excited because she's like, oh my god, like, you know, I'm gonna get some ass. And he is so excited because this no, no, and like, yeah, so he's so excited because this is like some football players' house, even though they don't tell us who. And he's kind of like, Oh, I want to sleep in his bedroom. But Becca's like, oh, but this one is the most he's like, Yep, this is the one then. But then the first night he gets up out of bed. I already knew when I saw one hour later, I was like, oh, well, what happened? Because either they're gonna pan to her red and giddy, or something really went wrong. And he's like packing up all his shit and moving to a new room, and it's like, does that? And Brennan walks in and it's like, oh my god, this house is so great. Hey, but by the way, separate rooms because friendship. What? I don't know. Like it it's just so yeah.

SPEAKER_02 8:31

Austin started off good where they were packing, getting ready, and he's he said he was excited to start working on things that Dr. Pierce suggested that they work on, and obviously intimacy. And yeah.

SPEAKER_00 8:55

And like five minutes after being in the house, it went out the window.

SPEAKER_02 9:00

You're right. And I feel like when they had their little spa treatment, I feel like for she's like, I'm better about it, whatever. But I feel like I don't know what happened between that and between the two different time periods. But like, did he gaslight her to make her feel like no, it was not like what happened for her to be like, I'm forgiven? Like he's for he's forgiven. Are you giving your husband the eyes again? Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_00 9:28

Cause he's oh, he's he was digging in his pants.

SPEAKER_02 9:33

He's adjusting. He's changing. Wow.

SPEAKER_00 9:35

I have to look.

SPEAKER_02 9:38

Second time in a row, I'm being thrown to the side because I'm a naked husband. Okay, fine. I'm gonna put it that way.

SPEAKER_00 9:47

Not naked, unfortunately.

SPEAKER_02 9:51

If he was, maybe the end of this recording. She's like, well, no, she's not denying it. So we've already spoken about Claire and Cameron, Emily and Brennan, and Becca and Austin. I'm just joking. Pretty much. Yep. All done. All done. We can get um, we could, I think we should come back to Emily and Brennan um regarding the last scene. Lauren and Orion. Okay. Orion, what could you have possibly have to say to Lauren at this late stage of the game? I know. You had your closing, you had your closure, your that conversation, like you're good, I'm good. This is where we're at, I'm right, doing the wedding. There's no, you don't need to have a further conversation with her. Leave her alone.

SPEAKER_00 10:40

I know. It's it's it's such a it's like toying with her. And Lauren, you know, and I I I say this like I know her, but the qualities that I see in her, a lot of the same things that I see in myself, and I'm guilty of this too, is that I always I really try to see the best in people, and I see that in her, and I see the way she speaks about him, and she's like, you know, he said he wants to be friends, but then we haven't spoken since the wedding, so how can you be friends, but you don't text? And but while she's saying that, what she's not saying is weird thing to talk about, and I don't want to talk to him because I blocked his number. So even though she's saying, like, I don't know, she I don't think she has closed that door. And that's the part that kind of worries me a little bit for her because I think that it's one thing to give him a second chance if you feel up to it, but I think that he's really showing you that he's not capable of being the partner that you need. And I don't want to say that he's not a good guy or anything because I don't think he could be a good friend if you're not sure if it's not about that. No, no, he's just not the person for her. He sounds really good for her, but in practice, he keeps letting her down. And but I just don't think it's a perfect like I think that honestly, had you even matched her with Michael, it would have been amazing. I think Michael is more of the kind of person that she needs because she's very open, she's very accepting, and she's very honest, but she needs that reciprocation, and Orion just doesn't give that to her. Um I'm curious to see the aftermath of them spending time in this house together. And while I don't have like, ooh, I hope they get back together, I I don't have that, but I hope that they both leave good about where they are in in terms of their relationship or lack of relationship and in terms of themselves, like because I I think that Lauren is still struggling with her part in their breakup. And I say that not to be like it is her full. I mean that, but at the same time, her actions were the catalyst for his reaction, right? So it's not really assigning blame in a sense like that, but I think that she still feels a lot of uh like guilt and like like you know what I mean, like she's interpreting a lot of at the end of the day. Sometimes it's better to know why you become too damn invested. So maybe just maybe that was the best thing you could have done.

