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This podcast expands into the width it deserves. It provides guided moments and tools for looking at what it is to have a clear understanding of One’s Self; expressing through matter that is the power place and point of true, benevolent manifestations. There are intertwined insights and journeys into one’s self within the magnetic states of this Universe, releasing fear, accessing clear consciousness, and making space for yourself to create pockets of freedom, clarity and understanding in the relationship with yourself.
Hello and welcome to the Relevance of Now with William Linville. Hello and welcome to the Relevance of Now with William Linville. This podcast is an opportunity for you to welcome in what William is sharing and explore it for yourself in your day-to-day life and in your quiet times. Today, william is going to share clarity on creating a true loving relationship with yourself. And hey, william, hey Mike, how you doing buddy Things are wonderful, thank you. And we chose this topic because a lot of people either are home alone, living alone, or they may just feel alone within themselves, especially with less interaction with others. William, what would you like to share? First, about creating a true loving relationship with yourself.
Speaker 2To become one with yourself, to feel rather than think, feeling yourself within the physical embodiment, to feel the energy, the consciousness which is pretty remarkable, the consciousness that starts to arise when you take a moment of silence with yourself, and what that means is no exponential stimulation, no preoccupations, or it could be you in the body, if you're even feeling, because the more you quiet for a moment, the more that you're still for a moment. What starts to happen? The conscious mind fades out, and I say that being that the thought forms that have been running you, your life, what you do, when you do, how you do, and all of the levels of productivity, survival and all these elements that you're now becoming more aware of. And then what happens is old conversations, dialogues start to arise from the subconscious, which, technically, is not about the past. Obviously, they're still going on right now, because you can hear them, you're aware of them, and this isn't about old memories. This is about dimensional particles and states that you're still having within yourself through the sub psyche and all of the underlying emotions that have been charging those dialogues. And then what happens from there is that all of that stuff comes up and comes out, because you're saying, okay, you know all is well, it's all good and thank you. But no, thank you.
Speaker 2And you start welcoming all these parts of oneself out of situations, whether you were sitting at the table and you made all these decisions over a meal, or the tensions, the stress and all these beliefs based in your surrounding environments, through those dimensional planes, through the memories, and now we have the beautiful opportunity to say, yeah, you know, been there, done that, but you know that is just no longer true for myself, matter of fact, in reality, it was never about yourself. But yet we start welcoming back all these soul fragmentations of oneself, including all of yourself, with you hear so much about a clear conscience, all of yourself with you hear so much about a clear conscience. Well, this is about a clear consciousness to where? From there it comes up, it comes out, and then your body, you start to feel changes. You start to feel vibratory, radiant levels of acceleration of the vibratory frequencies in megahertz of light, which is where now you start to become clear with you what is you, and clear with what is not you.
Speaker 2And then we sit there with our physical form and all these other attributes getting played out, and one thing that's very important is that we can call it forgiveness. But let's skip forgiveness, let's say, let's call it understanding of oneself. And what I mean by that is why you do what you do when you do it, why you react when you react, why you act when you do act. It's funny, right, why you act when you do act. It's funny, right, action-reaction, which hypothetically means movement of some sort, but yet they're not clear, fluid movement. It's kind of like a big stick in the ocean or a big pylon. When you're making a pier, the water flows, but of course it hits that pylon and that pylon represents an identity within yourself. So the ocean curves around, it goes around it, just like the universe does, around throughout your lifestream and constantly moving, constantly offering. But yet that pylon is I'm at this, I'm at that, I'm lovable, I'm not lovable, I'm this, this, this, this, this, I have eating or food issues.
Speaker 2Because, well, going back to that situation at the dinner table when you started making all these decisions, which is like putting that pylon in the ocean toward the whole universe, that pylon in the ocean toward the whole universe, the universe cannot interrupt divine order. It wants to arise you, but it cannot force itself upon you. So when we go here, we're step by step, I'm saying, yeah, those pylons no longer serve. And you know those pylons, really, they were never really about me. The part that was about me is making all these decisions about that pylon or that situation and claiming it to be about oneself, embodying it, taking it into oneself to be a perceptional reality and identity that says I am bad or I am good, or the more I eat, the more I don't have to feel.
