1 00:00:02,023 --> 00:00:04,546 Speaker 1: Had you actually read the email, you would know that 2 00:00:04,567 --> 00:00:07,812 the podcast you are about to listen to could contain explicit 3 00:00:07,812 --> 00:00:09,814 language and offensive content. 4 00:00:09,814 --> 00:00:14,474 These HR experts' views are not representative of their past, 5 00:00:14,814 --> 00:00:16,480 present or future employers. 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:19,707 If you have ever heard my manager is unfair to me. 7 00:00:19,707 --> 00:00:24,722 I need you to reset my HR portal password, or Can I write 8 00:00:24,762 --> 00:00:26,548 up my employee for crying too much? 9 00:00:26,548 --> 00:00:28,827 Welcome to our little safe zone . 10 00:00:55,776 --> 00:00:59,357 Speaker 2: Welcome to Jaded HR, the podcast by two HR 11 00:00:59,378 --> 00:01:02,542 professionals who want to help you get through the workday by 12 00:01:02,582 --> 00:01:05,171 saying everything you're thinking, but say it out loud. 13 00:01:05,171 --> 00:01:06,013 I'm Warren. 14 00:01:06,736 --> 00:01:09,927 I'm Cece, all right, and I'm going to keep that intro in 15 00:01:09,947 --> 00:01:12,927 there, as I saw it went down 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, and we were still 16 00:01:12,968 --> 00:01:14,352 talking, so I'm going to keep that in there. 17 00:01:14,352 --> 00:01:17,900 That person is not one of my favorite people on earth, but 18 00:01:18,099 --> 00:01:18,721 anyhow. 19 00:01:18,721 --> 00:01:23,024 So yeah, you know, we were just talking off air. 20 00:01:23,024 --> 00:01:27,266 It seems like there was no big deal or drama or anything from 21 00:01:27,287 --> 00:01:28,246 the SHRM conference. 22 00:01:28,246 --> 00:01:34,951 I didn't see any really I don't know what demonizing posts 23 00:01:35,111 --> 00:01:37,033 about SHRM 2025. 24 00:01:37,033 --> 00:01:39,715 I didn't see anything terrific either. 25 00:01:39,715 --> 00:01:41,897 I didn't see, and SHRM didn't put a lot of stuff. 26 00:01:41,897 --> 00:01:42,736 I did look on LinkedIn a little bit. 27 00:01:42,736 --> 00:01:43,677 I didn't spend a lot of stuff. 28 00:01:43,677 --> 00:01:44,978 I did look on linkedin a little bit. 29 00:01:44,978 --> 00:01:47,906 I didn't spend a lot of time on it but to see what sherm was 30 00:01:47,965 --> 00:01:52,287 posting about sherm 2025, and I didn't see it was very quiet a 31 00:01:52,307 --> 00:01:53,430 heck of a lot I did see some stuff. 32 00:01:54,013 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 3: I did see some positive stuff on reddit. 33 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,346 People said they got stuff out of it. 34 00:01:57,346 --> 00:02:01,058 I was even on the, the subreddit for hr, and someone 35 00:02:01,078 --> 00:02:01,921 was talking about some stuff. 36 00:02:01,921 --> 00:02:04,447 They learned about succession and talent management and I'm 37 00:02:04,465 --> 00:02:06,631 like, ooh, I want to share your notes and I was trying to, but 38 00:02:06,650 --> 00:02:11,001 no, I was just going to say. 39 00:02:11,001 --> 00:02:13,687 I just think that for the most part, people, people had a good 40 00:02:13,707 --> 00:02:13,949 time. 41 00:02:13,949 --> 00:02:15,271 So yay. 42 00:02:16,759 --> 00:02:19,126 Speaker 2: Well, we were also talking off the fair that I 43 00:02:19,145 --> 00:02:23,145 hadn't listened to any podcasts in about a month, but I listened 44 00:02:23,145 --> 00:02:26,539 to our episode from the beginning of June this evening 45 00:02:26,659 --> 00:02:30,311 on my way home and, boy, I uploaded the wrong episode with 46 00:02:30,331 --> 00:02:34,883 the edits and it was partially edited and then the intro comes 47 00:02:34,903 --> 00:02:35,585 like midways. 48 00:02:35,585 --> 00:02:39,741 I didn't do my job, so the audio quality sucked on that one 49 00:02:39,741 --> 00:02:40,701 , and it was. 50 00:02:40,701 --> 00:02:42,463 It was really badly done. 51 00:02:42,463 --> 00:02:48,050 But one that came to mind speaking of SHRM, and this 52 00:02:48,091 --> 00:02:51,234 popped in my head because you wanted to go to the PSYOPs Is 53 00:02:51,274 --> 00:02:52,996 that what it's called, yeah, convention? 54 00:02:53,860 --> 00:02:58,149 And I was like, what organization out there is there 55 00:02:58,188 --> 00:03:00,274 that could potentially replace SHRM? 56 00:03:00,274 --> 00:03:10,941 You know you have Hacking HR, you have, oh, you have. 57 00:03:10,941 --> 00:03:12,163 There's a couple of contenders out there, but I think that 58 00:03:12,182 --> 00:03:13,485 might be a topic for another episode. 59 00:03:13,485 --> 00:03:17,312 And, dear listener, go to the show notes and send us a text 60 00:03:17,552 --> 00:03:22,467 and give us your ideas of what you think might be a replacement 61 00:03:22,467 --> 00:03:23,730 for SHRM is. 62 00:03:23,730 --> 00:03:26,943 I was thinking you have you know what, what is out there 63 00:03:27,024 --> 00:03:29,389 that that could replace SHRM? 64 00:03:29,389 --> 00:03:33,925 So, anyways, we will, we will talk about that, but I'm. 65 00:03:34,165 --> 00:03:37,152 Speaker 3: I am very biased towards PSYOP, but yeah, just 66 00:03:37,199 --> 00:03:41,854 because it's, it's PSYOP the Society for Industrial 67 00:03:41,913 --> 00:03:46,168 Organizational Psychology so it's very science-based, which I 68 00:03:46,168 --> 00:03:50,711 like, but it is not SIOP, the International Pediatric Oncology 69 00:03:50,711 --> 00:03:51,211 Congress. 70 00:03:51,211 --> 00:03:53,187 That is not the SIOP I'm talking about. 71 00:03:53,439 --> 00:03:55,407 Speaker 2: I know nothing about pediatric oncology. 72 00:03:55,407 --> 00:03:57,745 Yeah, that's something awful to think about. 73 00:03:58,527 --> 00:03:59,189 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. 74 00:03:59,189 --> 00:04:01,649 But no, I just did a really quick Google. 75 00:04:01,649 --> 00:04:03,486 It came up number one. 76 00:04:03,486 --> 00:04:04,860 I was like I should probably clarify. 77 00:04:04,860 --> 00:04:05,901 But yeah, I should probably clarify. 78 00:04:05,901 --> 00:04:07,122 But yeah, I like it. 79 00:04:07,122 --> 00:04:11,205 It's more of a scientific practice than some of the. 80 00:04:11,205 --> 00:04:13,507 I think some of the stuff you talk about, warren, where it's 81 00:04:13,586 --> 00:04:19,071 like the fluffy stuff, the feel-good stuff, like the stuff 82 00:04:19,091 --> 00:04:20,971 that makes me roll my eyes because it feels like a 83 00:04:21,052 --> 00:04:24,875 pseudoscience, but PSYOP makes it feel like it's an actual 84 00:04:24,935 --> 00:04:25,375 science. 85 00:04:25,375 --> 00:04:27,737 So that's why maybe that's the answer. 86 00:04:31,180 --> 00:04:32,548 Speaker 2: I might check into some of that, as that seems 87 00:04:32,567 --> 00:04:33,694 really, really cool. 88 00:04:34,259 --> 00:04:36,341 But yeah, you were mentioning that in that episode I was 89 00:04:36,380 --> 00:04:38,367 listening to on the way home today. 90 00:04:38,367 --> 00:04:39,189 I was like, oh okay. 91 00:04:39,189 --> 00:04:44,303 Well, there's two big things sort of happening in the world 92 00:04:44,423 --> 00:04:49,350 right now, and one being today, July 8th, is the start of Amazon 93 00:04:49,350 --> 00:04:53,769 Prime week, so I am guilty of shopping online. 94 00:04:53,769 --> 00:04:59,612 I bought myself it, so it was on Prime from like $45 to $17. 95 00:04:59,612 --> 00:05:02,428 I do some woodworking on the side. 96 00:05:02,428 --> 00:05:06,644 I got a new pocket hole jig, so I went online. 97 00:05:06,663 --> 00:05:09,627 I got got a new pocket hole jig, so I went online. 98 00:05:09,627 --> 00:05:10,627 I got myself a new pocket hole jig. 99 00:05:10,627 --> 00:05:12,028 It's a Vivor, whatever the brand is. 100 00:05:12,028 --> 00:05:13,430 I've had a couple of those things. 101 00:05:13,430 --> 00:05:14,130 It's Chinese. 102 00:05:14,130 --> 00:05:17,634 It's not total crap, but it's, you know, for the price. 103 00:05:17,634 --> 00:05:21,821 I'll take it, and I needed a new one anyway, and at $17, if 104 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,567 it lasts me a project or two, I'll be happy. 105 00:05:24,567 --> 00:05:26,411 That's why I bought for myself. 106 00:05:26,411 --> 00:05:28,925 I bought one thing on Amazon Prime today. 107 00:05:28,925 --> 00:05:32,581 I did bookmark a couple things or put it in a wish list to 108 00:05:32,620 --> 00:05:35,728 share with my wife see if we're going to be interested in it. 109 00:05:35,728 --> 00:05:36,451 But how about you? 110 00:05:36,451 --> 00:05:39,644 Did you do your online shopping instead of working today? 111 00:05:40,805 --> 00:05:43,891 Speaker 3: First of all, I just need to ask are you like the 112 00:05:43,951 --> 00:05:46,293 real world version of ron swanson? 113 00:05:46,795 --> 00:05:51,028 Speaker 2: oh, many ways I am, except he had an awesome head of 114 00:05:51,028 --> 00:05:51,309 hair. 115 00:05:51,309 --> 00:05:54,742 I used to claim myself as a libertarian, I don't anymore, 116 00:05:54,982 --> 00:05:59,492 but yeah, and strangely enough, watching parks and rec, we wore 117 00:05:59,572 --> 00:06:00,680 a lot of the same wardrobe. 118 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,166 The exact same like long sleeve and I. 119 00:06:03,166 --> 00:06:07,584 The brand is Hagar long sleeve polos and I had some of the 120 00:06:07,644 --> 00:06:10,334 exact same ones that Ron Swanson had. 121 00:06:10,334 --> 00:06:13,884 And I remember one time we're watching an episode and my wife 122 00:06:13,944 --> 00:06:17,572 says you're wearing the exact same shirt as he is and I was 123 00:06:18,420 --> 00:06:18,701 yeah. 124 00:06:18,701 --> 00:06:21,947 So yeah, I, I can be a bit of a Ron Swanson. 125 00:06:21,947 --> 00:06:24,612 I'm actually in the process right now of over. 126 00:06:24,692 --> 00:06:27,706 When I was in the hospital I was supposed to be building a shed. 127 00:06:27,706 --> 00:06:30,007 I bought all the wood and everything to build a shed. 128 00:06:30,007 --> 00:06:31,865 Well, not, I thought I bought all the wood. 129 00:06:31,865 --> 00:06:35,404 The kit company shorted me and I've been running to Home Depot 130 00:06:35,425 --> 00:06:39,161 a few times, but which is not close to me, but anyways, been 131 00:06:39,300 --> 00:06:41,622 doing that and so I didn't do it . 132 00:06:41,622 --> 00:06:44,305 Memorial Day weekend, I did as much as I could. 133 00:06:44,305 --> 00:06:48,387 Fourth of July weekend, until I ran out of some needed lumber. 134 00:06:48,387 --> 00:06:51,430 But yeah, I love, I like woodworking, I like doing things 135 00:06:51,430 --> 00:06:55,113 with my hands, I like getting out there and doing stuff. 136 00:06:55,113 --> 00:06:58,757 Yeah, I could definitely be compared to Ron Swanson. 137 00:06:58,757 --> 00:07:02,761 I identify with him very much. 138 00:07:02,781 --> 00:07:04,863 Put those tears back in your eyes where they belong. 139 00:07:04,863 --> 00:07:07,026 Put those tears back in your eyes where they belong. 140 00:07:07,047 --> 00:07:08,507 Speaker 3: Put them back in your eyes where they belong. 141 00:07:08,507 --> 00:07:10,149 As for Amazon Prime, I didn't. 142 00:07:10,149 --> 00:07:14,355 Well, I did some shopping, so I magically passed CC. 143 00:07:14,355 --> 00:07:23,442 I was actually looking out for future CC because I did one of 144 00:07:23,463 --> 00:07:24,946 those things where I had things in my shopping cart and I 145 00:07:24,966 --> 00:07:25,666 thought I ordered it but I forgot. 146 00:07:25,666 --> 00:07:26,908 So, anyway, I remember today, and like half the things or most 147 00:07:26,908 --> 00:07:29,052 , I would say like all of the things were marked down that 148 00:07:29,093 --> 00:07:31,526 were already in my shopping cart , so I was like perfect. 149 00:07:31,526 --> 00:07:33,987 And then nothing really entertaining though. 150 00:07:33,987 --> 00:07:38,406 I just bought some new clothes for Bean and she got a new 151 00:07:38,446 --> 00:07:39,468 electric toothbrush too. 152 00:07:39,468 --> 00:07:44,526 So yeah, I know we're brushing teeth and we're almost walking. 153 00:07:44,666 --> 00:07:46,802 Speaker 2: So she's a big girl I was going to ask Almost there 154 00:07:46,884 --> 00:07:47,264 walking. 155 00:07:47,264 --> 00:07:50,625 Walking doesn't last long before it's running. 156 00:07:50,625 --> 00:07:52,069 And then that's. 157 00:07:52,391 --> 00:07:52,711 Speaker 3: Yeah. 158 00:07:52,711 --> 00:07:54,225 So, here's a funny story. 159 00:07:54,225 --> 00:07:56,466 I got up out of bed this morning and I went down the 160 00:07:56,485 --> 00:07:58,411 stairs and my knee started to randomly click. 161 00:07:58,411 --> 00:08:01,064 And I'm like, why is my knee clicking as I go down the stairs 162 00:08:01,064 --> 00:08:01,064 ? 163 00:08:01,064 --> 00:08:04,951 And then I'm like, is this a permanent thing, or is this a 164 00:08:05,012 --> 00:08:06,194 thing that's just going to pass? 165 00:08:06,194 --> 00:08:12,146 So I'm like I need to get my own physical health under 166 00:08:12,166 --> 00:08:15,923 control because I feel like the running for her is going to 167 00:08:15,944 --> 00:08:18,367 happen soon and I need to catch up. 168 00:08:18,367 --> 00:08:21,548 So yes, it's amazing. 169 00:08:22,341 --> 00:08:24,007 Speaker 2: I remember that age very well. 170 00:08:24,007 --> 00:08:26,800 Yeah, let's see. 171 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:30,204 Yeah, well, here's something Now. 172 00:08:30,204 --> 00:08:35,748 I worked at a company once that Prime Day, when it was only one 173 00:08:35,748 --> 00:08:40,652 day, once upon a time, they would block Amazon from being 174 00:08:40,672 --> 00:08:41,832 able to do it at work. 175 00:08:41,832 --> 00:08:46,196 And from Thanksgiving on, anything retail would be blocked 176 00:08:46,196 --> 00:08:51,407 from work Really, yeah, especially Black Friday, and 177 00:08:51,427 --> 00:08:54,192 things would be blocked from the work computers. 178 00:08:54,192 --> 00:09:00,390 I actually see that as worse than allowing it First if people 179 00:09:00,390 --> 00:09:01,352 are not doing their job. 180 00:09:01,352 --> 00:09:06,672 I looked at PrimeList for a while and then I saw the pocket 181 00:09:06,692 --> 00:09:07,133 whole jig. 182 00:09:07,133 --> 00:09:09,043 I was like, oh, 17 bucks sold. 183 00:09:09,043 --> 00:09:13,611 I didn't spend hours looking and looking and then I didn't 184 00:09:13,631 --> 00:09:14,634 look after I got that. 185 00:09:14,779 --> 00:09:20,852 But anyways, I think by blocking those sites you're doing more 186 00:09:20,932 --> 00:09:21,514 harm than good. 187 00:09:21,514 --> 00:09:22,322 What are you going to do? 188 00:09:22,322 --> 00:09:25,312 You're going to reach and grab your cell phone, which is less 189 00:09:25,371 --> 00:09:28,984 efficient, and you're gonna be doing the exact same thing on 190 00:09:29,024 --> 00:09:29,787 your cell phone. 