SPEAKER_02 14:09

Right. I don't know if she's still feeling guilt over it. I think now the issue I think she's I think she's dealing with it. I think the biggest her pain in the ass now is just based on like she said earlier, where during the wedding, you know, let's talk, I want to be friends, and then he just he puts on a show for the camera, off camera. So I think she's just like, what the I think it's an emotional yo-yo with him. I don't know if it's so much about that particular catalyst with the breakup of the relationship. I just think it's the hot and cold of dealing with him, period.

SPEAKER_00 14:48

Yes, but I think that entertains a friendship. I think is because she had, regardless of her part in it, I think that she still has a little bit more work to do in understanding and realizing and accepting that this is a him thing. I mean, he he hurt her, he really did hurt her, is because she feels some type of way because of what she said. And and that's what I mean.

SPEAKER_02 15:20

Mm-hmm. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 15:22

Yeah, it like it's it's a fine line, but yeah.

SPEAKER_02 15:27

Go figure at this point, well, Michael and Chloe, but with the like the original four, I feel like the most healthy relationship was Claire and Cameron because then they were adult about things, like, hey, this isn't working, we better friend. I think go figure. Right. But speaking of being adults.

SPEAKER_00 15:45

Well, I was just gonna say, but unlike the rest of them, they came to a s a decision and they kind of like they tried, they tried, they tried, and then they were both like, this isn't working. Okay. And but they were more or less both on board both ways.

SPEAKER_01 16:02

Right.

SPEAKER_00 16:03

It's not the same, like Lauren and Orion were there, it was like this wishy-washy back and forth bullshit. Brennan and Emily, who's like, let's just do a reset. Well, let's be friends, let's respect our boundaries. Oh my god, if he says the word boundaries and friendship, oosa. I'm I and and Austin, your wife is fucking gorgeous. Bang that. Like she wants you so bad. Go bang your wife.

SPEAKER_02 16:37

I know during the original airing, there were you know, people talking and Facebook and all the other stuff. And on the on uh the thought whether or not that he was gay or not came up. Like, well, is he gay and he doesn't know it, or he's not accepting it of it? Not that it's a bad thing, but like what is going on with what is going on? Like there's something other than yeah, but yeah, so that happened.

SPEAKER_00 17:03

I don't think that that's necessarily a far ponderance because you say that you want to marry somebody, you marry a stranger, you go through this whole thing, and then you talk about like you're making out with her, you talk about how her boobs are the fave your favorite part of her body, but you don't want to hit that. And not everyone moves as fast as other or as slow, but it's been a month, which is kind of a long time. Like you guys are not like 18 and whatever, like you're 30 and you're married. It's like she she has made it very, very obvious, like she's into you. You're not gonna face rejection, because I get that that could be a thing, right? Nobody wants to be rejected, nobody wants to make a move and then be told no. But she's into you, you're attract you're attract you say you're attracted to her, so like what the fuck? Yeah, I don't I mean, honestly, I kind of don't get that part either, but I don't know. I mean, i say if I got married at first sight and I was attracted to my husband, maybe I'd wait till the honeymoon. You know, maybe I wouldn't give it up on a wedding night because like I just met you a few hours ago. But depending on how he treated me, I sure might. Like, why not? There's nothing wrong with that. That's a very important part. Right, but like, right, we we gotta know if this is good or not. Because if this ain't good, it ain't gonna work. Right. Right.

SPEAKER_02 18:39

And if it's not good, is it something that I can work with? Is it doable? Can we work on it together? I need to know what our options are. Right. Right. I don't know. At one point, we're talking about being adults, and Michael and Chloe, one, the day up to now, they've been extremely vulnerable with one another and honest about their feelings. And they from night one, and I love the fact that they're just so open, like there's something about each of them that the other trusts and feels safe enough to open up and tell them their feelings. And I love that.