Speaker 2Or, at times, sitting down and eating with your adrenals pumping to where the body stores it because it doesn't know what else to do, and what happens is it holds on to it just in case, because that's part of why you are downing all this stuff, to either not feel or to run from the emotions now in the situations. So here, this is where we come back to the understanding of oneself, the understanding in clarity, in true interpretation versus misinterpretation, in true interpretation versus misinterpretation. Where you can sit, you can enjoy the scent, you can enjoy the flavor, you can enjoy the texture of whatever you may be consuming, or the weight of the costumes on the body, or even how the body processes, without all that fight and flight, and then we take that part of oneself that was sitting there at the dinner table, whether there was yelling and screaming, whether it was a carnality battle, and where you're able to pull that part of yourself out of there. I would even say here, understanding why you do what you do, when you do it around food or and I'm saying using food because it's more of an identifiable energy and situation, because many I mean everyone consumes some sort of sustenance.
Speaker 2But now we get back to why do I feel this angst? Why do I feel this anger? Why do I feel this rebellion? Why do I feel all this stuff about fear of being controlled, blah, blah, blah. Well, that's where we take our part of ourself. We understand ourself and we set that part of ourself free to where now it's really you consuming, not the ego trying to run from the wounds.
Speaker 2Now we get back to this as far as relationship with ourself. Number one in a relationship with yourself comes clarity and understanding of oneself, why you do what you do when you. You know there's all these groups about pushing your buttons, blah, blah, blah. But just to plant a seed here, what would life be like for yourself without any buttons, without any charged identities, without anything outside of ourself having any power or effect over how you feel about oneself. Because when you get back to the simplest terms here, you are a creator, expressing through a physical conduit, embodying within it, integrating through it, and it's all peace and wonderful, blah, blah, blah.
Speaker 2If we live somewhere on a deserted island, we have the beach, we have the palm trees, no worries. But what happens when you pick up your body in the morning, or, for some, in the evening, whatever it may be due to your schedules, to your schedules, what really has the power that you become identified with that allows the outside world to enclose around you rather than you emanating through your body, through the world? It reminds me of the whole scenario about a lighthouse. Now, a lighthouse is a funny thing because could you imagine if the dark disk enclosed upon the lighthouse and the lighthouse became dimmer and dimmer until eventually it's a flicker, until eventually it just the light doesn't exist, closing in on you, and I say the world, not something to be afraid of, definitely not an enemy.
Exploring True Relationship With Yourself
Speaker 2It's all the mass collective thought forms that are constantly bombarding you, and that's before we've even come of age, before you go through your family, monads, blah, blah, blah about who you are, who you're supposed to be. You're a success, you're a failure, blah, blah, blah From the exponential world that's been given so much power to define you, which goes into defining how you feel, and then we take all the skills or lack of, from coming of age and you act and react to it. Well, what happens right now is we all just go to a deserted island, anyone any kind you want, well, or even a jungle. Jungles are beautiful, but they could be a place to hide, they could be a place of refuge, or, for others, they can be a place of fear based upon the unknown. Now, what happens?
Speaker 2When we go there, we are just really the light, the lighthouse. We're just really creator, as you, as that light integrating and expressing through a physical form where we don't have anything to base anything on. And as we don't have anything to base anything upon, we are completely present because you don't know any different base anything upon. We are completely present because you don't know any different, and you're present because you're not allowing the outside world to define you. You're not allowing for the what ifs, the unknown in the jungle, to become afraid because you don't know to be afraid. That was taught as well, and this is where we really get to know yourself how you actually feel, not how you were taught, believed, perceived and supposed to feel.
Speaker 1Excellent Is another way to say creating a true loving relationship with yourself. It is creating a true loving relationship with your heart.