191 00:09:29,787 --> 00:09:34,484 If you're having a problem with people spending too much time 192 00:09:35,125 --> 00:09:39,258 shopping online, you handle that on a case-by-case basis, but if 193 00:09:39,258 --> 00:09:45,089 if it's, you know, cyber Monday or Amazon Prime Day or whatever 194 00:09:45,089 --> 00:09:47,975 it is, let it go to a certain extent. 195 00:09:47,975 --> 00:09:51,529 I mean, don't let someone spend all day shopping online. 196 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:57,028 But for me today it was no different than any other time. 197 00:09:57,028 --> 00:09:59,995 I get a bug up my butt to say, oh, I want to buy this, I want 198 00:10:00,014 --> 00:10:02,567 to buy that, I go online and I buy it. 199 00:10:02,567 --> 00:10:07,062 To buy that, I go online and I buy it. 200 00:10:07,062 --> 00:10:07,465 Yeah, it really was. 201 00:10:07,465 --> 00:10:08,850 But I guess I spent a little bit my 10 minutes browsing, 15 202 00:10:08,870 --> 00:10:09,975 minutes browsing, before I found this is. 203 00:10:09,975 --> 00:10:13,225 I didn't know it was for sale and I didn't know it was on sale 204 00:10:13,225 --> 00:10:17,033 , I should say, and I was like, okay, then that's, that was the 205 00:10:17,052 --> 00:10:17,961 extent of my shopping. 206 00:10:17,961 --> 00:10:22,277 But but what do you think about blocking shopping sites like 207 00:10:22,557 --> 00:10:23,019 during either? 208 00:10:23,019 --> 00:10:24,024 That's so stupid. 209 00:10:24,384 --> 00:10:25,922 Speaker 3: I mean mean, like you said, if people are going to do 210 00:10:25,922 --> 00:10:26,705 it, they're going to do it. 211 00:10:26,705 --> 00:10:31,921 So and I I highly doubt that the majority of people are going 212 00:10:31,921 --> 00:10:37,253 to be spending like five, six, seven hours a day on the clock 213 00:10:37,293 --> 00:10:37,754 shopping. 214 00:10:37,754 --> 00:10:42,207 If anything, it might be like 10 minutes here, 15 minutes 215 00:10:42,248 --> 00:10:43,309 there. 216 00:10:43,309 --> 00:10:45,934 It's just such a small window of time. 217 00:10:45,934 --> 00:10:50,106 I highly doubt it's really damaging productivity and 218 00:10:50,147 --> 00:10:51,230 efficiency that much. 219 00:10:51,230 --> 00:10:55,363 I think it would be a waste of time and it would be like it 220 00:10:55,403 --> 00:10:56,566 kills morale too. 221 00:10:56,566 --> 00:10:59,513 It just feels like big brother is babysitting you and you're 222 00:10:59,533 --> 00:11:00,100 not trusted. 223 00:11:01,003 --> 00:11:03,168 Speaker 2: Exactly, it's a morale issue too. 224 00:11:03,168 --> 00:11:05,832 Yeah, I didn't think of it that way, but yes, I would be. 225 00:11:05,832 --> 00:11:07,164 I'd be irritated. 226 00:11:07,164 --> 00:11:09,472 I don't remember being irritated when this other 227 00:11:09,533 --> 00:11:11,961 company I worked for was blocking those sites. 228 00:11:11,961 --> 00:11:13,125 Because what did I do? 229 00:11:13,125 --> 00:11:16,177 I picked up my phone and went to do it on my phone. 230 00:11:16,177 --> 00:11:21,068 Yeah, you know, and like I said , it takes you for me as an old 231 00:11:21,109 --> 00:11:23,981 geezer type guy, it takes me longer to shop online with my 232 00:11:24,042 --> 00:11:26,770 phone than it does on my computer. 233 00:11:26,770 --> 00:11:32,169 I can knock something out real quick there, but anyhow, that 234 00:11:32,190 --> 00:11:32,750 was another thing. 235 00:11:32,750 --> 00:11:35,606 But another milestone date passed. 236 00:11:35,606 --> 00:11:41,285 Since we last recorded, it's been 20 years of podcasts on 237 00:11:41,567 --> 00:11:43,009 Apple, of podcasts on Apple. 238 00:11:43,009 --> 00:11:45,433 That was June 28th 2025. 239 00:11:48,379 --> 00:11:49,602 Steve Jobs announced at the Worldwide Developers Conference 240 00:11:49,623 --> 00:11:53,253 that Apple would be supporting podcasts through iTunes. 241 00:11:53,253 --> 00:11:59,660 And if you YouTube the video of Steve Jobs announcing it and 242 00:11:59,741 --> 00:12:02,846 he's talking about he's basically introducing the world 243 00:12:02,886 --> 00:12:05,561 to podcasts, even though they've been around before then. 244 00:12:05,561 --> 00:12:08,567 And he opens up and he puts up in what? 245 00:12:08,567 --> 00:12:10,890 What five second blurb does he get? 246 00:12:10,890 --> 00:12:14,567 He opens it up to adam curry, who's known as the pod father. 247 00:12:14,628 --> 00:12:17,860 Now, if you, if you're of my age , in my generation, you remember 248 00:12:17,860 --> 00:12:22,907 adam curry as the mtv vj in the 80s and 90s. 249 00:12:22,907 --> 00:12:27,193 But now, now he's the pod father, he has like the first 250 00:12:27,474 --> 00:12:30,124 RSS feed for podcasts, apparently, or something like 251 00:12:30,144 --> 00:12:30,284 that. 252 00:12:30,284 --> 00:12:31,587 But he's on. 253 00:12:31,587 --> 00:12:35,322 Steve Jobs clicks the button to play a podcast and it's Adam 254 00:12:35,342 --> 00:12:40,452 Curry bitching about his Mac and how bad it is and everything, 255 00:12:40,832 --> 00:12:42,744 and so you only get five seconds of it. 256 00:12:42,744 --> 00:12:44,349 Some people say it was an accident. 257 00:12:44,349 --> 00:12:48,287 Adam Curry says it was done deliberately, as a jab 258 00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:52,282 apparently at the Mac development team that Steve Jobs 259 00:12:52,282 --> 00:12:53,845 was not happy with at the time. 260 00:12:53,845 --> 00:12:58,114 Yeah, so we will never know, but it brought me to think. 261 00:12:58,159 --> 00:13:00,384 Speaker 3: I believe that Because now that we know a 262 00:13:00,424 --> 00:13:04,009 little bit more about how well okay, like Steve Jobs is was a 263 00:13:03,957 --> 00:13:05,241 brilliant person, but we also now have a little more of about 264 00:13:05,191 --> 00:13:05,682 how well okay, like steve jobs is a was a brilliant person, but 265 00:13:05,682 --> 00:13:07,936 we also now have a little more of an inkling of his leadership 266 00:13:07,975 --> 00:13:12,184 style, which I would say is a little unorthodox and, yes, you 267 00:13:12,205 --> 00:13:14,791 know, not a work environment that I would like to work under, 268 00:13:14,791 --> 00:13:18,644 but I would say that that is highly calculated because that 269 00:13:18,664 --> 00:13:22,801 seems like something he would do and steve jobs is such a quirky 270 00:13:22,801 --> 00:13:23,302 individual. 271 00:13:23,322 --> 00:13:26,388 Speaker 2: You know the story that sticks out in my mind his 272 00:13:26,707 --> 00:13:29,513 personal secretary was late to work one day because her car 273 00:13:29,552 --> 00:13:33,274 wouldn't start, so he instantly bought her a brand new car and 274 00:13:33,293 --> 00:13:34,299 it was something like expensive. 275 00:13:34,299 --> 00:13:37,669 I forget what it was and said now never be late to work again 276 00:13:38,500 --> 00:13:41,309 and I will never be, late to work. 277 00:13:42,100 --> 00:13:42,581 Speaker 3: I would never. 278 00:13:42,581 --> 00:13:44,246 If I was his assistant. 279 00:13:44,246 --> 00:13:45,509 I would never be late to work again. 280 00:13:45,971 --> 00:13:46,192 Speaker 2: Yeah. 281 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,306 Speaker 3: If my boss just bought me a brand new car, I 282 00:13:49,326 --> 00:13:50,148 would be like you know what? 283 00:13:50,148 --> 00:13:51,751 True. 284 00:13:52,173 --> 00:13:52,393 Speaker 2: Touche. 285 00:13:52,393 --> 00:13:55,147 You bought my loyalty. 286 00:13:55,147 --> 00:13:59,206 I have a price and you found it . 287 00:13:59,206 --> 00:14:05,000 But it got me thinking because he announced it in June of 2005, 288 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,563 june 28th of 2005. 289 00:14:06,563 --> 00:14:11,489 And it was the next iteration of the iTunes that allowed the 290 00:14:11,528 --> 00:14:11,870 podcast. 291 00:14:11,870 --> 00:14:17,342 But it got me thinking to the first podcast I would listen to, 292 00:14:17,342 --> 00:14:19,316 and I've never been to Apple person. 293 00:14:19,316 --> 00:14:21,798 I've never had iPod or anything like that. 294 00:14:21,798 --> 00:14:25,375 I did have, oh gosh, what are they called the iPod minis, the 295 00:14:25,429 --> 00:14:28,538 thing that was like a one inch square thing back in the day. 296 00:14:28,538 --> 00:14:32,114 I got it as a gift or something like that and I want to find it 297 00:14:32,114 --> 00:14:32,114 . 298 00:14:32,114 --> 00:14:35,662 I want to see what music is on that thing here, whatever 30 299 00:14:35,701 --> 00:14:39,456 years later or whatever it is, but anyway, so it's around 300 00:14:39,515 --> 00:14:39,797 somewhere. 301 00:14:39,797 --> 00:14:43,001 But the thing is, if I have a charger for it, it's a whole 302 00:14:43,121 --> 00:14:43,523 nother thing. 303 00:14:43,543 --> 00:14:44,544 Speaker 3: You can find anything on eBay. 304 00:14:44,544 --> 00:14:46,515 Right now I'm tracking down. 305 00:14:46,515 --> 00:14:48,812 It's not that hard to track down, honestly, I just need to 306 00:14:48,893 --> 00:14:49,756 find one and buy it. 307 00:14:49,756 --> 00:14:53,120 But I have all these mini DV tapes. 308 00:14:53,450 --> 00:14:57,152 They look like mini VHSs is what they look like when I was in 309 00:14:57,192 --> 00:15:00,282 high school this is late 90s, early 2000s. 310 00:15:00,282 --> 00:15:05,371 I was really into video editing and video stuff Before content 311 00:15:05,392 --> 00:15:06,432 creation was a thing. 312 00:15:06,432 --> 00:15:12,636 I was leading the way and I have all these tapes that I 313 00:15:12,738 --> 00:15:17,301 uncovered during moving and I was like these tapes have so 314 00:15:17,380 --> 00:15:22,284 much footage of me from high school and also projects I did, 315 00:15:22,345 --> 00:15:23,264 projects I edited. 316 00:15:23,264 --> 00:15:28,309 There's also like just fun stuff I did with friends and I'm 317 00:15:28,309 --> 00:15:28,750 dying to get it. 318 00:15:28,770 --> 00:15:31,876 So the only way I think I can do it is if I go on eBay and buy 319 00:15:32,477 --> 00:15:36,972 an old Handycam that had the mini DVs and I can hook it up to 320 00:15:36,972 --> 00:15:40,273 my computer and extract the audio, because otherwise you go 321 00:15:40,332 --> 00:15:43,850 on these other companies like Legacy Box and stuff and it's 322 00:15:43,890 --> 00:15:48,763 for $10 per tape which you're like that doesn't sound bad. 323 00:15:48,763 --> 00:15:51,136 But then I'm thinking about it and I'm like I don't know what's 324 00:15:51,136 --> 00:15:54,219 on these tapes, like this could be like 10 seconds of footage. 325 00:15:54,219 --> 00:15:57,200 I'm like going to pay $10 for 10 seconds of footage, you know. 326 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,216 So I need to find a way to do it myself. 327 00:15:59,216 --> 00:16:00,495 It's going to be more cost effective. 328 00:16:06,269 --> 00:16:07,913 Speaker 2: But everything's on ebay, all old electronics. 329 00:16:07,913 --> 00:16:08,254 I have my. 330 00:16:08,254 --> 00:16:09,918 Actually my wife and I had that same conversation. 331 00:16:09,918 --> 00:16:10,558 I have our old videotape in it. 332 00:16:10,558 --> 00:16:13,871 I I don't know what type of cassette it is anymore, but I've 333 00:16:13,871 --> 00:16:18,321 got a box of those cassettes of like the kids growing up and 334 00:16:18,522 --> 00:16:22,293 and things like that and I I want to get them digitized 335 00:16:22,333 --> 00:16:22,855 somehow. 336 00:16:22,855 --> 00:16:25,197 Maybe I'll find a way to connect it to my computer so I 337 00:16:25,258 --> 00:16:29,825 can download and do it myself, versus paying Legacy Box or 338 00:16:29,865 --> 00:16:30,566 someone like that. 339 00:16:30,566 --> 00:16:33,106 That would be pretty cool. 340 00:16:33,750 --> 00:16:35,056 Speaker 3: I just want to go down like a random. 341 00:16:35,056 --> 00:16:38,710 This has nothing HR related, more just like a huh moment. 342 00:16:38,710 --> 00:16:43,600 I was on Reddit and I'm in a sub, like I'm in a subreddit 343 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:50,158 called Gen X, and this person posted, as Gen Z, like these 344 00:16:50,639 --> 00:16:54,854 movie clips, like movie stills of it was can't hardly wait, 345 00:16:55,195 --> 00:16:58,879 clueless, and I want to say 10 things I hate about you. 346 00:16:58,879 --> 00:17:03,212 And all of the freeze frames were from teen parties, like 347 00:17:03,293 --> 00:17:04,213 house parties. 348 00:17:04,213 --> 00:17:06,536 All of the freeze frames were from teen parties, like house 349 00:17:06,556 --> 00:17:06,695 parties. 350 00:17:06,695 --> 00:17:10,719 And you know, this person said was this real or was this just 351 00:17:10,779 --> 00:17:14,563 Hollywood making things up, because I'm Gen Z and I've never 352 00:17:14,563 --> 00:17:15,784 been to a house party? 353 00:17:15,784 --> 00:17:17,105 And blah, blah, blah. 354 00:17:17,204 --> 00:17:25,253 And I had a moment of like, oh no, like I'm just thinking, 355 00:17:25,273 --> 00:17:25,957 thinking yes, they were real. 356 00:17:25,957 --> 00:17:29,375 We all just kind of printed out a map quest page and, like went 357 00:17:29,375 --> 00:17:33,087 to random houses that we heard from other people, like we 358 00:17:33,127 --> 00:17:34,311 didn't know whose house that was . 359 00:17:34,311 --> 00:17:36,824 We just showed up and had a great time, like these were all 360 00:17:36,884 --> 00:17:37,164 real. 361 00:17:37,164 --> 00:17:40,714 And I'm like now thinking, oh my god, is it true that gen z 362 00:17:41,376 --> 00:17:42,618 doesn't do that anymore? 363 00:17:42,638 --> 00:17:44,102 Speaker 2: no, no, that's crazy. 364 00:17:44,102 --> 00:17:44,844 I don't think they do. 365 00:17:44,844 --> 00:17:47,596 I really don't think they do. 366 00:17:47,596 --> 00:17:52,211 I, you know, before MapQuest and things like that, it was 367 00:17:52,250 --> 00:17:55,119 just you would show up somewhere and I don't know how you find, 368 00:17:55,470 --> 00:17:58,316 or out here in the sticks, where are the bonfire parties? 