SPEAKER_00 19:19

I think it's it's a lot of their communication because words are very intimate, but they open up to each other.

SPEAKER_02 19:28

Very much so. They are the epitome of what an adult relationship is, whether it's romantic or platonic, it's a grown-up relationship. And if you open up in the in the dictionary, you're gonna see those two people there.

SPEAKER_00 19:42

I I know, and I love them regarding as people. Me too, but it scares me a little because I'm like, is this too good to be true? Like these two people? Uh-huh. Are they gonna break my heart? Because how how could this be real life? Like this perfect couple. And he has a dog And two cats. I know, I knew about the two cats, but I didn't realize he had the dog too. And they're all so kidding. He's like, Yeah, laying down on the floor, and I let her love upon me. I love it. I want to lay on the floor with the dog. Franklin. I think.

SPEAKER_02 20:19

Franklin. One of them was named. Graham and Franklin. Graham and Franklin were the cats, and Milo was a dog. And who was a dog? Um Milo. Ah, okay. I have no life.

SPEAKER_01 20:32

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 20:33

I can't remember the people's names, but I remember the animals' names. I have my priorities in life straight.

SPEAKER_00 20:39

I feel like that's way more.

SPEAKER_02 20:42

During the initial airing, I think, if I remember correctly, Chloe got some flack from some people who really wasn't watching. I mean, they weren't paying attention to the words coming out of her mouth. When, yeah, Michael put on her necklace and her earring. She's like, I didn't expect this to be married to this type of man. But she did say that he is exactly what I want. It may not be in the box that I imagined, but I wanted this and I'm going to take it and run with it. And I love that. But I can understand having a partner that's different than you expect it is not a bad thing because she's actually appreciating what she what he the truth that like was in the package.

SPEAKER_00 21:34

Yeah. And you know, some people just want to get mad at things. And they're not hearing. Like you're you're actually not hearing what she said.

SPEAKER_02 21:42

She's saying. Because it is kind of weird. Not weird, but it is like different. You're like, whoa, okay. It is not you're like, wait, I got it. To be in a relationship with that. Do I have friends like that? Absolutely. But to be in a relationship with that, I'm like, oh, wait, do I is this oh okay, you know? And that's okay.

SPEAKER_00 22:01

And and she, it's all of a sudden that she's finding this out. So there's right.

SPEAKER_02 22:08

It's not like she's grown to meet him. Uh-huh. Exactly. You didn't meet him somewhere, you slowly got to know him. No, it's like, boom, this is me. You're like, whoa, okay. Which that's with anybody.

SPEAKER_00 22:22

Right. And even when they talk to Pastor Cal and she's making jokes, she's like, yeah, he's wearing my necklace, he's eyeing my earrings. And Pastor Cal's like, well, that's different. There's nothing wrong with it, but that's different. But how does that make you feel? Like, are you okay with it? Because you're allowed to say no. And I thought that that was also fair. And Michael was like, Yeah, of course you're allowed to say no. Like, you know, he was an insult.

SPEAKER_02 22:45

And did I love the fact she was like, it's not that it's my earrings or my necklace. I think it's the fact that there are earrings and necklaces.

SPEAKER_00 22:54

Right. Right. Exactly. And like anyone who has brain cells, anyone is uh yeah, like anyone with connected brain cells can understand that statement. She's not judging it. She's saying, this is different. Okay, but but we'll go with it. It's not this is weird. I don't like it. It's not, oh my god, this is fabulous and I love it. It's this is different than anything that I've experienced before. Stating a fact. This is different than any relationship I've been in. Is which maybe not verbatim, but is what she said. She didn't say, I love this. She didn't say, I'm not gonna deal with this. She said this is different. And it is, and that's it. Like it was just a factual statement. There was no opinion, no feeling attached. But you know, again, people who want to get mad will find something to get mad at.

SPEAKER_02 23:55

And usually it's and they're sitting at the mother's basement alone in their underwear and their tidy whiteies that are stained.