Speaker 2Well, the heart part, you know, that's where it is the major part of yourself. It's the passion, the compassion, the joy, the bliss, without any judgment, because the heart doesn't think it emanates, doesn't think it emanates. And becoming one with yourself is becoming one with the heart, which is the centralized chakra-level vortex and portal vortex within yourself. That's truly how and where you, as creator, emanate through the world to where we're no longer playing with the conscious results as matter. We're playing with you as creator, expressing through the matter that now is the beautiful power place and power point of true benevolent manifestations.
Speaker 1And it made me think about that because you were mentioning a number of times how creating a true relationship with yourself and understanding yourself is based on feeling. All feeling resides in the essence of the heart.
Speaker 2Absolutely. Emotion resides in the portals and the cellars and the basements of the ego.
Speaker 1In your book Relationships with Everything and Everyone. I cut out a chapter that you could comment on further In the A True Loving Relationship of the Heart with your Lifestream. This chapter says for the only disease here, the only conflict, is a lack of love, or shall I say a lack of you. It's primality, it is a defense. It's also the angst of an offense of protectiveness, but yet of an offense of protectiveness, but yet it's still the absence of you. It has nothing to do with a relationship, not even with oneself. It has to do with the absence of a relationship. It has everything to do with the automated automatic pilot primality, pilot primality, carnivorousness. It has everything to do with automatic pilot of primality. It has nothing to do with the outside. It has everything to do with work and domination and how would you expand on that writing the heart in?
Speaker 2you have no beliefs, you have no polarities, danger, fear, carnality, survival does not exist. It's that constant state of isness, that constant state of expressiveness, expansiveness, until you bought into being taught that that's not okay, that it doesn't fit into the box, then others, maybe the world, maybe families, partners, whatever it doesn't fit into that it's a blast to play through all of it. But no longer being dictated, dominated, boxed in, ran by the fear levels of what if? The fear levels of rejection, the fear levels of betrayal, the fear levels of abandonment, the fear levels of not being accepted, their fear levels of not being good enough.
Speaker 2And right now, let's just all take a breath for a moment. Let's really within ourself. There's you, then there's the mind, then there's the body. There's you, then there's the mind, then there's the body. There's even the soul level, the Akashic record realms. Right now, let's just take a breath, a slow, gentle breath, in through your nose, through your whole torso, hold and now just gently exhaling as if you're attempting to whistle. It's really right now. Let everything around you, even the ego, you, the belief system, you, let's just let it disappear, Anything and everything that represents protection, survival. It could be your car, it could be your home, it could be I don't know your costumes, your offsprings, blah, blah, blah. Let's just take a breath together and let's look at all these areas that the mind slash, the belief system, slash emotional levels of consciousness. Let's really look at it for a moment and ask ourself what, where and how Do I perceive myself to even potentially be threatened? All this stuff is taught, but all this stuff that's been taught is all based in time what it could have, should have, what if and all that fun stuff. So right now, let's just see what it's like within ourselves. They have nothing to protect. They have nothing to fight for. They also have nothing to stand up for, have nothing to prove to validate the ego as a live deity, kind of like.
Speaker 2If I'm a CEO, that makes me a XYZ. Actually it doesn't make you anything. Maybe it puts your body on a different floor in a building, but that's pretty much about it. Doesn't make you smart, doesn't make you ignorant you're still you. Doesn't make you important, doesn't make you not important, doesn't even make you a corporate executive. Those are all boxes. So let's just really connect with you without any reflection of what the exponential world says about you. Financial world says about you, because now we really get to see from you and through you, what do you really enjoy. Not what you were taught to enjoy, what really puts a wiggle in your step. Not what you were taught to, but now we're getting to the true reality of oneself, Of you.
Speaker 2You, if you enjoy boating, great, but it doesn't make you a sailor or a captain, it just makes you in a state of enjoying being on the water. No boxes. If you enjoy doing plumbing, great, but it doesn't make you a plumber. It's just something you enjoy doing, or exploring, for that matter. So we're taking off all these labels, all these boxes. It's not just about a word game. It's a lot more deeper and in-depth, because it's all stuff that you do that still has nothing to do with you.
Speaker 1Thanks for that, william. And when we're really caught up in some emotion in our day-to-day life and it could even be something that we're, that it's been a long-term fear of ours and when we take a moment and we notice it, it's not necessarily something that we are going to move beyond instantaneously, to move beyond instantaneously, but in that moment how can we move beyond it to get back to connect to our true essence?