369 00:17:58,316 --> 00:18:01,440 Just in the back of a farm somewhere. 370 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:05,636 And next thing you know, you got 200 drunk teenagers out 371 00:18:05,676 --> 00:18:09,897 there and how the hell you knew about it and where to go and 372 00:18:09,978 --> 00:18:11,482 when I I couldn't tell you. 373 00:18:11,482 --> 00:18:15,998 I guess you know the rumor mill was pretty strong or what have 374 00:18:16,018 --> 00:18:19,167 you the the gossip, but yeah, doing things. 375 00:18:19,268 --> 00:18:24,921 I remember I was at a bonfire party, it was somewhere, and I 376 00:18:24,981 --> 00:18:30,794 had a two liter bottle of Seagram's golden wine cooler. 377 00:18:30,794 --> 00:18:34,922 It's like the white claw, the pre the predecessor of white 378 00:18:34,942 --> 00:18:37,896 claw, and you've got to look up the old Bruce Willis commercials 379 00:18:37,896 --> 00:18:41,670 of him doing Seagram's golden wine cooler commercials. 380 00:18:41,670 --> 00:18:45,101 But it was a two liter bottle of it and I'm walking around, 381 00:18:45,161 --> 00:18:49,723 I'm lit with that stuff and the police show up and there must 382 00:18:49,743 --> 00:18:52,673 have been like 20 police show up and there's like 200 kids, and 383 00:18:53,173 --> 00:18:56,200 so I lived on the other side of the woods so I didn't, I just 384 00:18:56,279 --> 00:18:56,580 ran. 385 00:18:56,580 --> 00:18:59,855 I didn't have to take the road to to get home. 386 00:18:59,855 --> 00:19:03,423 So and I knew, knew the woods pretty darn well that could get 387 00:19:03,462 --> 00:19:05,557 there through the night and things like that. 388 00:19:05,557 --> 00:19:08,478 So the things you would do back then that you can't do now, 389 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:09,540 it's amazing. 390 00:19:10,211 --> 00:19:14,582 In college I didn't even finish my podcast, so we'll get back to 391 00:19:14,582 --> 00:19:14,721 that. 392 00:19:14,721 --> 00:19:19,156 But in college in Greenville, north Carolina, then I was 393 00:19:19,637 --> 00:19:24,833 walking home drunk as a skunk under 21 years old and I had a 394 00:19:24,894 --> 00:19:26,479 super big gulp cup full of beer. 395 00:19:26,479 --> 00:19:30,097 Heading back to my house from a party and a police officer 396 00:19:30,157 --> 00:19:32,123 shines his mega white light at me. 397 00:19:32,123 --> 00:19:34,394 He doesn't even get out of the car, he just gets on the little 398 00:19:34,434 --> 00:19:38,713 bullhorn thing, the speaker and the whatever out of the car. 399 00:19:38,713 --> 00:19:39,855 He says pour it out. 400 00:19:39,855 --> 00:19:41,397 And I just poured it out. 401 00:19:41,397 --> 00:19:43,741 He said have a good night and that's it. 402 00:19:43,741 --> 00:19:44,584 That's all there was. 403 00:19:44,584 --> 00:19:54,234 Now in Greenville kids get tickets and they get busted for 404 00:19:54,255 --> 00:19:55,660 drinking and public intoxication and open containers and things 405 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:55,861 like that. 406 00:19:55,861 --> 00:19:58,412 I'm like as long as you weren't doing something actively doing 407 00:19:58,471 --> 00:20:01,338 something stupid in the nineties they didn't care. 408 00:20:01,338 --> 00:20:03,972 You know it was like, okay, just just go. 409 00:20:03,972 --> 00:20:06,641 But nowadays they're they're pretty strict on that stuff. 410 00:20:06,641 --> 00:20:08,416 So it is a different world. 411 00:20:09,271 --> 00:20:14,155 Speaker 3: So anyway, poor Gen Z , no house parties, and they 412 00:20:14,316 --> 00:20:19,538 missed the work in an office, a collaborative environment, five 413 00:20:19,577 --> 00:20:22,016 days a week and I feel a little bad for them. 414 00:20:22,016 --> 00:20:22,679 I do. 415 00:20:23,230 --> 00:20:25,739 Speaker 2: Well, gen Z, I'll go back to the podcast. 416 00:20:25,739 --> 00:20:26,111 I swear. 417 00:20:26,111 --> 00:20:29,358 But, Gen Z, I saw a thing on I don't remember where if it was 418 00:20:29,459 --> 00:20:32,394 Reddit or if it was LinkedIn or something like that. 419 00:20:32,394 --> 00:20:37,392 They're now calling what I would term a vacation, a micro 420 00:20:37,452 --> 00:20:38,134 retirement. 421 00:20:38,134 --> 00:20:42,362 Google, real quick, micro retirement, I'm taking a micro 422 00:20:42,423 --> 00:20:43,570 retirement or whatever. 423 00:20:43,570 --> 00:20:46,115 That's really funny and I'm like yeah, it's called. 424 00:20:46,115 --> 00:20:47,257 It's called a vacation. 425 00:20:47,979 --> 00:20:48,880 Speaker 3: It's called PTO man yeah. 426 00:20:52,809 --> 00:20:53,594 Speaker 2: What is micro? 427 00:20:53,594 --> 00:20:54,196 What is? 428 00:20:54,196 --> 00:20:56,688 I Googled it Fast Company, which is another one of those 429 00:20:56,788 --> 00:20:59,096 shitty shitty news sites clickbait, everything. 430 00:20:59,096 --> 00:21:00,539 What is micro retirement? 431 00:21:00,539 --> 00:21:04,695 The latest inside the latest Gen Z trend First, taking 432 00:21:04,756 --> 00:21:07,540 deliberate short-term breaks from your career to focus on 433 00:21:07,580 --> 00:21:09,505 personal interests and goals. 434 00:21:09,505 --> 00:21:13,530 It's a growing trend among Gen Z and millennials seeking to 435 00:21:13,570 --> 00:21:16,380 prioritize well-being experiences over traditional 436 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,933 concepts of working continuously until a single lengthy 437 00:21:21,015 --> 00:21:23,201 retirement period to end their career. 438 00:21:23,951 --> 00:21:24,796 Speaker 3: I don't understand. 439 00:21:24,796 --> 00:21:29,259 That's literally just like a wellness vacation. 440 00:21:29,259 --> 00:21:33,219 Like unplugging to work on something on the side. 441 00:21:33,219 --> 00:21:34,362 Don't we do that? 442 00:21:34,362 --> 00:21:37,200 I don't understand the concept. 443 00:21:37,470 --> 00:21:39,016 Speaker 2: Are they taking long spans of time. 444 00:21:39,016 --> 00:21:42,637 What I saw was they took this person. 445 00:21:42,637 --> 00:21:46,532 The first thing I saw before I just googled this was they took 446 00:21:46,573 --> 00:21:47,977 a two-week micro retirement. 447 00:21:47,977 --> 00:21:50,061 I'm like that's called a vacation dude. 448 00:21:50,061 --> 00:21:53,055 But some of the reading online right here right now it says 449 00:21:53,435 --> 00:21:57,490 some may or may not be employer supported and things like that. 450 00:21:57,490 --> 00:22:01,339 To prevent burnout, focus on creativity, innovation etc. 451 00:22:01,420 --> 00:22:02,823 Speaker 3: But no good for you. 452 00:22:02,823 --> 00:22:05,739 If you want to take a couple weeks off to build a something 453 00:22:05,779 --> 00:22:10,762 in your backyard, then go, do it like cool I will say I have my. 454 00:22:10,762 --> 00:22:13,730 My current company is permissive pto, like we don't 455 00:22:13,770 --> 00:22:16,176 have accruals unless you're hourly. 456 00:22:16,196 --> 00:22:19,692 There's different accruals, but but yeah, like we, we do 457 00:22:20,333 --> 00:22:24,862 permissive policy and I've been very on the fence about it 458 00:22:24,882 --> 00:22:26,872 because you know you read research that says if you do 459 00:22:26,892 --> 00:22:29,719 permissive, people don't take the time they need off yes but I 460 00:22:29,719 --> 00:22:35,863 will say I think my team and I work in HR but I feel like our 461 00:22:35,903 --> 00:22:39,592 leadership does really good by leading by example and using it 462 00:22:39,872 --> 00:22:42,817 and going on time and like telling, like, like I hate to 463 00:22:42,856 --> 00:22:44,479 say granting permission, but yeah, they are. 464 00:22:44,479 --> 00:22:47,282 They're granting permission by example and I love it. 465 00:22:47,282 --> 00:22:52,175 I am now all for it, but I think it only works when your 466 00:22:52,517 --> 00:22:56,403 leadership is ready for it and can actually lead by example. 467 00:22:56,403 --> 00:23:02,204 But I would love to take a two week micro retirement and go to 468 00:23:02,727 --> 00:23:03,127 I don't know. 469 00:23:03,127 --> 00:23:06,713 I would love to work on being a mermaid, so I will go to a 470 00:23:07,517 --> 00:23:09,080 resort somewhere and just sit on the beach. 471 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:10,556 That's my micro retirement. 472 00:23:11,632 --> 00:23:15,532 Speaker 2: But here's the second search result Gen Z stupidly 473 00:23:15,614 --> 00:23:21,054 claims to have invented micro retirement, and then it goes on 474 00:23:21,074 --> 00:23:24,951 to say Gen Z is claiming it and taking vacations, anyway. 475 00:23:24,951 --> 00:23:26,637 So I'll get on for that. 476 00:23:27,490 --> 00:23:29,193 Speaker 3: That does remind me of an episode of Parks and 477 00:23:29,213 --> 00:23:31,578 Recreation where she's like you've had soy milk, you have 478 00:23:31,719 --> 00:23:33,222 almond milk, now it's beef milk. 479 00:23:33,222 --> 00:23:35,777 That's what it was, and she was like it's fucking milk. 480 00:23:39,292 --> 00:23:40,699 Speaker 2: I haven't watched Parks and Rec forever. 481 00:23:40,699 --> 00:23:42,315 I need to watch that. 482 00:23:42,315 --> 00:23:44,079 It's so funny. 483 00:23:44,079 --> 00:23:46,858 I'll go ahead back to podcasting. 484 00:23:46,858 --> 00:23:52,082 I was trying to think of what was the first podcast you 485 00:23:52,122 --> 00:23:52,682 listened to. 486 00:23:52,682 --> 00:23:55,236 Do you remember, damn? 487 00:23:57,309 --> 00:23:59,553 Speaker 3: So the first one that comes to mind that I listened 488 00:23:59,573 --> 00:24:05,080 to religiously was a now defunct podcast called an acquired 489 00:24:05,161 --> 00:24:10,193 taste, where it was three women djs, like radio personalities, 490 00:24:10,595 --> 00:24:14,026 on a major thing and they their own side project was. 491 00:24:14,026 --> 00:24:17,094 They just did a podcast with the three of them and they're 492 00:24:17,233 --> 00:24:20,702 all kind of like have weird interests and like you know 493 00:24:21,151 --> 00:24:24,659 different things that I really resonated with and I would 494 00:24:24,700 --> 00:24:25,902 listen to them religiously. 495 00:24:25,902 --> 00:24:29,897 So an acquired taste podcast RIP. 496 00:24:29,897 --> 00:24:33,163 Another one to the podcast graveyard. 497 00:24:34,125 --> 00:24:38,037 Speaker 2: Yeah, the first one, and I'm going to give credit to 498 00:24:38,718 --> 00:24:41,503 Patrick, our first co-host from JDHR. 499 00:24:41,503 --> 00:24:44,057 The first one it was 2014. 500 00:24:44,057 --> 00:24:47,510 It was cereal and he was talking about that and that's 501 00:24:47,631 --> 00:24:50,018 pre itunes and I can. 502 00:24:50,018 --> 00:24:53,728 I can remember going on to the serial website to have to 503 00:24:53,788 --> 00:24:57,363 download the episodes and then when you wanted episodes because 504 00:24:57,363 --> 00:25:00,491 I didn't know about rss feeds I would just go to whatever 505 00:25:00,551 --> 00:25:03,776 website of whichever podcast I was listening to at the time to 506 00:25:03,836 --> 00:25:08,402 download them and then I'd play them on my music player, 507 00:25:08,442 --> 00:25:10,924 whatever I was using at that time. 508 00:25:19,390 --> 00:25:21,633 But I really connected with Serial on a different level 509 00:25:21,653 --> 00:25:23,394 because my first job out of college I lived in Maryland and 510 00:25:23,414 --> 00:25:28,500 it referenced so many places I knew between Baltimore and 511 00:25:28,862 --> 00:25:32,766 Patuxent Parkway and Patuxent River Park and those areas. 512 00:25:32,766 --> 00:25:35,537 I could sit there even though it's 2014,. 513 00:25:35,537 --> 00:25:36,721 I left there in 2001. 514 00:25:36,721 --> 00:25:38,829 I could sit there and still picture those places. 515 00:25:38,829 --> 00:25:42,237 I've been these places that they're talking about in the, 516 00:25:42,596 --> 00:25:46,491 the serial podcasts and things like that, and so I got hooked 517 00:25:46,571 --> 00:25:49,924 on the serial and then I I think two years later they had the 518 00:25:49,984 --> 00:25:50,567 next one. 519 00:25:50,567 --> 00:25:52,874 I never listened to the one after the. 520 00:25:52,874 --> 00:25:54,597 The second one, oh is berg, was it? 521 00:25:54,597 --> 00:25:56,020 Bergdahl was the second one? 522 00:25:56,020 --> 00:25:59,395 I think so anyways, but I can't remember any of the other 523 00:25:59,455 --> 00:26:02,769 podcasts I was listening to around that time frame. 524 00:26:02,769 --> 00:26:07,094 But we, we would talk about a serial and that's what Patrick 525 00:26:07,114 --> 00:26:09,915 got me into podcasts, and that was the first one we talked 526 00:26:09,935 --> 00:26:12,238 about and I listened to and I listened to a few others, but I 527 00:26:12,258 --> 00:26:16,560 couldn't remember a single title of what any of those were from. 528 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:17,361 Is work, career, hr related? 529 00:26:17,381 --> 00:26:27,215 Speaker 3: Yeah, Just a roundabout way we're going to 530 00:26:27,236 --> 00:26:27,518 get there. 531 00:26:27,518 --> 00:26:32,117 So I was thinking about this a couple weeks ago how, when I was 532 00:26:32,117 --> 00:26:38,749 in high school, I was, I wasn't athletic, but I was into video, 533 00:26:38,749 --> 00:26:41,816 journalism, I was into newspaper, I was into yearbook, 534 00:26:41,970 --> 00:26:45,833 I was into, like, creating things, and I always wanted to 535 00:26:45,894 --> 00:26:46,576 create right. 536 00:26:46,576 --> 00:26:50,196 And for the longest time I thought that I was going to be. 537 00:26:50,196 --> 00:26:53,813 I wanted to be a radio DJ and I don't know why I just wanted to 538 00:26:53,813 --> 00:26:55,258 be an on-air personality. 539 00:26:55,258 --> 00:27:00,878 And you know then to the point where I would go. 540 00:27:00,878 --> 00:27:03,596 We would, as a group for yearbook, we would go to these 541 00:27:04,584 --> 00:27:07,474 high school publishing competitions or conventions or 542 00:27:07,515 --> 00:27:11,222 whatever, and I would separate from the group to go into the 543 00:27:11,390 --> 00:27:13,513 radio broadcasting like area. 544 00:27:14,236 --> 00:27:18,284 And now I'm sitting here and I'm like, okay, so radio is dying. 