This Contest Taught Me My Highest Value

The Art & Soul Show - Photography Podcast for Newborn and Family Photographers

The Art & Soul Show - Photography Podcast for Newborn and Family Photographers
This Contest Taught Me My Highest Value
Apr 15, 2026 Episode 284
Lisa DiGeso, The Milky Way

“Sometimes losing is exactly what reveals your highest value.”

There was a time when a simple Facebook cover contest left me devastated. I wanted the win, the validation, the proof that I belonged. But when the results came in and I realized the winning photographer had bought likes, something unexpected happened. I discovered the deeper truth about what I value most in my business and in myself.

In this episode, I share the story that taught me my highest value and why integrity has outlasted every trend, contest, and moment of comparison. You will hear how this experience reshaped the way I measure success, why shortcuts never build long-term businesses, and how knowing your highest value can anchor you in every season of entrepreneurship.

What’s in this episode:

[00:35] The Facebook photography contest that sent me spiraling
[01:45] Why the competition loss hurt more than I expected
[04:25] The invisible contests photographers compete in every day
[05:10] Why shortcuts never build sustainable success
[06:00] Understanding what your highest value really is
[07:30] Reframing losing and defining success on your own terms

Integrity will carry your business farther than any contest, trend, or temporary win. When you root your work in what you value most, you build something no one can take from you.

For full show notes, resources, links and to download the transcript, visit our website: https://themilkyway.ca/podcast/

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