Speaker 2our true heart. Number one ask yourself where do I feel threatened? Why am I feeling threatened? And number two would be does this in the big scheme of everything, does this really matter? And then, connecting with your body, let's go back to the heart and we just take a nice breath into the heart and through the diaphragm, letting the solar plexus close down, let's hold and let's exhale and let's ask ourselves what here really matters to me, not the personality, not the ego.
Speaker 2And even asking ourselves is what the situation around me presenting is it true about me?
Speaker 2And you start to realize that no, it has nothing to do with you, except you went into carnality, you went into survival, you went into internalizing all these exponential levels and states of self-preservation.
Speaker 2Now let's just take another breath, even right now, even looking around you physically, feeling around you physically, are you really truly in danger? And then asking yourself once again is what is going on around me really even about me? And that's where you start to be able to separate you from the ego, you from the mind, you from all the filters. That allows for a whole nother wave of yourself to come in, which is a whole nother wave of love as well, a whole nother wave of light as well and you start to look at okay, so this situation's going on here, it's going on there, on and on and on. And what belief system do I have that says this is not matching my belief system, which has you go into a state of panic survival. Which has you go into a state of panic survival as you go into a state of feeling threatened because it just doesn't put, it just doesn't fit into the boxes that you've previously put in place via past experiences.
Speaker 1Here's another question Will Often, in thinking about a relationship with ourselves, we feel a lot of responsibility Uh-huh when it comes to, and the responsibility is based on our beliefs, and what are we truly responsible for?
Speaker 2all comes down to it. There's different levels to it, there's a divine responsibility, and on that one I would say to integrate, to embody the love, the light beingness that is you, and to express, not creating another religion, not creating another belief system, but the more love that you express, the more that you express, the more freedom of judgment that you allow yourself to have. How it affects not only you, not only your family. Now it's not even your homes, your work environment. It goes not even just the planet, although it affects all of the above, but it goes beyond the planet to affecting the whole universe and the magnetic calibrations of how this universe spirals, how the magnetics that are holding the very planetary states in place. And Oswell is going beyond this Milky Way, this galaxy, and it goes beyond that to all the other Milky Ways and galaxies. And it goes through all the wormholes, black holes, all the way to your source consciousness. And it goes into your source consciousness as your source consciousness is coming down within and throughout yourself. And it's what sananda goes back and says that I and my father are one, which means I and my creator are one, the creator in which I am a facet of and we're.
Speaker 2You know, all this other preoccupation stuff, all the other identification stuff really starts to break away, dissolve. But yet here you come, it's part of the journey. You know, it's kind of like health and vitality. Health and vitality is the easy part. That's you, that's you coming in through the body, all the systems working, firing, running forth in communion and harmony, as yourself, with the whole universe, until you start receiving or deciding that this is that, that's that, that's that, that's that. And it's just how the mind works at times, not the ego, but the mind. The mind wants to put everything in boxes. Now, it wants to put everything in boxes. Let's call it categorizing, if you will, or compartmentalizing. Ego comes in to judge it, to be a this or a that, or a that or a this or danger, on and on and on. Now, many dear ones will share with you. You need an ego, and what I hear there is. So you need a part of yourself, polarized, dualized and absent of oneself, to survive.
Speaker 1Well, I'm not into surviving, I'm into living and some people feel selfish if they put their attention on creating, developing themselves or assisting themselves and that was along the lines of asking about responsibility, because they feel a lot of responsibility for others. And what would you say to people that feel it's a little bit selfish for me to focus on creating a true loving relationship with myself?