545 00:27:18,284 --> 00:27:22,417 But now, like I'm on a podcast and I'm doing podcasts, I'm 546 00:27:22,439 --> 00:27:26,372 doing a podcast at for my job, I'm on a podcast and I'm doing 547 00:27:26,392 --> 00:27:27,413 podcasts, I'm doing a podcast for my job. 548 00:27:27,413 --> 00:27:30,481 And I was thinking about all of the weird ways where we have 549 00:27:30,501 --> 00:27:34,230 these loves as children or young adults, of things that we want 550 00:27:34,250 --> 00:27:38,380 to do when we grow up and maybe those things don't manifest the 551 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,115 way we think they do, but as we get older they manifest in 552 00:27:42,154 --> 00:27:42,736 different ways. 553 00:27:42,736 --> 00:27:47,251 So like HR by day, podcasting by night, kind of thing, and I 554 00:27:47,311 --> 00:27:50,560 think about that because, okay, I have a 15-month-old. 555 00:27:50,971 --> 00:27:54,032 I also think about that with Miss Rachel and for anyone who 556 00:27:54,654 --> 00:27:56,439 has like a toddler age, children . 557 00:27:56,439 --> 00:28:00,535 You know, miss Rachel, she is the end-all, be-all, she is her 558 00:28:00,575 --> 00:28:05,038 third parent, but she's like another one where I look at who 559 00:28:05,278 --> 00:28:09,955 was a woman who wanted a singing career and like if you go into 560 00:28:10,096 --> 00:28:12,560 Spotify, you can find her whole albums. 561 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,275 She wanted like to, you know, be a solo artist. 562 00:28:16,275 --> 00:28:20,784 It didn't pan out and she went into teaching and now somehow 563 00:28:20,844 --> 00:28:23,501 she found herself as Miss Rachel , where she is singing, where 564 00:28:23,521 --> 00:28:25,230 she is performing, where she is creating. 565 00:28:25,230 --> 00:28:28,474 And I just thought that was like interesting that you know, 566 00:28:29,056 --> 00:28:32,981 we go into these careers that hopefully, like we might not be 567 00:28:33,041 --> 00:28:35,892 doing exactly what we wanted to when we grow up, but we're doing 568 00:28:35,892 --> 00:28:39,138 elements that still bring us joy that we had when we were 569 00:28:39,159 --> 00:28:41,022 children or when we were young adults. 570 00:28:41,022 --> 00:28:45,040 So anyway, that was, yeah, that's my deep thoughts for the 571 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:45,221 night. 572 00:28:46,191 --> 00:28:51,722 Speaker 2: So anyway, that's a lot of we've been all over the 573 00:28:51,762 --> 00:28:53,215 place, but that's a good thing, I think. 574 00:28:53,750 --> 00:28:56,536 Speaker 3: We're riding the ADHD train. 575 00:28:58,559 --> 00:29:00,584 Speaker 2: Backwards, yeah, backwards. 576 00:29:02,230 --> 00:29:03,013 Speaker 3: And it's on fire. 577 00:29:03,013 --> 00:29:04,598 Yes. 578 00:29:06,291 --> 00:29:09,402 Speaker 2: Not for me today, but , yeah, I know that feeling. 579 00:29:09,402 --> 00:29:14,479 So the HR story that I actually prepared and I've had this on 580 00:29:14,519 --> 00:29:16,482 my show notes since May. 581 00:29:16,482 --> 00:29:22,281 Actually, the date of this article is May 7th. 582 00:29:22,281 --> 00:29:27,436 It's from Eric Meyer and if you don't subscribe to his 583 00:29:27,517 --> 00:29:31,417 newsletter, please do you follow him on LinkedIn. 584 00:29:31,417 --> 00:29:33,856 Subscribe to his newsletter. 585 00:29:33,856 --> 00:29:35,596 It's really, really good. 586 00:29:35,596 --> 00:29:38,837 So here's the situation. 587 00:29:38,837 --> 00:29:41,757 There was a couple. 588 00:29:41,757 --> 00:29:43,376 They used to work together. 589 00:29:43,376 --> 00:29:47,012 The husband apparently got terminated. 590 00:29:47,012 --> 00:29:47,573 It had been terminated. 591 00:29:47,573 --> 00:30:12,076 After the relationship ended, he became hostile and began 592 00:30:12,096 --> 00:30:13,344 sending threatening messages to the plaintiff, but she never 593 00:30:13,384 --> 00:30:14,509 reported them to her employer. 594 00:30:14,509 --> 00:30:18,857 Roughly a year later, the assailant rented a car, put on 595 00:30:18,897 --> 00:30:22,713 his old company sweatshirt and a freezer suit and waited outside 596 00:30:22,713 --> 00:30:23,355 the workplace. 597 00:30:23,355 --> 00:30:26,773 When an employee opened the badge access door, he followed 598 00:30:26,814 --> 00:30:27,436 them inside. 599 00:30:27,436 --> 00:30:31,329 He located the plaintiff at her desk, doused her with gasoline 600 00:30:31,490 --> 00:30:32,451 and set her on fire. 601 00:30:32,451 --> 00:30:33,835 Oh my gosh. 602 00:30:34,817 --> 00:30:38,263 She ended up suing, saying that her company didn't, that they 603 00:30:38,309 --> 00:30:41,538 were negligent and they didn't protect her. 604 00:30:41,538 --> 00:30:46,147 She said because the company allowed ex-employees to keep 605 00:30:46,169 --> 00:30:50,130 their uniforms and they didn't infer or spadge access security 606 00:30:50,752 --> 00:30:55,031 and guards failed to monitor the cameras in real time and doors 607 00:30:55,071 --> 00:30:56,277 were always propped open. 608 00:30:56,277 --> 00:31:01,309 But anyways, the long story of it is that she sued, she lost 609 00:31:02,251 --> 00:31:05,319 because the court said there's no reasonable way you can 610 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,998 predict that this is going to happen. 611 00:31:08,998 --> 00:31:11,545 He wrote I love about his newsletter. 612 00:31:11,545 --> 00:31:14,252 If you subscribe to his newsletter he has like a 613 00:31:14,313 --> 00:31:17,900 paragraph of what happened and then the next paragraph it's set 614 00:31:17,900 --> 00:31:20,873 aside by bars and it's the TLDR . 615 00:31:20,873 --> 00:31:21,994 I love it. 616 00:31:22,336 --> 00:31:25,280 A federal appellate court held up the employer was not liable 617 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,606 for negligence after a former employee violently attacked a 618 00:31:28,646 --> 00:31:29,990 current employee at the facility . 619 00:31:29,990 --> 00:31:33,055 The court reasoned that even if there were lapses in security, 620 00:31:33,355 --> 00:31:37,362 this calculated violent act was so bizarre and so unforeseeable 621 00:31:37,541 --> 00:31:40,692 that it broke the chain of causation Under law. 622 00:31:40,692 --> 00:31:42,776 No reasonable jury could find that employer could have 623 00:31:42,816 --> 00:31:43,818 predicted this attack. 624 00:31:43,818 --> 00:31:45,923 So the employer couldn't be liable. 625 00:31:45,923 --> 00:31:52,502 But just, I could not imagine being an HR person. 626 00:31:52,502 --> 00:31:54,576 I couldn't imagine working there and that situation 627 00:31:54,656 --> 00:32:00,538 happening period, but being in HR and having to deal with that, 628 00:32:00,538 --> 00:32:07,290 the aftermath of that, the lawsuit of that, that, the 629 00:32:07,330 --> 00:32:08,714 aftermath of that, the lawsuit of that you got to believe that 630 00:32:08,755 --> 00:32:10,358 other employees that were not involved quit, found other jobs, 631 00:32:10,358 --> 00:32:11,481 got the hell out of there like whatever. 632 00:32:12,305 --> 00:32:16,820 Locally, not too well before I moved to where I am now still in 633 00:32:16,820 --> 00:32:20,211 the same county, we had a similar incident, kind of. 634 00:32:20,211 --> 00:32:23,258 A guy was trying to get back at his ex. 635 00:32:23,258 --> 00:32:26,183 He filled his pickup truck with up with hay. 636 00:32:26,183 --> 00:32:30,720 He poured gasoline all over the pickup truck himself and filled 637 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,432 the truck up with gas containers and he drove the 638 00:32:33,472 --> 00:32:36,140 truck into the building of the office the office building she 639 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,575 worked in, and she was not hurt. 640 00:32:38,575 --> 00:32:39,017 Nobody. 641 00:32:39,017 --> 00:32:39,940 The only person was hurt. 642 00:32:39,940 --> 00:32:40,631 He died. 643 00:32:40,631 --> 00:32:41,913 The driver died. 644 00:32:41,913 --> 00:32:45,020 Everybody else made it out, thankfully out of that, but 645 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:46,123 burned the building down. 646 00:32:46,123 --> 00:32:50,721 But just, you can't predict anything. 647 00:32:50,721 --> 00:32:54,837 And then my HR question related to this is how far are you 648 00:32:54,877 --> 00:32:56,361 going to go to get? 649 00:32:56,721 --> 00:33:00,798 If he's a driver, he's probably got two, three dozen T-shirts 650 00:33:01,278 --> 00:33:09,711 for the company, t-shirts for the company working places where 651 00:33:09,711 --> 00:33:10,553 people have had uniforms. 652 00:33:10,553 --> 00:33:11,756 I've never tried to recover those uniforms. 653 00:33:11,756 --> 00:33:15,603 I don't want somebody's sweat, stain, dirty uniform you can. 654 00:33:15,603 --> 00:33:16,630 You can keep it. 655 00:33:16,630 --> 00:33:20,097 When I left that company is I wore a uniform as well. 656 00:33:20,097 --> 00:33:22,242 Until I moved I had all my shirts. 657 00:33:22,242 --> 00:33:25,461 And then I just contacted a former employee or a former 658 00:33:25,502 --> 00:33:28,192 co-worker who's about my size, and said hey, you know, I've got 659 00:33:28,192 --> 00:33:30,096 this stuff and I don't need it, don't want it. 660 00:33:30,096 --> 00:33:33,740 And I offered it to him and he swung by my house and picked it 661 00:33:33,839 --> 00:33:35,268 up and and things like that. 662 00:33:35,288 --> 00:33:42,142 Speaker 3: but I was like yeah, it's hard like so sometimes now, 663 00:33:42,142 --> 00:33:46,509 like knowing what I know, now like or like piecing things 664 00:33:46,548 --> 00:33:46,849 together. 665 00:33:46,849 --> 00:33:51,900 There would always be I don't know if it was a compliance 666 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,055 thing, but every once in a while , when I was at my old company 667 00:33:55,134 --> 00:33:58,409 that was a big campus type setup where there were the security 668 00:33:58,449 --> 00:34:01,576 guards at the front and the badge ends with like four or 669 00:34:01,635 --> 00:34:05,483 five entries of access, with a badge every once in a while we 670 00:34:05,503 --> 00:34:08,396 would get like a random, what seemed to be out of the blue, 671 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:14,112 remind, heavy reminder, to be like just remember, we do not 672 00:34:14,233 --> 00:34:17,559 allow people in unless they badge, even if you know them 673 00:34:17,599 --> 00:34:18,181 behind you. 674 00:34:18,181 --> 00:34:21,277 They must badge in like do not let anyone, do not presume 675 00:34:21,317 --> 00:34:22,119 people like whatever. 676 00:34:22,119 --> 00:34:25,911 And now I'm thinking like these , these reminders would come out 677 00:34:25,911 --> 00:34:29,063 of the blue and I'm like but were they like? 678 00:34:29,143 --> 00:34:32,454 Was it a situation where someone could be like hey, I need to go 679 00:34:32,454 --> 00:34:35,847 talk to hr, I'm going through like a bad situation at home, a 680 00:34:35,887 --> 00:34:40,539 bad breakup or something, and I need to let people know because 681 00:34:40,619 --> 00:34:42,282 I'm afraid for my safety at work ? 682 00:34:42,282 --> 00:34:45,576 And then it kind of escalates to just a blanket like hey, 683 00:34:45,655 --> 00:34:49,443 everybody, just a real friendly reminder do not do X, y and Z, 684 00:34:49,463 --> 00:34:51,494 do not prop doors open, do not let people in. 685 00:34:51,494 --> 00:34:56,248 And now I'm thinking I do agree that the company should not be 686 00:34:56,449 --> 00:35:00,137 liable for that, but I'm wondering, like, what additional 687 00:35:00,137 --> 00:35:02,862 steps could have been taken in that situation. 688 00:35:02,862 --> 00:35:04,976 Like, were there conversations with HR? 689 00:35:04,976 --> 00:35:09,514 Did this person even feel like she was in danger, or was this 690 00:35:09,655 --> 00:35:10,137 out of the blue? 691 00:35:10,610 --> 00:35:13,318 And then I think on the other end, like if it escalated this 692 00:35:13,418 --> 00:35:16,980 much like things like this don't escalate that quickly usually, 693 00:35:17,150 --> 00:35:20,730 so usually there's signs of abuse within the relationship 694 00:35:21,030 --> 00:35:27,351 and if that's the case, like, just I don't know Like, are 695 00:35:27,371 --> 00:35:29,255 there little things that we could do, Not to say that the 696 00:35:29,416 --> 00:35:32,331 workplace is responsible, but just to say, like, what more 697 00:35:32,371 --> 00:35:32,954 could have been done? 698 00:35:33,635 --> 00:35:37,487 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean direct people to EAP, get them 699 00:35:37,588 --> 00:35:41,135 counseling, get them help, physical help, security type 700 00:35:41,175 --> 00:35:41,335 help. 701 00:35:41,335 --> 00:35:42,878 You know need. 702 00:35:42,878 --> 00:35:45,764 Do you need to be walked to your car at night and things 703 00:35:45,849 --> 00:35:46,231 like that. 704 00:35:46,231 --> 00:35:51,467 You know we, we have a badge in , badge out system, so all our 705 00:35:51,507 --> 00:35:55,817 doors are always locked from the outside and about once a year 706 00:35:55,836 --> 00:35:59,610 or so we send a reminder don't, don't hold the door open for 707 00:35:59,670 --> 00:36:02,617 other people, don't let people and everybody must open the door 708 00:36:02,617 --> 00:36:04,300 to themselves, use the badge themselves. 709 00:36:04,300 --> 00:36:08,210 But you know what, I'm the one who sends that email a week 710 00:36:08,411 --> 00:36:08,692 later. 711 00:36:08,692 --> 00:36:12,144 I know I'm holding the door for somebody and things like that, 712 00:36:12,184 --> 00:36:16,262 but in my defense, if somebody's been terminated or something's 713 00:36:16,302 --> 00:36:19,371 going on, I'm probably the first person outside. 714 00:36:19,371 --> 00:36:25,481 I would know, but I can't sit there as a human being, 715 00:36:25,561 --> 00:36:27,184 especially if someone's carrying something. 716 00:36:27,184 --> 00:36:31,240 I can't not open the door for someone else or hold it. 717 00:36:31,489 --> 00:36:32,896 You're three steps behind me. 718 00:36:32,896 --> 00:36:34,514 Nope, I'm not going to hold the door for you. 719 00:36:34,514 --> 00:36:39,769 It's awkward, but once a year or so we send out an email, not 720 00:36:39,809 --> 00:36:43,818 to I forget what the term they use for people just walking in 721 00:36:43,858 --> 00:36:45,782 behind someone who swiped in. 722 00:36:45,782 --> 00:36:50,759 So it's rough, but man, what a horrible, horrible situation. 723 00:36:50,759 --> 00:36:51,802 It's crazy. 