Is Over Delivering Actually Overcompensating Because You Are Scared ? … Because Same

The Art & Soul Show - Photography Podcast for Newborn and Family Photographers

The Art & Soul Show - Photography Podcast for Newborn and Family Photographers
Is Over Delivering Actually Overcompensating Because You Are Scared ? … Because Same
Apr 22, 2026 Episode 264
Lisa DiGeso, The Milky Way

“Is overdelivering actually just overcompensating because you’re scared?”

That thought struck me because sometimes the urge to give more and more isn’t just generosity, it’s fear. Fear of not being enough, fear of disappointing clients, fear of rejection.

In this episode, I’m unpacking the tension between generosity and overcompensation. I’m sharing how I’ve learned to find the sweet spot where giving feels joyful, not draining and why believing your work and presence are enough might be the most generous gift of all.

What’s in this episode:

  • [00:35] Why overdelivering isn’t always generosity
  • [01:45] How fear sneaks in and moves the bar higher and higher
  • [03:00] What clients actually want (hint: not hundreds of images)
  • [04:15] The endless loop of overdelivering and exhaustion
  • [05:45] Experiments with setting limits and boundaries
  • [07:20] Learning to sit with “enough” and trust your art
  • [08:00] Why generosity rooted in fear isn’t generosity at all

If you’ve ever felt caught in the loop of ‘more, more, more,’ this episode is a reminder that your art, your presence, and your energy are already enough

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