Breaking News: It Wasn’t “Their Fault” After All

Five minutes can change the tone of your whole day. We open with a look at why our culture feels more brittle and quick to blame, then trace how that reflex keeps us stuck in old pain. A wry poem about excuses becomes a mirror, showing how easily we outsource responsibility for our words and actions. From there, we pivot to a gentler but more demanding path: taking ownership without shame and finding real rest by laying down what we’ve carried for years.

We share how past wounds prime our reactions, why triggers feel so powerful, and what it looks like to interrupt that cycle before it spills into hurtful words or even violence. With scripture as our guide, we explore a hope-filled promise of becoming new—where identity is not chained to yesterday’s scars and healing is more than a slogan. Verses about mended hearts and real rest ground the conversation, offering a practical rhythm for release: pause, pray, own your part, forgive, and move forward with grace. This isn’t perfectionism; it’s a realistic, compassionate way to grow stronger than the pressures around us.

As headlines amplify outrage and cancel culture, we highlight a different center of gravity—an inner oasis that steadies us to respond with clarity, compassion, and courage. You’ll hear simple steps to reset your day, lighten your load, and choose peace where blame once ruled. If you’re ready to trade the blame game for a grounded, joyful start, this short reflection will meet you right where you are and point you toward a lighter way to live.

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Transcript

Society’s Breakdown And Blame

The Poem Of Passing The Buck

Scripture On New Life And Healing

Finding Peace Amid Culture Wars

Closing And Daily Invite

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Good morning and welcome to Starting Right with Danny Mack. I'm going to be here every Monday to Friday to help you get a great five-minute start to your day. So grab your cup of coffee, sit back, relax, and let me help you start your day right. Hey, good morning, everybody. Before I went to bed the other night, I was watching the news. Now I know that that's probably not the greatest way to set yourself up for a good night's sleep, but I happened to be doing it this night, and I caught part of an interview where these two people were talking about some of the things that are breaking down in our society, the changes that have taken place over this last three years, why they're breaking down, why people are becoming less civilized towards each other in so many different ways. And one of the things that they said caught my attention. They referred to a study by a major university that showed that people are increasingly blaming other people for their own bad behavior. Now, we all know that's been around for a long time, but this study showed the increase of this action over the last while has been significant. People are not taking responsibility for their own actions. They feel they can say anything, do anything, and even become violent towards someone based upon the words or actions of someone else. And it's not their fault, it's the other person's fault. In Billy Graham's book, How to Be Born Again, he quoted this poem. I went to my psychiatrist to be psychoanalyzed to find out why I killed the cat and blackened my husband's eyes. He laid me on a downy couch to see what he could find, and here is what he dredged up from my subconscious mind. When I was one, my mommy hid my dolly in a trunk, so it follows naturally that I am always drunk. When I was two, I saw my father kiss the maid one day, and that is why I suffer from kleptomania today. At three I had the feeling of ambivalence towards my brothers. And so it follows naturally now that I poison all my lovers. But I am happy now. I've learned the lesson that this is taught, that everything I do that's wrong is someone else's fault. It seems like we're born with this innate desire to blame someone else when we do something wrong. It's not my fault, it's not my fault. They did this to me first. My kids used to do that. They'd wind up in an all-out slug fest and it boiled down to, well, he hit me first. It's really kind of sad that we do that, but we do. We want to blame someone else for our actions because of what they did first. Over in Second Corinthians chapter 5 and verse 17, it tells us that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone and a new life has begun. We often forget all that Christ has done for us, and the fact that He has given us a brand new life. We don't have to let our scars and our hurts from the past dominate what we do and who we are. He came so that we could have a freedom from the past and a healing for all of those things. In Psalm 147, verse 3, it says, He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds. Then in Matthew 11, 28, Jesus said, Come to me all of you who are weary, and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. A lot of those burdens of things that people have said or done to us in the past are incredibly heavy burdens, and yet we carry them around for years and years and years, and all they do is cripple us and hinder us and make us sensitive to those tender areas of our lives that were bruised and were hurt, and in many cases will then cause us to lash out because of what someone else has said or done. I'm so grateful that God doesn't expect us to live lives that are perfect, because I know I could never do it. We can't live perfect lives. We're going to make mistakes, we're going to react to people and things in ways that we shouldn't. But God continually reaches out to us and says, I can help you do better than that. I can help you be stronger than that. I can take care of that burden that you're carrying around and that weight that you're carrying around, and I can remove it from you so that you can start to experience love and compassion and grace and give you the joy that you want and need so desperately in your life. Well, things may be getting crazier around us, and we're seeing cancel culture, we're seeing arguments and physical fights and violent protests, and we're seeing all these things happening around us. In the middle of all of that, there is an oasis of peace that God has for us, and it starts with what He does deep down inside of us, and it then permeates all that we are, so that we can truly have peace and joy in our lives. I hope you have a great day, my friends. We will talk again tomorrow. Thank you for listening today. And I invite you to join me Monday to Friday right here on Starting Right with Danny Mack.