724 00:36:54,735 --> 00:36:58,094 But I have one more story and it relates very much to what we 725 00:36:58,114 --> 00:37:03,693 were talking about with the micro retirements and this comes 726 00:37:03,693 --> 00:37:04,056 to us. 727 00:37:04,056 --> 00:37:08,612 I think it was on linkedin. 728 00:37:08,612 --> 00:37:08,932 I found it. 729 00:37:08,932 --> 00:37:10,418 I don't know who posted it, so I can't give them credit. 730 00:37:10,418 --> 00:37:14,329 The company is uline and, for whatever reason, I even get the 731 00:37:14,451 --> 00:37:18,777 uline catalogs at my home, yeah, for every once while for 732 00:37:19,778 --> 00:37:21,922 packing materials and things like that. 733 00:37:21,922 --> 00:37:27,471 But their CEO, I'm assuming Liz , and her name is printed here 734 00:37:27,811 --> 00:37:31,257 in cursive, so it looks like it's Liz Wilkinson. 735 00:37:31,257 --> 00:37:33,141 I might be wrong on that. 736 00:37:33,141 --> 00:37:38,496 She put this in her in their catalog and it's titled the 737 00:37:38,557 --> 00:37:43,954 Nomads and it goes job hopping used to be frowned on red flags 738 00:37:44,014 --> 00:37:47,202 on resumes, something previous generations did their best to 739 00:37:47,242 --> 00:37:47,603 avoid. 740 00:37:47,989 --> 00:37:51,119 You stuck with a job, you showed stability and you worked your 741 00:37:51,139 --> 00:37:51,541 way up. 742 00:37:51,541 --> 00:37:54,820 But boy, how times have changed , and that's underlined and in 743 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:55,101 bold. 744 00:37:55,101 --> 00:37:59,599 What makes it so easy for young workers to pull up stakes and 745 00:37:59,619 --> 00:38:00,001 move on? 746 00:38:00,001 --> 00:38:04,498 Why they don't prioritize job security and financial stability 747 00:38:04,498 --> 00:38:04,719 more. 748 00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,572 Maybe it's because they don't have to. 749 00:38:07,572 --> 00:38:11,400 At Uline, young people are resigning before their two-year 750 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,192 anniversary at a higher rate than we'd like. 751 00:38:13,192 --> 00:38:17,041 We invest precious resources in recruiting, hiring and training 752 00:38:17,041 --> 00:38:18,952 new hires, only for them to leave. 753 00:38:18,952 --> 00:38:20,516 We call them nomads. 754 00:38:20,516 --> 00:38:22,380 Why do they jump around? 755 00:38:22,380 --> 00:38:23,682 And then she's got this. 756 00:38:23,682 --> 00:38:25,315 Listen, this gets a little political here. 757 00:38:25,315 --> 00:38:28,784 Just not trying to be very political here, but free 758 00:38:28,824 --> 00:38:29,367 insurance. 759 00:38:29,367 --> 00:38:32,394 The Affordable Care Act allows young adults to stay on their 760 00:38:32,434 --> 00:38:34,621 parents' health insurance until age 26. 761 00:38:34,621 --> 00:38:38,338 The unintended consequences are that you can quit a job without 762 00:38:38,338 --> 00:38:41,211 losing coverage and go look for to go where the grass looks 763 00:38:41,271 --> 00:38:41,632 greener. 764 00:38:41,632 --> 00:38:44,797 In addition, parents often pay for their kids phone bills, car 765 00:38:44,838 --> 00:38:49,045 insurance, streaming services next bullet oh, I haven't 766 00:38:49,065 --> 00:38:49,788 thought about that. 767 00:38:50,648 --> 00:38:53,898 Speaker 3: Like you, would rather people be like enslaved 768 00:38:53,938 --> 00:38:58,090 at your company because they have no other choice for medical 769 00:38:58,090 --> 00:38:58,751 insurance. 770 00:38:58,751 --> 00:39:03,364 Like that's dumb but then also any other company provides 771 00:39:03,463 --> 00:39:06,010 insurance like well, not every, you know what I'm saying. 772 00:39:06,010 --> 00:39:09,722 Like most companies, most companies like you go you get on 773 00:39:09,722 --> 00:39:10,646 their insurance plan. 774 00:39:10,646 --> 00:39:12,231 That's a stupid reason. 775 00:39:12,572 --> 00:39:19,043 Speaker 2: Next, but I will say I'm I'm guilty, my, my son, I 776 00:39:19,144 --> 00:39:21,809 pay his car insurance and his phone bill. 777 00:39:21,809 --> 00:39:23,454 Now he's 21, he's still in college. 778 00:39:23,454 --> 00:39:27,092 So but my daughter, I still pay her phone bill. 779 00:39:27,092 --> 00:39:30,324 Only because I tried I was going to take her off. 780 00:39:30,324 --> 00:39:32,992 But it's actually less expensive to have four people in 781 00:39:32,992 --> 00:39:35,498 the family plan, to have three people in the family plan. 782 00:39:35,498 --> 00:39:39,115 So I was like, okay, screw it, I'll, you know, I'll pay her, 783 00:39:39,215 --> 00:39:42,103 I'll keep her on my, my family plan, my family phone. 784 00:39:42,103 --> 00:39:48,117 But anyways, our second bullet, the pandemic COVID-19, turned 785 00:39:48,137 --> 00:39:49,000 the world on its head. 786 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,952 Thanks to three rounds of stimulus checks, people didn't 787 00:39:51,972 --> 00:39:53,197 get off their couches to work. 788 00:39:53,197 --> 00:39:56,956 It became the norm to work from home and not build camaraderie 789 00:39:56,996 --> 00:39:57,336 at work. 790 00:39:57,336 --> 00:39:58,735 All hell broke loose. 791 00:39:58,735 --> 00:40:02,070 Okay, that's our bullet number two, or? 792 00:40:02,110 --> 00:40:03,295 Speaker 3: did you just lose control? 793 00:40:03,295 --> 00:40:03,409 Yeah? 794 00:40:04,135 --> 00:40:04,737 Speaker 2: I do see the work from home. 795 00:40:04,737 --> 00:40:06,447 Okay, that's number two, or did you just lose control? 796 00:40:06,447 --> 00:40:11,311 Yeah, I do see the work from home both ways, and it really 797 00:40:11,351 --> 00:40:14,637 depends on the leadership and the environment of the company, 798 00:40:14,677 --> 00:40:17,021 the culture of the company and things like that. 799 00:40:17,021 --> 00:40:18,284 I don't know. 800 00:40:19,271 --> 00:40:20,755 Speaker 3: Also like the stimulus checks. 801 00:40:20,755 --> 00:40:23,382 People act like they were like life changing money. 802 00:40:23,382 --> 00:40:28,983 Like Ed McMahon was showing up at your door with like a $45,000 803 00:40:28,983 --> 00:40:29,202 check. 804 00:40:29,202 --> 00:40:32,610 Like those stimulus checks weren't like life-changing, they 805 00:40:32,610 --> 00:40:34,554 were just like so to blame that . 806 00:40:34,554 --> 00:40:38,702 That's why people felt comfortable to job hop I don't 807 00:40:38,742 --> 00:40:40,775 know, and they were getting on it. 808 00:40:40,949 --> 00:40:43,155 Speaker 2: She doesn't say this, but I know people will be 809 00:40:43,215 --> 00:40:46,302 saying this unlimited unemployment for periods of the 810 00:40:46,362 --> 00:40:49,130 pandemic at some places as well. 811 00:40:49,130 --> 00:40:51,391 But well, then again they weren't losing money Knock on 812 00:40:51,411 --> 00:40:51,610 wood. 813 00:40:51,851 --> 00:40:53,818 Speaker 3: I don't want to put a jinx out there, but like when 814 00:40:53,858 --> 00:40:55,672 are we going to get another pandemic Like this? 815 00:40:55,733 --> 00:40:57,905 Speaker 1: is once in a 100 year phenomenon. 816 00:40:57,905 --> 00:41:00,893 I'm being kind of serious, like the last flu epidemic was like 817 00:41:00,914 --> 00:41:01,936 in 1920. 818 00:41:02,416 --> 00:41:05,322 Speaker 3: So like when, when are we going to have this again? 819 00:41:05,322 --> 00:41:08,496 So can we just like crumple those excuses up and just throw 820 00:41:08,516 --> 00:41:11,331 them away until we like have to rehash them in the next 100 821 00:41:11,351 --> 00:41:11,610 years? 822 00:41:11,610 --> 00:41:13,215 Like not just sensitive but. 823 00:41:14,277 --> 00:41:16,922 Speaker 2: I'm sort of overhearing COVID-19 being the 824 00:41:16,961 --> 00:41:21,221 blame for all of these things as well from kids not having 825 00:41:21,722 --> 00:41:22,505 social skills. 826 00:41:22,505 --> 00:41:25,114 Because they've been, they spent their high school years 827 00:41:25,134 --> 00:41:28,358 doing high school remotely and they can't work functionally 828 00:41:28,418 --> 00:41:29,159 with other people. 829 00:41:29,159 --> 00:41:33,496 There's there's a wee bit of merit to it, but it's not. 830 00:41:34,177 --> 00:41:38,329 Speaker 3: It's not the root cause it's also not the decline 831 00:41:38,349 --> 00:41:38,869 of society. 832 00:41:38,869 --> 00:41:43,052 So we're fine, we're fine life will go on. 833 00:41:43,512 --> 00:41:46,414 Speaker 2: Her third and final bullet is parenting. 834 00:41:46,414 --> 00:41:47,916 I like that. 835 00:41:47,916 --> 00:41:48,576 Look at her face. 836 00:41:48,576 --> 00:41:50,617 Many try to be a friend. 837 00:41:50,617 --> 00:41:54,981 They show a lot of affection and concentrate on the fun, but 838 00:41:55,121 --> 00:41:57,862 fail to provide guidelines, rules and expectations that 839 00:41:57,902 --> 00:41:59,543 teach personal responsibility. 840 00:41:59,543 --> 00:42:01,465 Bold and underlined, bold and underlined it. 841 00:42:01,465 --> 00:42:04,967 The result is a generation of nomads who've been sheltered in 842 00:42:05,007 --> 00:42:11,594 quotes, knowing mom and dad will keep taking care of them. 843 00:42:11,594 --> 00:42:13,320 At some point you've got to kick them out of the nest so 844 00:42:13,340 --> 00:42:14,023 they can learn to fly. 845 00:42:14,023 --> 00:42:15,387 And she ends it by saying employers always look out for 846 00:42:15,608 --> 00:42:17,193 young, talented candidates. 847 00:42:17,193 --> 00:42:19,900 It's hard to build a winning team when the rookies you sign 848 00:42:19,940 --> 00:42:22,434 think they're free agents before they even take the field. 849 00:42:23,896 --> 00:42:26,402 Speaker 3: So newsflash, every employee is a free agent. 850 00:42:27,003 --> 00:42:29,690 Speaker 2: Yeah, Employment at will has been around, unless 851 00:42:29,710 --> 00:42:33,481 you're in Montana for quite a while. 852 00:42:34,751 --> 00:42:40,594 Speaker 3: I'm curious to hear what Uline does for, like I 853 00:42:40,614 --> 00:42:43,141 don't know performance management, for learning and 854 00:42:43,161 --> 00:42:45,331 development, for growth pathing, for growth pathing, for career 855 00:42:45,351 --> 00:42:48,338 pathing, like, instead of looking at this younger 856 00:42:48,358 --> 00:42:52,934 generation who, I'm probably going to say, in my own opinion, 857 00:42:52,934 --> 00:42:57,302 learned what millennials did is that you're going to make more 858 00:42:57,342 --> 00:43:02,376 money if you leave, right, like if you leave and take an offer 859 00:43:02,396 --> 00:43:06,425 somewhere else, incrementally over x amount of years, you are 860 00:43:06,449 --> 00:43:10,099 going to make more money than if you just stay at a company like 861 00:43:10,099 --> 00:43:13,172 a good little boy or girl and get your little pats on the head 862 00:43:13,172 --> 00:43:15,599 with your little two percent increases every year. 863 00:43:15,599 --> 00:43:20,077 I mean, unless the company is actually pouring into someone 864 00:43:20,177 --> 00:43:23,472 and making it worthwhile for that person to stay, then you 865 00:43:23,492 --> 00:43:24,500 can 100 expect that person to leave. 866 00:43:24,500 --> 00:43:27,554 Then you can 100% expect that person to leave within three 867 00:43:27,594 --> 00:43:27,875 years. 868 00:43:27,875 --> 00:43:30,621 And I think honestly, like I, this is just off the top of my 869 00:43:30,661 --> 00:43:34,536 head I think that's like the average, like people stay like 870 00:43:34,617 --> 00:43:35,219 three years. 871 00:43:35,559 --> 00:43:38,833 So my feedback to you is why are people leaving at two years? 872 00:43:38,833 --> 00:43:40,697 Because that's below average. 873 00:43:40,697 --> 00:43:42,230 Is there something you're doing that's wrong? 874 00:43:42,230 --> 00:43:45,699 You line Because that's not right, but now I'm being snarky, 875 00:43:45,699 --> 00:43:50,210 but like this, this article seems to be very, I think you're 876 00:43:50,210 --> 00:43:50,349 right. 877 00:43:50,349 --> 00:43:53,842 There's a lot of like little political sprinklings in there, 878 00:43:54,443 --> 00:43:58,356 but for the most part, it's blaming people for a problem 879 00:43:58,376 --> 00:43:59,297 that you've created. 880 00:43:59,699 --> 00:44:04,050 Speaker 2: Like, like, I don't know that's no, I I think I 881 00:44:04,070 --> 00:44:07,034 would like to know what the the culture is, because there's some 882 00:44:07,034 --> 00:44:10,480 companies out there that do really good at bringing in young 883 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,625 people and developing them and letting them grow. 884 00:44:13,625 --> 00:44:19,739 Back in my day and people might laugh at this there are two 885 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:24,128 companies that were really known for developing managers in 886 00:44:24,168 --> 00:44:24,710 future careers. 887 00:44:24,710 --> 00:44:26,717 First was enterprise rent-a-car . 888 00:44:26,717 --> 00:44:31,313 If you got in there and you stuck with them and took their 889 00:44:32,056 --> 00:44:35,809 management route, yeah you learned a lot, you developed a 890 00:44:35,849 --> 00:44:36,090 career. 891 00:44:36,110 --> 00:44:40,186 I mean, is enterprise rent-a-car to the most glamorous place to 892 00:44:40,206 --> 00:44:41,371 work or anything like that? 893 00:44:41,371 --> 00:44:55,811 No, but they had a very good routine in the other place and 894 00:44:55,831 --> 00:44:57,398 Sherwin-Williams was the other that developed managers and 895 00:44:57,418 --> 00:44:58,663 taught people to be managers and leaders and develop them. 896 00:44:58,663 --> 00:45:00,110 And yeah, you're probably not going at either of those places, 897 00:45:00,110 --> 00:45:03,554 you're not going to keep those people for and once again I'm 898 00:45:03,574 --> 00:45:05,737 talking about people who are graduating from college in the 899 00:45:06,099 --> 00:45:07,521 mid, early mid 90s. 900 00:45:07,521 --> 00:45:10,510 And that was the thing and those people, as they went 901 00:45:10,530 --> 00:45:12,177 through their career, did really well. 902 00:45:12,177 --> 00:45:15,550 And actually here's a funny side story I interviewed at 903 00:45:15,630 --> 00:45:19,224 enterprise for a job as I really kind of wanted to work there 904 00:45:19,244 --> 00:45:20,750 because their management structure. 905 00:45:22,634 --> 00:45:26,722 I bombed that interview like there is no and it's not 906 00:45:26,742 --> 00:45:27,003 anything. 