SPEAKER_00 24:04

Yeah, but it's just you're looking for something to get mad at because you're honestly like you're ignorant. Because if you're hearing what she's saying, then you didn't hear what you got mad at. You know?

SPEAKER_02 24:20

Like correct.

SPEAKER_00 24:23

But I digress.

SPEAKER_02 24:25

Speaking of being open and honest, Michael, the next morning, after she has shared some things with him, he's like, I appreciate that. And I just want you to know that I might be a little things might be hard for me when we start moving in together because we have been two very independent people, and this is going to be new for me. And knowing the way that you trust me, I might I feel better leaning on you when I'm not okay. And I'm just like, oh, my heart melted, and I love that. Love it.

SPEAKER_00 25:04

Honesty, I really do openness, and just being able to communicate effectively with another person. It I mean, it's kind of a turn on. But it's just also such an intimate thing that it it just builds trust so quickly, like so it it just really helps solidify the bond with somebody.

SPEAKER_02 25:39

And this is the difference between Michael and Brennan. So a key point of effective communication is having that emotional maturity to actually know and understand what you're going through and why you're going through it. And if you can't tap into the whys or hows or what's of your feelings, you can't communicate effectively. Brennan is incapable or having reached that stage in his mental development where he can confidently pinpoint what he's actually feeling, how he's feeling, where does it stem from, and what does he want to do with that? If you can't do that, you can have all the conversations in the world, they're not effective. Um, people seem to forget that you need to know why you're communicating and what's the end goal of the communication, not just saying it.

SPEAKER_00 26:35

Right. And the problem with Brennan is that Brennan has to know everything. Brennan also cannot be vulnerable. So whereas Michael can turn around and say, I'm not sure what you need, but I'm here for you for for whatever you need. I trust that you'll make a good decision for you. Whatever that looks like, I trust that you've got it, but like if you need me, I'm here, right? Some something kind of like that. And even when he doesn't know, he can't say, Michael is capable of saying, What can I do to help you? Or this is what I need. When you're ready to to be my support, this is what I need. And until then, I'm okay waiting, right? Like this is gonna be a group effort. Brennan is only focused on Brennan's needs, and not just that, but it's like that gaslighting bullshit where it's like not just what he needs, but it's blame when he's doesn't get what he needs. It's very selfish on his part. As the alternative, when you look at Michael, it's clearly he is a giver. I mean, he's a little cocky too, which is good, it could be, but that's what I'm saying, right? If you're as giving, you earned that right. You earned it. Yeah. Fight me. But when you're the king of talking shit, then back it up. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 28:27

I bet he got a biggie. Oh even if he didn't, I feel like he knows how to use what he has. And one track mind. And if he doesn't, he'll be like, what'd you say? I said you one-track mind, Lisa.

SPEAKER_00 28:42

Oh yeah. Well, um, no, and even if he doesn't, he'll he will be like, okay, you tell me what you need. He will he will work on it. He will take feedback. He'd be like, give me some constructive criticisms on my tongue. You know he's that kind of time.

SPEAKER_01 29:03

Okay.

SPEAKER_02 29:05

Um you got me blushing and flushing over here. Not really, but okay.

SPEAKER_00 29:10

And you know, sh and and you know he's gonna finish last.

SPEAKER_02 29:19

If Lisa wasn't married, she'd probably be Facebook's talking, Michael. Like, where is Michael at? And what is he doing, and what is going on with him? To backtrack a little bit with Emily and Brent. He's so much younger than me. He fits within the Kruger right, the the range. Half your age plus eight is acceptable, the lowest age. So he fits within that.

SPEAKER_00 29:38

So it's he's like almost 40. And this was like two, three years ago. So perfect. So he's like what, four, three, four years younger than me? It's fine. Five years, I don't know, whatever it is.

