The Fear of Irrelevance

The Art & Soul Show - Photography Podcast for Newborn and Family Photographers

The Art & Soul Show - Photography Podcast for Newborn and Family Photographers
The Fear of Irrelevance
May 27, 2026 Episode 292
Lisa DiGeso, The Milky Way

"Trends burn fast. But timeless work lasts."

There's a fear most photographers carry around but rarely say out loud. It's not just fear of competition or a slow season. It's deeper and sneakier than that. It's the fear of irrelevance. That whisper at midnight when you're scrolling Instagram, wondering if your best days are already behind you.

In this episode, I'm getting honest about all the ways this fear shows up. The new photographer in town who's suddenly booked solid. The longtime client who books someone else's minis. The trend cycle that makes you question whether your style is outdated before you've even had your morning coffee. And I'm redefining what relevance actually means, because it has nothing to do with likes, presets, or algorithms.

This episode will leave you remembering why the work you do matters and why no new trend, no cheaper photographer, and no viral reel can take that away from you.

What's in this episode: 

[00:00:30] The fear of irrelevance and why we rarely name it 
[00:01:00] When a new photographer in town triggers the spiral 
[00:01:30] Longtime clients, trend cycles, and the midnight scroll 
[00:02:30] Why the fear of irrelevance is really about belonging 
[00:03:30] Why chasing trends puts your voice at risk 
[00:04:30] Redefining relevance as impact, not popularity 
[00:06:00] A little humor break because sometimes we need to laugh at ourselves 
[00:07:00] What you need to remember the next time the fear creeps in

If you've ever declared yourself irrelevant because a reel flopped or a new photographer got all the hype, this one is going to feel like a deep exhale.

For full show notes, resources, links and to download the transcript, visit our website: https://themilkyway.ca/podcast/



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