907 00:45:27,003 --> 00:45:30,614 I said what it was the interviewer, she. 908 00:45:30,614 --> 00:45:36,724 She was in her upper 20s and here I am, 22 ish, I think she 909 00:45:39,474 --> 00:45:42,320 unofficially dared me into a staring contest. 910 00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:46,268 She had locked in eye contact and didn't blink. 911 00:45:46,268 --> 00:45:47,971 I wasn't going to blink. 912 00:45:47,971 --> 00:45:50,820 And I'm sitting there staring at her. 913 00:45:50,820 --> 00:45:53,931 I'm not blinking, I'm talking, I'm going through the interview. 914 00:45:53,931 --> 00:45:58,460 I was like I don't know, I couldn't stand down, I couldn't 915 00:45:59,001 --> 00:46:01,713 take a breath and relax and be myself. 916 00:46:01,713 --> 00:46:05,682 I had to sit there eyes wide open, unblinking, staring at her 917 00:46:05,682 --> 00:46:09,657 with the same intensity she was staring at me, and so that was 918 00:46:09,697 --> 00:46:13,431 a very awkward interview, and I did not get that job. 919 00:46:14,914 --> 00:46:17,360 Speaker 3: I will say a friend of a friend of mine speaking 920 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,693 about like interviewing in the job market, like. 921 00:46:19,693 --> 00:46:24,242 So a friend of mine is now interviewing and they have a 922 00:46:24,364 --> 00:46:28,231 final interview this friday with a company now the company 923 00:46:28,291 --> 00:46:31,338 itself small world. 924 00:46:31,338 --> 00:46:34,063 A friend of a friend used to work there and that. 925 00:46:34,063 --> 00:46:36,875 But they used to work there like 15 years ago, 10, 15 years 926 00:46:36,896 --> 00:46:41,010 ago and when they, when they said they were like leaving, 927 00:46:41,030 --> 00:46:45,282 they could not leave fast enough because just the corporation 928 00:46:45,302 --> 00:46:49,119 was very, the company was very, very militant, a lot of 929 00:46:49,240 --> 00:46:52,952 ex-military work there and they led with aggression and that was 930 00:46:52,952 --> 00:46:56,360 the culture of just direct and like a lot of people, and not 931 00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,936 that I'm not saying like all places with military no, I'm not 932 00:46:58,936 --> 00:47:02,849 saying that but that was just like this place was rent, very 933 00:47:03,010 --> 00:47:05,911 militant and very like people would yell at each other and 934 00:47:05,931 --> 00:47:08,018 like that's how I'm sitting there. 935 00:47:08,050 --> 00:47:10,755 I'm like God, you got to come up with some real good interview 936 00:47:10,795 --> 00:47:14,181 questions to get down to that, to see if that's changed, 937 00:47:14,260 --> 00:47:16,664 because that sounds horrific. 938 00:47:16,664 --> 00:47:20,121 So hopefully that is that's changed. 939 00:47:20,121 --> 00:47:24,280 But what I was also going to say is like this job market's a 940 00:47:24,300 --> 00:47:25,463 little too crazy right now. 941 00:47:25,463 --> 00:47:30,860 And the same friend got a applied for a role that was like 942 00:47:30,860 --> 00:47:34,572 a director level human resources person and the company 943 00:47:34,572 --> 00:47:38,297 got back to them and I like looked at the company name. 944 00:47:38,297 --> 00:47:40,637 I'm like that sounds I'm not going to say the company name on 945 00:47:40,637 --> 00:47:42,315 here I'm like that sounds scammy. 946 00:47:42,315 --> 00:47:45,353 Say the company name on here like that sounds scammy. 947 00:47:45,373 --> 00:47:46,655 and if there's one thing you need to know about me is in my 948 00:47:46,675 --> 00:47:50,364 spare time I go down these weird youtube rabbit holes about 949 00:47:50,585 --> 00:47:57,278 scams and also mlms and pyramid schemes so they were like I like 950 00:47:57,278 --> 00:48:01,333 looked up the company and it says along the lines of a 951 00:48:01,534 --> 00:48:05,085 business that focuses on personal development and online 952 00:48:05,146 --> 00:48:09,143 business opportunities, with a strong emphasis on travel and 953 00:48:09,505 --> 00:48:12,478 time freedom, and I'm like, oh shit. 954 00:48:12,478 --> 00:48:14,577 I'm like that sounds like MLM. 955 00:48:14,577 --> 00:48:17,759 And then, sure enough, looking down, it's like this is a 956 00:48:17,818 --> 00:48:18,561 pyramid scheme. 957 00:48:18,561 --> 00:48:19,894 This is a pyramid scheme. 958 00:48:19,894 --> 00:48:20,990 This is so. 959 00:48:21,211 --> 00:48:25,382 I just want to ask this job market sucks so much. 960 00:48:25,382 --> 00:48:29,119 Keep the pyramid schemes out of it. 961 00:48:29,119 --> 00:48:33,860 People just want to find a damn job and go to work and work 962 00:48:33,900 --> 00:48:37,434 their time and, as we're talking about this woman from Uline, 963 00:48:38,177 --> 00:48:40,782 like it's not that deep. 964 00:48:40,782 --> 00:48:45,081 People just want to go to a job and make what they feel like is 965 00:48:45,081 --> 00:48:49,315 fair, and if you don't provide them for what they feel like is 966 00:48:49,394 --> 00:48:54,583 fair whether they're correct or not this is all about perception 967 00:48:54,583 --> 00:48:56,726 of fairness they are going to leave. 968 00:48:56,726 --> 00:49:00,536 So you need to handle that perception, handle those 969 00:49:00,577 --> 00:49:05,326 expectations and give people something in return so they 970 00:49:05,887 --> 00:49:07,269 effing stay, it's not. 971 00:49:07,650 --> 00:49:10,242 I hate this generational nonsense of like kids. 972 00:49:10,242 --> 00:49:12,389 These days they don't know what they're doing. 973 00:49:12,389 --> 00:49:16,358 I'm like shut up, like gen z's just building on what the 974 00:49:16,398 --> 00:49:19,994 millennials already learned like we already learned the scam we 975 00:49:20,014 --> 00:49:20,855 already learned the scam. 976 00:49:20,914 --> 00:49:21,536 It's a a scam. 977 00:49:21,536 --> 00:49:26,224 It's a scam Like unless you're bringing back pensions, unless 978 00:49:26,264 --> 00:49:30,032 you're bringing back really big career paths, unless you're 979 00:49:30,092 --> 00:49:35,043 doing stuff like that, we are going to try to find the biggest 980 00:49:35,043 --> 00:49:36,012 pay, but not only that. 981 00:49:36,012 --> 00:49:39,681 We're trying to find the best experience because we want to. 982 00:49:39,681 --> 00:49:42,454 And I know this about Gen X, too, or Gen Z, sorry. 983 00:49:42,454 --> 00:49:45,762 They want to learn, they want to grow, they want to grow, they 984 00:49:45,762 --> 00:49:46,764 want opportunity. 985 00:49:46,764 --> 00:49:49,092 And that's the same with millennials where, when they 986 00:49:49,132 --> 00:49:52,157 entered the workforce and spoiler alert, it's the way Gen 987 00:49:52,297 --> 00:49:54,637 X was, it's the way everyone is when they entered the workforce 988 00:49:54,677 --> 00:49:55,358 at a certain age. 989 00:49:55,358 --> 00:49:59,456 But it's just one of those things where, if you're not 990 00:49:59,516 --> 00:50:02,063 giving them a reason to stay, people are going to leave. 991 00:50:11,889 --> 00:50:13,092 Speaker 2: People are going to leave them a reason to stay. 992 00:50:13,092 --> 00:50:13,815 People are gonna leave. 993 00:50:13,815 --> 00:50:14,295 People are gonna leave. 994 00:50:14,295 --> 00:50:15,398 Cry about it, susan, cry about it Liz, liz, yeah, whatever 995 00:50:15,418 --> 00:50:16,581 she's, susan, susan, karen, karen, let's cry about it, karen 996 00:50:16,581 --> 00:50:16,581 . 997 00:50:16,581 --> 00:50:17,704 No, I, I think, I, I think you hit on the head. 998 00:50:17,704 --> 00:50:20,670 She's envisioning a company of 30, 40 years ago where you came 999 00:50:20,811 --> 00:50:24,016 in day one and you worked your 30 years. 1000 00:50:24,016 --> 00:50:29,393 I mean I've averaged well, more than double in most of my jobs, 1001 00:50:29,393 --> 00:50:30,195 except for one. 1002 00:50:30,195 --> 00:50:32,521 Well, most of my jobs I've stayed in. 1003 00:50:32,521 --> 00:50:36,335 I've been at over three years and things like that. 1004 00:50:36,335 --> 00:50:39,081 I get to places I like and I stay. 1005 00:50:39,081 --> 00:50:41,652 And yeah, if I were to hop, sure I could make a little bit 1006 00:50:41,692 --> 00:50:45,579 more money here or there, but there's so much for me benefits 1007 00:50:45,639 --> 00:50:47,284 in staying where I am. 1008 00:50:47,989 --> 00:50:53,581 And there's, you know, someone who, a hated HR but B understood 1009 00:50:53,581 --> 00:50:54,204 HR. 1010 00:50:54,204 --> 00:50:56,777 They had this interesting dichotomy. 1011 00:50:56,777 --> 00:50:59,498 They were a manager I had to work very closely with. 1012 00:50:59,498 --> 00:51:02,016 We got along. 1013 00:51:02,016 --> 00:51:05,759 He respected me, but he did not like the function of HR and he 1014 00:51:05,918 --> 00:51:07,001 made no bones about it. 1015 00:51:07,530 --> 00:51:10,338 But when we're talking about retention, he goes, he goes. 1016 00:51:10,338 --> 00:51:11,452 There's two things he goes. 1017 00:51:11,452 --> 00:51:12,597 There's a stick and a carrot. 1018 00:51:12,597 --> 00:51:13,331 He goes. 1019 00:51:13,331 --> 00:51:16,320 If you have only a stick, you're going to drive people 1020 00:51:16,340 --> 00:51:17,913 away, but only but. 1021 00:51:17,913 --> 00:51:20,219 If you have only a carrot, that's not necessarily going to 1022 00:51:20,278 --> 00:51:21,101 lure people away. 1023 00:51:21,101 --> 00:51:24,981 There's got to be both a stick and a carrot from another 1024 00:51:25,021 --> 00:51:25,382 company. 1025 00:51:25,382 --> 00:51:29,322 If you're you know if things are looking so good, you know if 1026 00:51:29,322 --> 00:51:32,757 you're there's nothing driving them out, you know they're going 1027 00:51:32,757 --> 00:51:35,650 to be less likely to go even if it's other opportunity looks 1028 00:51:35,731 --> 00:51:35,990 good. 1029 00:51:36,072 --> 00:51:40,221 And he I've always I haven't bought into him a hundred 1030 00:51:40,240 --> 00:51:43,358 percent in his thing, but I do believe there it's a two, 1031 00:51:43,619 --> 00:51:44,722 there's two aspects of it. 1032 00:51:44,722 --> 00:51:48,434 There's what's driving you out and what's pulling you elsewhere 1033 00:51:48,434 --> 00:51:52,320 , and you have to have both to a certain extent. 1034 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:55,393 Now, if it's an abusive, awful environment, yeah, get the hell 1035 00:51:55,534 --> 00:51:56,315 out. 1036 00:51:56,315 --> 00:51:58,869 I've mentioned I only worked at the water park one year. 1037 00:51:58,869 --> 00:52:01,675 It wasn't a horrible environment, it wasn't awful, it 1038 00:52:01,675 --> 00:52:07,251 wasn't the right environment for me is what it was and yeah, 1039 00:52:07,271 --> 00:52:11,978 so maybe that's their situation, but Otherwise there was 1040 00:52:11,998 --> 00:52:14,505 something driving me out there and it was called 400 Teenagers. 1041 00:52:14,505 --> 00:52:17,534 I could not deal with 400 teenagers any longer. 1042 00:52:18,318 --> 00:52:19,019 Speaker 3: If I had hair. 1043 00:52:19,059 --> 00:52:22,079 Speaker 2: I would have been pulling it out but that was 1044 00:52:22,179 --> 00:52:23,244 pushing me out. 1045 00:52:23,244 --> 00:52:27,518 And then I found a job, but sort of along those lines, when 1046 00:52:27,677 --> 00:52:30,463 I was looking for a job to leave the water park. 1047 00:52:30,463 --> 00:52:33,887 My very first interview was with a company. 1048 00:52:33,887 --> 00:52:34,708 I applied online. 1049 00:52:34,708 --> 00:52:35,469 I remember their ad. 1050 00:52:35,469 --> 00:52:38,103 They were an IT services firm da da, da, da da. 1051 00:52:38,103 --> 00:52:44,447 And the ad on wherever it was LinkedIn Indeed wherever made it 1052 00:52:44,447 --> 00:52:45,289 look really cool. 1053 00:52:45,956 --> 00:52:49,960 I sent in my resume, got an interview, I go in and I go 1054 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,286 through the interview and then it's time for me to ask 1055 00:52:52,326 --> 00:52:52,567 questions. 1056 00:52:52,567 --> 00:52:54,960 I'm like well, tell me about you know about IT services and 1057 00:52:55,021 --> 00:52:57,726 how many IT developers and things you have. 1058 00:52:57,726 --> 00:53:00,898 They had the whole floor of this building and I was like she 1059 00:53:00,898 --> 00:53:01,742 goes, well, we have two. 1060 00:53:01,742 --> 00:53:04,784 And I'm like, oh well, what is the rest of the company? 1061 00:53:04,784 --> 00:53:10,300 And it was a call center and it was a call center designed to 1062 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:11,543 sell their software. 1063 00:53:11,543 --> 00:53:13,887 That these two developers were it. 1064 00:53:13,887 --> 00:53:19,096 Just if you're marketing your position as a director of HR for 1065 00:53:19,096 --> 00:53:24,164 an IT services firm, but you have two people that do IT work 1066 00:53:24,626 --> 00:53:28,679 and you know 200 call center people, yeah, that's, that's not 1067 00:53:28,679 --> 00:53:30,141 a, that's not IT services. 1068 00:53:31,143 --> 00:53:35,195 I just did not take well to that at all and they called me for a 1069 00:53:35,195 --> 00:53:35,735 second interview. 1070 00:53:35,735 --> 00:53:36,996 I was like I'm sorry, I'm just not take well to that at all. 1071 00:53:36,996 --> 00:53:37,938 And they called me for a second interview. 1072 00:53:37,938 --> 00:53:39,858 I was like I'm sorry, I'm just not interested in this position. 1073 00:53:39,858 --> 00:53:43,081 And they called me like back twice after I told them I'm 1074 00:53:43,240 --> 00:53:45,503 really not interested in this position. 1075 00:53:45,503 --> 00:53:49,625 I was like tell me your call center, yeah, and things as I. 1076 00:53:49,625 --> 00:53:52,527 You know, some people gosh. 1077 00:53:52,527 --> 00:53:55,289 There's a guy who has I haven't listened to this podcast in a 1078 00:53:55,349 --> 00:53:55,949 long time. 1079 00:53:55,949 --> 00:53:59,371 He's down in Orlando, florida area and he loves working at 1080 00:53:59,411 --> 00:53:59,911 call center. 1081 00:53:59,911 --> 00:54:09,599 He's an HR person there and I just can't see myself at just 1082 00:54:09,679 --> 00:54:10,382 the what I picture and envision. 1083 00:54:10,382 --> 00:54:11,766 No firsthand experience of the turnover and the issues you have 1084 00:54:11,766 --> 00:54:12,025 to deal with. 1085 00:54:12,025 --> 00:54:12,527 I just yeah, I. 1086 00:54:12,547 --> 00:54:15,860 Speaker 3: That wouldn't be for the right environment for me, so 1087 00:54:15,860 --> 00:54:18,878 , so yeah, I think there's like a lot, because Uline kind of 1088 00:54:18,938 --> 00:54:24,413 reminds me of like I know they they probably do like a lot of 1089 00:54:24,753 --> 00:54:26,878 packaging and delivering of products. 