SPEAKER_02 29:52

She's gonna Google him now. I'm gonna backtrack a little bit and we're gonna talk about Emily for a minute. That last scene of the episode, they're going, was it ATV writing? And she has an accident, they call the medics. Bad thing. And I'm like, this poor girl. Like, every time she does something, she gets hurt. And I feel like, I don't know. Is that something she's been going through her whole life? I feel like, remember with top of her father and pushing her in sports, I feel like she's just gonna do it, do it, do it, get hurt, do it, do it, do it, get hurt, do it, do it, do it, get hurt. I've for some reason I feel like this isn't new for her. I feel like this is just, oh, okay. Yeah. Well, you see how she has a history of doing fun stuff and then hurting herself.

SPEAKER_00 30:46

She's laying there, she there's blood pouring. I mean, it was so bright red. It looked like somebody threw red finger paint all over her head. Like it was so much blood. And she's just like, Am I okay? Am I okay? Like, oh Emily.

SPEAKER_02 31:06

You are more than okay.

SPEAKER_00 31:08

You are true. Well, to be fair, head roots. No, I know.

SPEAKER_02 31:11

To be fair, head runes do bleed more, so um, but yeah. But yeah. She could be missing an arm. She's like, Am I okay? Like, okay. We're okay. It's fine, we can keep going.

SPEAKER_00 31:22

She booked that that excursion because she said, you know, we're trying to focus on the friendship. No, actually, he's he's not even trying to focus on that, but okay. And she's like, but we have fun together and we like to do this kind of stuff. And it's like just another instance of her putting in the effort.

SPEAKER_02 31:46

Yeah. Because that's the only time he's not being an asshole. Because they don't have to talk to one another. I feel like if they're just doing activities, they don't have to talk to one another.

SPEAKER_00 31:56

I will say this they have like these little GoPros on the ATVs as they're riding, and like on hers, all you see is just kind of like crash. I I don't I don't, you know. Um you know, kind of right away, he's like, oh my god, is she okay? And at first he's a little like, oh, is she, you know, oh my god, is she okay? But but there's not I just feel like there's there wasn't enough urgency. If it was me and you, I I mean, I don't know, like I just would have been like, oh my god, like one of us would have been running, right? You know, right, and and it doesn't matter, even if like I know you're okay, I'm still running because I'm still running. And I don't know, I feel like the editing was kind of back and forth, but I didn't know if it was the editing or not, but it just seemed the scene seemed a little wonky because you kind of see him on the side, and it's like, oh my god, oh my god, oh my god. But then he's like not, he he's kind of like calm looking, like whatever. And then you hear like oh my god, oh my god, like it just seemed like very strange progression of emotion on his part. It could have been real, but it just seemed off. Like they were trying to make him sound like he was so concerned, but then when you see him, it it it it just didn't seem to match.

SPEAKER_02 33:39

I feel like the at that like you said, part of it was editing, and I'm thinking most of his reaction, I think, was when they have medics already there.

SPEAKER_00 33:49

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_02 33:50

So he had to be away, like you can't be in their way. So I and I feel that's why it was weird because you see his reaction, but you're like, but if you really care, why aren't you next? But I think the editing had a lot to do with why it feels weird.

SPEAKER_00 34:06

Well, the the scene, you know, he he does go, he does help her, but this scene had me wondering if maybe he is just incapable of showing and expressing empathy and emotion to another person, not just her. Like, had it been anybody, he would have had that same reaction, that same lack of urgency, that same kind of like uh, you know, frozen.

SPEAKER_02 34:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 34:41

And I'm not excusing his behavior like previously, but in just this instance, removing all of the background and everything that we know about them, I just wonder if he is just that kind of a person who just can't quite deal with emergency.

SPEAKER_01 35:02

Feelings and emotions. Yeah. Oh bad.

SPEAKER_00 35:04

And and right. Um, I'm excited to see when Michael and Chloe get there. I hope that they continue their little love fest, and I hope that they do it in every room of the house, and including Becca and Austin's bed, because somebody has to. And I hope they show those fuckers what a real relationship looks like. And I hope Brennan gets big mad, and I hope Emily is okay, which I imagine she is because can't help but notice that she does the uh talking heads. So uh, you know, I have a feeling she's good. I don't see any scars. So yeah, um, yeah, and I I'm I'm kind of looking forward, like I said, to seeing how Lauren and Orion come together or don't. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:02

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_00 36:04

But that's it. And I I watched that episode last night very no, did I watch it last night? I watched it the night before. I don't know, actually, I don't know when I watched it. I lied. I don't know when the fuck oh no, I did. I watched it yesterday. Oh my god, what day is it? Anyway, and I was so excited that I only had to wait like one day to watch because I was like, my god, Emily, I need to see the next episode now.