Speaker 2Let's put that in perspective. We can be, or at least perceivably attempt to be, responsible for everyone else, perceivably attempt to be responsible for everyone else, but there's a fine line between being responsible for others and controlling them. Those kind of fit into the same umbrella, and so we're going to take responsibility of how they feel, what they think, what they're doing, what they're not doing, especially when it comes to little ones. Your job with little ones is to guide, not control. Now for yourself, let's really put this once again in perspective. The more that you put attention upon oneself, it's a double whammy because it becomes selfless, because you're dissolving defectus yourself. And then, on the other side, you're also being true to oneself, but now it's kind of like goes back to I am my beloved, or one, or I am my father, or one said Sananda or Yeshuahiva Joseph, technically. But then you look at, okay, if I explore and really get to know oneself on all levels, in every dimension, well, let's really, as we put this in perspective now, let's look at long-term, permanent, beneficial change for all concerned, because now you're honoring yourself and you're still selfless. Selfish is okay, this is mine, that's mine, you can't touch it, don't look at me and you know, that's a whole difference. That's like an ego definition of selfishness. Now we're going into more selflessness, being true to oneself, to where, through the genetics, through the dna, through the cellular vibratory levels, we're actually affecting all the dear ones within our life, everyone around us, especially through the family mode. And it goes all the way through lineage after lineage of repetition of genetics and branching off of genetics. But right now, as you're being true to oneself and true to oneself, you can call selfish because you're focused on being the best you can be, which means you're being honest with yourself, having integrity with oneself, clear within yourself. But genetically, dna, cellularly, biologically, on and on, you're affecting the planet. You're affecting all the dear ones through the family monad. You're affecting all the dear ones through the family monad. You're becoming that missing link that is now being connected and amplifying, which allows for everyone and everything to be affected with so much more ease and grace, so much more love.
Speaker 2I remember situations where a dear one, she had a lot of father issues and issues with males, blah, blah, blah, and hadn't talked to the father in 17, 20 plus years, whatever. But the day she decided to let go, she decided to look at it right in the eyes and address what was really going on, not all this ego, fictitiousness. Guess who called that night. They feel it. It's not a happy-go-lucky, it's not even an osmosis. It's a magnetic current through the DNA, through the genetics, through this various cellular and vibratory levels, that goes dimensionally where you just let them off the hook. You don't have to have them let you off the hook, but you let them off the hook to where now?
Speaker 2That affected their biology. It affected their heart. It also affected their thought processes, their heart. It also affected their thought processes and it also opened up a door that let go of all the old family monad matrices, magnetically. That all stayed in a certain way shape and form to where it came from. It affected them. Then it affected their soul, then it affected the emotional calibration latticework. Then the message went all the way through the subconscious to the conscious and all of a sudden they had a wave of love through their heart and your face showed up for them and I can't say they're always conscious of it, but it doesn't change the facts of what's going on.
Speaker 1Wow, fantastic, william, and as we run forth with creating and putting our attention on creating a true loving relationship with ourselves, is there any additional thing you'd like to share?
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Speaker 2to close, yeah, you know, I would encourage everyone, I'd say pretty much, with everything that you enjoy, everything you do, everything that you experience, even all the way to the simplicity of, um, what you're, what you consume within your body, and asking yourself just stop for a moment. I mean, there's habits. You get up, you make coffee, you do this, you do that, you wear this color, that color, not that color. Just to stop for a minute, take a breath. Because when we pump the brakes like that and we say, why am I doing what I'm doing? Do I even enjoy coffee? Do I enjoy this color, this fabric?
Speaker 2Do I enjoy what I may be doing for abundance each day, yay or nay, and you know where you really get to become clearer within yourself and also building more of a relationship within yourself, to get to know yourself, to see what is really autopilot and what is really you, what is really repetitiveness of action, words and deeds based upon others and society and what you've seen, what you've experienced, what you've witnessed, all the way back to what am I doing? Why am I doing it? These are things that create all these pockets of freedom within yourself and more clarity, understanding and just really grows and grows exponentially with the relationship with oneself and the understanding of oneself.
Speaker 1Thank you, william, for all that powerful wisdom to apply to our life, to assist our lives, and thank you all for joining us on the Relevance of Now, and please click subscribe to hear our upcoming podcasts on new and relevant topics.
Speaker 2Well, I love you, Michael. Great job, buddy, as always.
Speaker 1Love you too, will, and thank you everyone, take care.
Speaker 2Namaste.