1090 00:54:26,878 --> 00:54:29,405 So I'm thinking it's like a warehouse environment with a lot 1091 00:54:29,405 --> 00:54:33,541 of like stock man, like actual inventory management and the 1092 00:54:33,561 --> 00:54:36,646 shipping of things and stuff like that, which sounds like a 1093 00:54:36,706 --> 00:54:37,668 lot of a lot. 1094 00:54:37,668 --> 00:54:40,793 Like a company I used to work for that was very it was 1095 00:54:40,873 --> 00:54:43,679 manufacturing, but kind of the same thing just like a lot of 1096 00:54:44,121 --> 00:54:47,416 people working on the lines, doing the things, packing the 1097 00:54:47,476 --> 00:54:48,496 things, shipping the things. 1098 00:54:48,496 --> 00:54:53,802 And, to be honest with you, that isn't unless you're someone 1099 00:54:53,802 --> 00:54:58,947 who is wanting to go down to work up to a supervisor, to work 1100 00:54:58,947 --> 00:55:02,391 up to a manager, to work up, like from a floor worker up, up, 1101 00:55:02,391 --> 00:55:05,197 up Like there's going to be a lot of turnover because 1102 00:55:05,297 --> 00:55:11,083 individuals who are working on like a manufacturing floor or a 1103 00:55:11,143 --> 00:55:14,708 floor environment, unless they, unless they have a desire to 1104 00:55:14,748 --> 00:55:18,010 move into management, they've, they've reached, they've reached 1105 00:55:18,010 --> 00:55:18,192 it. 1106 00:55:18,192 --> 00:55:19,893 You know that's what they want to do, that's what they're going 1107 00:55:19,893 --> 00:55:21,059 to do and there's nothing wrong with that. 1108 00:55:21,059 --> 00:55:24,063 But at the same time, like again, you got to find ways to 1109 00:55:24,103 --> 00:55:26,284 keep them here because that carrot of bigger pay is out 1110 00:55:26,324 --> 00:55:31,059 there, yeah, and also, just get rid of bullshit, like being in, 1111 00:55:31,260 --> 00:55:35,887 like, of course, this is where it's applicable, because not all 1112 00:55:35,887 --> 00:55:39,998 jobs can be done remotely, but where is it like? 1113 00:55:39,998 --> 00:55:41,621 Stop getting rid of? 1114 00:55:41,621 --> 00:55:44,407 Get rid of bullshit rules and policies. 1115 00:55:44,976 --> 00:55:50,268 I worked at a home builder and we had to be every single person 1116 00:55:50,268 --> 00:55:50,268 . 1117 00:55:50,268 --> 00:55:53,922 All employees had to be in their seats at 8 am and no one 1118 00:55:53,963 --> 00:55:55,686 could leave before 5 pm. 1119 00:55:55,686 --> 00:55:59,059 And if you did, they would notice and it was just like. 1120 00:55:59,059 --> 00:56:00,528 This was a few years ago. 1121 00:56:00,528 --> 00:56:01,434 This was like 2020. 1122 00:56:01,434 --> 00:56:05,724 And I'm like, and even when the pandemic hit, we were a what is 1123 00:56:05,724 --> 00:56:05,925 that? 1124 00:56:05,925 --> 00:56:08,463 Critical roles because we were building homes. 1125 00:56:08,463 --> 00:56:12,438 So so, yeah, like, even with that, you had to be in the 1126 00:56:12,498 --> 00:56:12,759 office. 1127 00:56:12,759 --> 00:56:13,760 You can wear masks. 1128 00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,885 If you have your own personal office, there's no reason why 1129 00:56:16,905 --> 00:56:17,666 you have to work from home. 1130 00:56:17,666 --> 00:56:19,088 You close your office door. 1131 00:56:19,088 --> 00:56:20,670 I'm like why? 1132 00:56:20,670 --> 00:56:24,179 These are stupid rules and I quit because of the stupid rules 1133 00:56:24,179 --> 00:56:24,179 . 1134 00:56:26,606 --> 00:56:32,163 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think my overt, my personal aversion to 1135 00:56:32,362 --> 00:56:35,068 the working from home is I just never got in the flow. 1136 00:56:35,068 --> 00:56:39,297 I never regularly worked from home, even during the pandemic, 1137 00:56:39,900 --> 00:56:42,827 and I didn't start working from home until about a year and a 1138 00:56:42,867 --> 00:56:43,416 half ago. 1139 00:56:43,416 --> 00:56:48,204 Our policy even before pre-pandemic was certain roles 1140 00:56:48,264 --> 00:56:52,838 could work from home two days a week, and then we were very 1141 00:56:52,898 --> 00:56:56,623 flexible during the pandemic time, but I still came into the 1142 00:56:56,724 --> 00:57:00,088 office during the whole pandemic five days a week in the office, 1143 00:57:00,088 --> 00:57:02,190 40 hours, because that's what I liked. 1144 00:57:02,190 --> 00:57:07,043 And then my first long period of working from home was when, 1145 00:57:07,385 --> 00:57:12,202 first, my wife and children got COVID and so I stayed home as I 1146 00:57:12,242 --> 00:57:14,554 didn't want to bring it to the office with me, right? 1147 00:57:14,554 --> 00:57:18,003 So I stayed at home and then, as they're recovering, I finally 1148 00:57:18,003 --> 00:57:18,284 caught. 1149 00:57:18,284 --> 00:57:20,596 I thought I was going to get through the whole thing, but as 1150 00:57:20,615 --> 00:57:24,960 they're recovering, I finally got it, and that was like years, 1151 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:26,365 it wasn't 2020. 1152 00:57:26,365 --> 00:57:34,043 It was like 2021 or later when I finally got it and I just 1153 00:57:34,083 --> 00:57:35,907 never got in the groove of working from home. 1154 00:57:35,907 --> 00:57:40,585 And then when I moved, I moved half an hour away, further away 1155 00:57:40,644 --> 00:57:44,798 from my work than I was living, and that's when I decided, okay, 1156 00:57:44,798 --> 00:57:50,740 I was going to do one day a week from home and you have to 1157 00:57:50,820 --> 00:57:55,119 get in a sink in the flow of it and doing one day a week, you 1158 00:57:55,159 --> 00:57:59,527 never get in that sink in that flow and I I never called in. 1159 00:57:59,527 --> 00:58:03,474 So I, just a few months ago or maybe the end of last year, I 1160 00:58:03,494 --> 00:58:04,882 don't remember exactly I said you know what? 1161 00:58:04,882 --> 00:58:07,081 I'm just going to go to the office every single day. 1162 00:58:07,081 --> 00:58:09,876 I I prefer the office, like today. 1163 00:58:09,876 --> 00:58:10,880 I had a. 1164 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:12,385 I liked being in the office. 1165 00:58:12,385 --> 00:58:14,963 I got to be involved in some things that I'm not normally 1166 00:58:15,003 --> 00:58:35,402 involved with and I was like if I was sitting at home, I say 1167 00:58:35,483 --> 00:58:36,945 what can I help, what can I do? 1168 00:58:36,945 --> 00:58:40,701 And yeah, I like doing things like that, I like being around 1169 00:58:41,163 --> 00:58:41,483 people. 1170 00:58:41,563 --> 00:58:45,476 But my wife, on the other hand, when the covid happened and they 1171 00:58:45,476 --> 00:58:50,726 sent them home, she has excelled working from home, yeah 1172 00:58:50,726 --> 00:58:54,844 , and she goes into the office once every other week. 1173 00:58:54,844 --> 00:58:57,574 She and another employee rotates to go in as they do 1174 00:58:57,614 --> 00:58:57,875 payroll. 1175 00:58:57,875 --> 00:59:01,942 So they got to go in once a week before payrolls to get the 1176 00:59:02,181 --> 00:59:06,449 liens and garnishments and all those other fun things they need 1177 00:59:06,449 --> 00:59:07,349 to get out of the office. 1178 00:59:07,349 --> 00:59:10,485 And she goes in once a week and does that. 1179 00:59:10,485 --> 00:59:14,403 But she likes going to the office when it is time to go. 1180 00:59:14,403 --> 00:59:15,315 Once a week she goes. 1181 00:59:15,315 --> 00:59:19,065 You know, twice a month is perfectly fine by me to go in 1182 00:59:19,106 --> 00:59:19,407 the office. 1183 00:59:19,407 --> 00:59:22,722 She still has a physical office there and they're actually 1184 00:59:22,822 --> 00:59:26,577 redecorating the office right now as we speak and she's like, 1185 00:59:27,079 --> 00:59:29,500 oh, that's nice, she's got nothing personal. 1186 00:59:29,500 --> 00:59:31,204 No family pictures there anymore. 1187 00:59:31,204 --> 00:59:34,344 No, nothing in the office anymore. 1188 00:59:37,695 --> 00:59:38,880 You know, the office is just sort of where she hangs out 1189 00:59:38,900 --> 00:59:39,744 while she's at work and goes to work. 1190 00:59:39,744 --> 00:59:42,295 But most of the time she says she's out there chit-chatting 1191 00:59:42,335 --> 00:59:43,016 with other people. 1192 00:59:43,016 --> 00:59:46,706 You know, like, apparently hr is, she's right around the 1193 00:59:46,726 --> 00:59:49,722 corner from hr and they are in the office five days a week and 1194 00:59:49,762 --> 00:59:52,614 accounting is in the office five days a week, so she's around 1195 00:59:52,675 --> 00:59:55,664 the corner from them and hangs out and chit chats with them and 1196 00:59:55,664 --> 00:59:57,056 things like that. 1197 00:59:57,056 --> 01:00:04,128 So, yeah, I work from home is not if the company manages it 1198 01:00:04,188 --> 01:00:08,360 well and takes it with the right attitude and presents it in the 1199 01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:11,668 right framework of of how it should be done. 1200 01:00:11,668 --> 01:00:14,619 Because, yes, you're definitely going to have people who are 1201 01:00:14,679 --> 01:00:19,108 slackers and are working from home. 1202 01:00:19,394 --> 01:00:22,664 I can think of someone who would post on Facebook regularly 1203 01:00:22,744 --> 01:00:26,923 about being at the pool while they were working at home and 1204 01:00:26,963 --> 01:00:30,038 things like that, or being at the beach and and things like 1205 01:00:30,057 --> 01:00:33,438 that, while they were supposed to be working from home, and I 1206 01:00:33,458 --> 01:00:34,284 don't know who would do that. 1207 01:00:34,284 --> 01:00:35,269 But those are the. 1208 01:00:35,269 --> 01:00:35,550 Those are the. 1209 01:00:35,550 --> 01:00:38,282 Those are the people that this lady from you line. 1210 01:00:38,282 --> 01:00:41,333 She sees those posts and knows here's those same people. 1211 01:00:41,333 --> 01:00:44,547 Yes, yeah, I'm working from home at the beach, and that 1212 01:00:44,586 --> 01:00:45,853 means they're not answering your emails. 1213 01:00:45,853 --> 01:00:48,521 You're not being diligent, you know there's truth to that. 1214 01:00:48,541 --> 01:00:50,896 There really is and there's people who do that, but that's 1215 01:00:50,936 --> 01:00:52,601 when you, as a manager, handle that. 1216 01:00:52,601 --> 01:00:56,054 Say, hey, warren, yeah, yeah, everybody seems to be talking 1217 01:00:56,074 --> 01:00:58,708 about your facebook post while you're you're at the beach when 1218 01:00:59,150 --> 01:01:00,675 you were supposed to be working today one. 1219 01:01:01,016 --> 01:01:03,864 Speaker 3: Let's have a little conversation about that I will 1220 01:01:03,884 --> 01:01:06,940 say like I'm speaking from this from a very from from the lens 1221 01:01:06,981 --> 01:01:09,431 of someone who works in a corporate environment where 1222 01:01:09,650 --> 01:01:15,242 there is flexibility, and I work for an organization where all 1223 01:01:15,282 --> 01:01:16,724 the work can be done remotely. 1224 01:01:16,724 --> 01:01:23,925 So again, this is a very specific perspective, but it's 1225 01:01:23,945 --> 01:01:24,407 funny enough. 1226 01:01:24,407 --> 01:01:27,094 As we were like kind of prepping for this episode 1227 01:01:27,135 --> 01:01:31,485 tonight, I did a quick, I went with my little AI assistant and 1228 01:01:31,846 --> 01:01:35,304 one of the things that came up this week from the guardian was 1229 01:01:35,625 --> 01:01:40,822 like it was with workplace flexibility and hybrid working 1230 01:01:41,182 --> 01:01:47,800 and asynchronous working, like there is a shift from thinking 1231 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:54,090 about hours worked versus the energy, that energy flow. 1232 01:01:54,090 --> 01:01:57,590 So it's not like workflow during time, but it's like work 1233 01:01:57,650 --> 01:02:00,900 produced during energy flows, which sounds really weird but it 1234 01:02:00,900 --> 01:02:01,882 makes sense in my head. 1235 01:02:01,882 --> 01:02:06,661 But it's very like if, if you're a morning person, then 1236 01:02:06,882 --> 01:02:09,188 you get all your work done in the morning boom, boom, boom, 1237 01:02:09,208 --> 01:02:09,675 boom, boom. 1238 01:02:09,675 --> 01:02:13,041 And let's say like that's your, that's the way your brain is 1239 01:02:13,141 --> 01:02:15,246 wired, that's the way your internal clock is. 1240 01:02:15,246 --> 01:02:18,123 And let's say you go into the office and you get all your work 1241 01:02:18,123 --> 01:02:21,215 like a massive amount of bulk of your work done before lunch 1242 01:02:22,039 --> 01:02:22,981 and you're working from home. 1243 01:02:22,981 --> 01:02:27,835 Let's say yeah, like go do your laundry, go clean the bathroom 1244 01:02:28,034 --> 01:02:30,221 during a break, I don't care, cause you're still being 1245 01:02:30,260 --> 01:02:32,385 productive at work. 1246 01:02:32,385 --> 01:02:35,802 If you're one of those people who's more you know gets all of 1247 01:02:35,862 --> 01:02:38,518 their work done, plus some maybe in the afternoon, because 1248 01:02:38,557 --> 01:02:42,626 that's when your energy clock, your internal clock, is lean 1249 01:02:42,686 --> 01:02:47,807 into that like you don't need to be sitting at your desk doing 1250 01:02:48,009 --> 01:02:51,318 like forcing yourself the emotional labor to do something, 1251 01:02:51,318 --> 01:02:54,126 when instead you, if you naturally lean into like those 1252 01:02:54,206 --> 01:02:57,679 times of productivity, it's just going to be more. 1253 01:02:57,679 --> 01:02:58,965 You're going to get more done. 1254 01:02:58,965 --> 01:03:00,170 That's the argument. 1255 01:03:00,170 --> 01:03:01,920 The argument is you're going to get more work done. 1256 01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,494 It's going to be more efficient because you're just kind of 1257 01:03:04,514 --> 01:03:07,340 leaning into those flows instead of just sitting nine to five at 1258 01:03:07,340 --> 01:03:07,762 a desk. 1259 01:03:07,762 --> 01:03:11,217 And I get that because that's how I work, I'm, I am a, I am. 1260 01:03:11,237 --> 01:03:13,563 I am the brightest from 10 am to 3 pm. 1261 01:03:13,563 --> 01:03:17,932 Anytime outside of that, I am the brightest from 10 am to 3 pm 1262 01:03:17,932 --> 01:03:17,932 . 