What Your Team Is Really Learning From You: Leadership Lessons That Stick

The Business & Pleasure of Flowers

The Business & Pleasure of Flowers
What Your Team Is Really Learning From You: Leadership Lessons That Stick
Aug 11, 2026 Episode 346

Episode 346:  What makes a great leader? It turns out, it’s probably not having all the answers.

In this episode, Vonda and Lori unpack a list of management lessons that still ring true after 20 years of leadership—and talk about what they look like in the real world of small business and flower shops.

They dig into why great leaders have to repeat themselves (more than they think they should), how a lack of clarity can look like a performance problem, and why motivating your team may be less important than removing the friction that’s getting in their way.

They also tackle one of the biggest challenges for flower shop owners: letting go. How do you build systems, delegate responsibility, and create a team that can keep the “flywheel” spinning without being dependent on you for every decision?

And then there’s the leadership lesson that might sting a little: your team copies what you tolerate, not what you say.

From difficult employees and avoided conversations to trust, consistency, curiosity, ego, and emotional regulation, Vonda and Lori share what they’ve learned from leading the Flower Clique team—and from years of conversations with flower shop owners.

The biggest takeaway? The longer you lead, the more you realize leadership isn’t about certainty. It’s about staying curious, keeping an open mind, and being willing to ask, Could there be a better way?

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