SPEAKER_02 36:33

You're so funny. I think you should watch if you think this season is like what the fuck season, you and I really want you to watch season 18, but it wasn't available on Netflix.

SPEAKER_00 36:46

It's on, I think it's on Hulu now or Disney.

SPEAKER_02 36:49

At the time it wasn't. Yeah. And I would just even then I don't think it was up to 18. And I think you when you have a chance, you need to watch 18. I'm not watching. Whether we do for the show or just on yourself.

SPEAKER_00 37:05

Because because I like doing it. This is good, but the next season, this next season, you're like, what the fuck, Agnes? The whole season. All right. Well, then maybe that'll be your pick.

SPEAKER_02 37:19

No. Oh, my next pick? After your pick? Okay. I have to do that. Just because I want I want I want your reaction.

SPEAKER_00 37:26

Okay. No, it's a date. I I have a I have a um I I have a show in mind for the next one.

SPEAKER_02 37:34

Okay. I'm excited. I don't know. I didn't even think about my next show, but you just told me what my next pick is. Well, it doesn't, it doesn't have to be.

SPEAKER_00 37:41

I mean, whatever. No, but um, yeah, and mine is is one that we haven't covered yet. Oh, good. I can't, I'm excited. Oh, I can't wait. Speaking of shows that I've seen, have you watched the Traders this season?

SPEAKER_02 38:01

I was benched. I'm gonna wait to the bench because it's because I want to watch it all in one shot.

SPEAKER_00 38:06

Yeah. So you saw the chick from uh Lisa. We got I told you who Lisa Renna looks like on the show, right? Yeah, you did. Oh wait, hold on, I don't want to say it out loud, but because it's it's like kind of mean. But um my brain is shutting down. But no, I saw everyone I was on it.

SPEAKER_02 38:29

But who else are you talking about?

SPEAKER_00 38:31

Oh, the chick from Ladies of London. Oh, he heard her voice and I was like, wait, huh? Alex was like, who the fuck is that bitch? I was like, oh, that's Caroline. And he was like, uh-huh. Who the fuck is Caroline? I was like, uh, some ladies of London, bitch.

SPEAKER_02 38:50

Um I like the group of people. I can't wait to see it. Yeah. Yeah. Stanberry. I can't wait to see it. Because I love traders and I want to watch it from beginning to end.

SPEAKER_00 39:02

I know. We're we're like just about caught up. But yeah. It's hard, you know, there's just not enough time for TV watching on, you know. So actually, send us more money so we can watch more TV for you guys, okay? Because we can put on more episodes too. If we could watch more TV. Supply and demand, people. I didn't.

SPEAKER_02 39:26

Do you know how much I don't want to watch TV? Because like I'll turn something on that I want to watch, and then I'm like, I'd rather not, and I'll just like lay down and go to sleep. Like, something's wrong with me. I just go to sleep.

SPEAKER_00 39:38

Yeah, that's a problem. I mean, granted, I lay in my bed and I want to go to sleep too, but it's because I'm tired, not because I don't want to watch TV, if that makes sense. Sassensifs.com, thank you for being on the bonus feed. Thank you for all your support. And go visit us for more. Don't drink and drive, drink responsibly. And until next time, I'm Lisa.

SPEAKER_02 40:06

You didn't sound too quick, you weren't too sure about that. You're like, I'm Lisa.

SPEAKER_00 40:10

I mean, I'm kind of sad. And I maybe.

SPEAKER_02 40:13

Okay. I'm Agnes. And we're gone. We're out.

SPEAKER_00 40:16

We're out of here. That's my line.

SPEAKER_02 40:20

Gone. I forgot. Steal it a pie.