1263 01:03:17,932 --> 01:03:20,018 Anytime I'm outside of that. 1264 01:03:20,018 --> 01:03:22,326 I am like starting to hit a wall. 1265 01:03:22,326 --> 01:03:25,023 I'm not going to do very creative things. 1266 01:03:25,023 --> 01:03:28,644 I may be making a little more mistakes if I'm like fatigued. 1267 01:03:28,644 --> 01:03:31,918 So I will take a break and I cleaned my old bathroom 1268 01:03:31,938 --> 01:03:37,097 yesterday for an hour and I don't care, like that's just 1269 01:03:37,117 --> 01:03:37,498 what I did. 1270 01:03:37,498 --> 01:03:38,702 And guess what? 1271 01:03:38,702 --> 01:03:40,842 Work life that is life balance. 1272 01:03:40,842 --> 01:03:42,943 I'm able to do my work really well. 1273 01:03:42,943 --> 01:03:46,684 I spit out a crap ton of job aids that I made and I cleaned 1274 01:03:46,704 --> 01:03:47,126 my bathroom. 1275 01:03:47,126 --> 01:03:48,119 So what more do you want from me? 1276 01:03:48,119 --> 01:03:50,260 You wine lady? 1277 01:03:51,077 --> 01:03:52,960 Speaker 2: That's a perfect example you can. 1278 01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:54,851 If you have the right discipline, you can do that. 1279 01:03:54,851 --> 01:03:55,514 That's a perfect example you can. 1280 01:03:55,514 --> 01:03:56,597 If you have the right discipline, you can do that. 1281 01:03:56,597 --> 01:03:59,766 And I absolutely agree with the theory of in situations where 1282 01:03:59,885 --> 01:04:00,467 it's possible. 1283 01:04:01,576 --> 01:04:06,047 If I am not a morning person, I am dragging ass. 1284 01:04:06,047 --> 01:04:08,885 I can't even remember leaving the house most mornings. 1285 01:04:08,885 --> 01:04:12,157 I feel like I wake up at work all of a sudden With my hour and 1286 01:04:12,157 --> 01:04:12,679 a half commute. 1287 01:04:12,679 --> 01:04:14,724 I don't know where I was driving or anything like that, 1288 01:04:20,275 --> 01:04:21,938 but I wake up at work and then around 10 o'clock I'm starting 1289 01:04:21,978 --> 01:04:23,722 to hit my stride and two or three I'm like, okay, the stride 1290 01:04:23,722 --> 01:04:26,690 is slowing down a little bit. 1291 01:04:26,690 --> 01:04:31,539 But for my assistant, she is a morning person and she likes 1292 01:04:31,599 --> 01:04:35,027 being here in the morning and she asked to modify her hours to 1293 01:04:35,027 --> 01:04:35,387 be earlier. 1294 01:04:35,387 --> 01:04:36,509 I'm like, sure, I don't care. 1295 01:04:36,509 --> 01:04:40,759 She is so funny at times I don't know if she actively 1296 01:04:40,818 --> 01:04:43,739 listens to it, probably, or podcasts it up, but she's so 1297 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:43,960 funny. 1298 01:04:44,014 --> 01:04:45,380 She was asked about leaving early. 1299 01:04:45,380 --> 01:04:48,023 I'm like, as long as things are done, I don't. 1300 01:04:48,023 --> 01:04:51,423 I'm trying to break myself of the habit of saying I don't care 1301 01:04:51,423 --> 01:04:51,423 . 1302 01:04:51,423 --> 01:05:02,239 But I said as long as things are done, I don't care. 1303 01:05:02,239 --> 01:05:03,503 I'd rather you leave than sit there and pretend to be busy for 1304 01:05:03,503 --> 01:05:04,527 half an hour and and things like that, or coming up. 1305 01:05:04,527 --> 01:05:05,751 I mean, if, if you leave early and I'm like, oh my god, where 1306 01:05:05,771 --> 01:05:07,175 where is this, why isn't this done, then we got an issue. 1307 01:05:07,175 --> 01:05:10,963 But if everything's done and there's no reason for you to 1308 01:05:11,003 --> 01:05:15,184 just twitter your thumbs or make busy work or anything like that 1309 01:05:15,184 --> 01:05:16,289 , and you, you can. 1310 01:05:16,289 --> 01:05:20,280 I'm I'm trying to be as open with her as I can, but she's 1311 01:05:20,380 --> 01:05:24,534 really she's like I don't know what the right word is she's 1312 01:05:24,755 --> 01:05:25,538 very diligent. 1313 01:05:25,538 --> 01:05:28,806 I guess it's not as important to me. 1314 01:05:28,806 --> 01:05:29,728 I will. 1315 01:05:30,110 --> 01:05:32,976 Speaker 3: I will also say, like my little tangent there it goes 1316 01:05:32,976 --> 01:05:33,958 into the workspace too. 1317 01:05:33,958 --> 01:05:36,846 I mean, I'm, I'm right in the middle, I'm 50, 50. 1318 01:05:36,846 --> 01:05:40,293 I love working from home, but I also love seeing people in 1319 01:05:40,313 --> 01:05:42,998 person, building those relationships and like 1320 01:05:43,239 --> 01:05:44,822 brainstorming in groups. 1321 01:05:44,822 --> 01:05:47,327 Like I love that in-person piece too. 1322 01:05:47,327 --> 01:05:52,865 I'm just asking that, as companies are bringing people, 1323 01:05:52,967 --> 01:05:56,333 are calling people back into the office, which is natural, 1324 01:05:56,434 --> 01:06:00,105 because my theory is like the pendulum has swung. 1325 01:06:00,105 --> 01:06:02,152 Right, everyone wanted remote work. 1326 01:06:02,152 --> 01:06:04,717 We've been in remote work for about five years now. 1327 01:06:04,717 --> 01:06:09,208 The pendulum is slowly going to swing and that's driven by the 1328 01:06:09,275 --> 01:06:11,179 employee, not the employer. 1329 01:06:11,179 --> 01:06:13,706 The employee will want to come back to the office. 1330 01:06:13,706 --> 01:06:15,958 The employee will want a hybrid work environment. 1331 01:06:15,958 --> 01:06:17,824 That's what they're going to be seeing, because they're going 1332 01:06:17,844 --> 01:06:19,096 to start to feel isolation. 1333 01:06:19,978 --> 01:06:22,965 My only ask is that, as we're calling people back for a hybrid 1334 01:06:22,965 --> 01:06:27,461 environment, let's do it intentionally and let's not put 1335 01:06:27,521 --> 01:06:28,826 these stupid things in. 1336 01:06:28,885 --> 01:06:30,737 It's like, well, if you're going to be in the office, we have to 1337 01:06:30,737 --> 01:06:34,945 be butts in seats eight to five and like, right, you have to 1338 01:06:34,985 --> 01:06:38,197 still allow people the flexibility they've had for the 1339 01:06:38,237 --> 01:06:38,998 past five years. 1340 01:06:38,998 --> 01:06:44,054 Like if I need to leave because great example, friday afternoon 1341 01:06:44,054 --> 01:06:48,943 , bean has physical therapy for her little feet and it's like I 1342 01:06:48,983 --> 01:06:49,184 need. 1343 01:06:49,184 --> 01:06:52,396 I don't want people giving me side eye. 1344 01:06:52,396 --> 01:06:56,244 I don't want people judging me like we've left all of that back 1345 01:06:56,244 --> 01:06:57,608 in the 2010s. 1346 01:06:57,608 --> 01:06:58,916 Like those are done. 1347 01:06:58,916 --> 01:07:03,947 Let people come to work with purpose and, if they need to 1348 01:07:04,007 --> 01:07:08,083 leave to go take care of stuff like, as long as their 1349 01:07:08,123 --> 01:07:11,893 productivity is great and they're excellent employees and 1350 01:07:11,914 --> 01:07:14,983 they're doing what is asked, surprisingly, I'm going to 1351 01:07:15,023 --> 01:07:17,420 guarantee, with that flexibility , they will do even more. 1352 01:07:17,420 --> 01:07:23,646 But don't, when you're putting these policies back for hybrid 1353 01:07:23,666 --> 01:07:29,458 work, don't make stupid rules that don't make sense, because 1354 01:07:29,539 --> 01:07:31,956 then you're going to be like this Uline woman who's like 1355 01:07:31,998 --> 01:07:33,282 where are all the people going? 1356 01:07:33,282 --> 01:07:34,882 I can tell you where the people are going. 1357 01:07:34,882 --> 01:07:37,702 They're going to companies with more flexible cultures and 1358 01:07:37,742 --> 01:07:38,284 environments. 1359 01:07:39,614 --> 01:07:42,902 Speaker 2: You know, in terms of that this goes back to the 90s 1360 01:07:43,344 --> 01:07:43,744 I mentioned. 1361 01:07:43,744 --> 01:07:46,940 I was living in Maryland, I was working in the DC area in 1362 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,744 general, the company I worked for we had core hours and that 1363 01:07:50,764 --> 01:07:52,355 was the first time I'd ever heard of core hours. 1364 01:07:52,516 --> 01:07:54,021 Speaker 3: Yes, I love core hours. 1365 01:07:59,541 --> 01:08:01,150 Speaker 2: You know our company core hours are, let's say 1366 01:08:01,170 --> 01:08:01,934 they're 10 to 3. 1367 01:08:01,934 --> 01:08:04,561 You can come in at 10, and that just means you're leaving at 7 1368 01:08:04,458 --> 01:08:04,836 or whatever. 1369 01:08:04,836 --> 01:08:04,797 I can't do the math there. 1370 01:08:04,797 --> 01:08:07,166 Or you can come in at 7 and leave at 3. 1371 01:08:07,166 --> 01:08:11,550 But the core hours, you know, they wanted everybody there 10 1372 01:08:11,570 --> 01:08:11,913 to 3. 1373 01:08:11,913 --> 01:08:13,976 Yeah, and there were so many companies that did that. 1374 01:08:13,996 --> 01:08:18,262 Because, let me tell you in this was the 90s, dc traffic was 1375 01:08:18,663 --> 01:08:20,326 horrible in the 90s. 1376 01:08:20,326 --> 01:08:23,310 I can't fathom what it would be today. 1377 01:08:23,310 --> 01:08:27,079 I would, I don't know, I would go crazy up there now. 1378 01:08:27,079 --> 01:08:33,497 But my company, the express purpose, was to let employees 1379 01:08:33,556 --> 01:08:35,202 avoid the worst of the traffic. 1380 01:08:35,202 --> 01:08:37,797 If you were a morning person, you could avoid it coming in the 1381 01:08:37,797 --> 01:08:38,038 morning. 1382 01:08:38,038 --> 01:08:40,536 If you were an afternoon person , you could avoid it coming 1383 01:08:40,595 --> 01:08:43,444 after the main rush hour and it worked real well. 1384 01:08:44,186 --> 01:08:48,481 They very rarely ever had anything going on that was 1385 01:08:48,542 --> 01:08:49,386 outside the core hours. 1386 01:08:49,386 --> 01:08:51,514 And if they did, it was one of the things. 1387 01:08:51,514 --> 01:08:52,395 We've been flexible with you. 1388 01:08:52,395 --> 01:08:54,039 You're going to have to be flexible with us. 1389 01:08:54,039 --> 01:08:54,740 We can. 1390 01:08:54,740 --> 01:08:57,167 You know we can't get around this eight 30 meeting this week. 1391 01:08:57,167 --> 01:08:59,521 Or you know our client is coming at eight 30. 1392 01:08:59,521 --> 01:09:00,578 That's when they can be here. 1393 01:09:00,578 --> 01:09:03,386 So, yes, you're going to be here and that happened. 1394 01:09:03,386 --> 01:09:07,256 I can count on my fingers how many times things like that 1395 01:09:07,277 --> 01:09:11,199 would happen, but it's like everybody Okay, it would be okay 1396 01:09:11,199 --> 01:09:11,199 . 1397 01:09:11,199 --> 01:09:16,244 Next Thursday it's going to be everybody's here for whatever. 1398 01:09:16,244 --> 01:09:22,550 And it wasn't a thing, it really wasn't, and I think 1399 01:09:23,511 --> 01:09:24,650 everybody appreciated it. 1400 01:09:27,755 --> 01:09:29,194 Speaker 3: I know we do this, I know we're going along too, but 1401 01:09:30,057 --> 01:09:35,600 I know we do this in HR as a CYA , Like we sometimes create 1402 01:09:35,659 --> 01:09:38,846 policies for the lowest denominator of the group. 1403 01:09:38,846 --> 01:09:41,216 Yes, Just like. 1404 01:09:41,216 --> 01:09:45,988 I think we kind of need to stop doing that. 1405 01:09:45,988 --> 01:09:49,081 Like we need to stop making blanket policies because we 1406 01:09:49,161 --> 01:09:52,287 assume people will take advantage of something. 1407 01:09:52,287 --> 01:09:55,740 We need to stop making policies because we assume the worst in 1408 01:09:55,780 --> 01:10:00,489 people, because I'm this is me being very, not jaded. 1409 01:10:00,590 --> 01:10:01,893 This is a personal opinion. 1410 01:10:01,893 --> 01:10:06,100 I think about 90% of the people are. 1411 01:10:06,100 --> 01:10:09,988 I think 90% of people 95, 95% of people just want to come to 1412 01:10:10,007 --> 01:10:13,621 work and do a good job, go home and live their life and if you 1413 01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:18,076 have that, like one person who's taking advantage of permissive 1414 01:10:18,117 --> 01:10:23,170 time, who's taking who's not dressing appropriately at work, 1415 01:10:23,390 --> 01:10:26,957 or who may be like taking advantage of core hours here and 1416 01:10:26,957 --> 01:10:30,886 there, like, have a conversation with that person 1417 01:10:31,966 --> 01:10:35,819 and manage that individual, we don't need to make these I'm 1418 01:10:35,841 --> 01:10:37,925 going to say oppressive policies . 1419 01:10:37,925 --> 01:10:41,538 We're gone, it's again. 1420 01:10:41,538 --> 01:10:42,823 We're past that. 1421 01:10:42,823 --> 01:10:44,922 Just learn to manage. 1422 01:10:44,922 --> 01:10:48,341 Train your leaders to manage, that's all. 1423 01:10:49,243 --> 01:10:52,962 Speaker 2: Well, last thing, I worked for a company and, being 1424 01:10:53,002 --> 01:10:54,983 in HR, I'm starting my first day , bright-eyed, bushy tail. 1425 01:10:54,983 --> 01:10:56,051 And I said and being in HR, I'm starting my first day, 1426 01:10:56,072 --> 01:11:00,963 bright-eyed, bushy-tail and I said to the director of HR I 1427 01:11:01,003 --> 01:11:03,028 said I didn't get a copy of the handbook. 1428 01:11:03,028 --> 01:11:05,519 I want to get a copy of the handbook, I want to dive into it 1429 01:11:05,519 --> 01:11:06,984 and really become familiar with it. 1430 01:11:06,984 --> 01:11:11,743 And she said and this was a fairly a good mid-sized company, 1431 01:11:11,743 --> 01:11:14,046 not large, but we don't have a handbook. 1432 01:11:14,046 --> 01:11:17,112 I was like what she says't have a handbook. 1433 01:11:17,131 --> 01:11:22,198 I was like what she says, we have a few individual policies. 1434 01:11:22,198 --> 01:11:23,462 And she said, which pointed me to the intranet site, the 1435 01:11:23,483 --> 01:11:24,225 internal website, where they were. 1436 01:11:24,225 --> 01:11:24,948 And she goes, but she goes. 1437 01:11:24,948 --> 01:11:28,976 I really like to minimize policies to maximize flexibility 1438 01:11:28,976 --> 01:11:32,201 and even though she was not one of my favorite managers, was 1439 01:11:32,220 --> 01:11:33,743 not one of my favorite managers leaders that I had. 1440 01:11:33,743 --> 01:11:37,206 That philosophy has stuck with me ever since. 1441 01:11:37,206 --> 01:11:48,395 Now I completely disagree with not having a handbook, but I do 1442 01:11:48,456 --> 01:11:49,679 agree with the philosophy of minimizing policies to maximize 1443 01:11:49,698 --> 01:11:51,122 flexibility Because, yeah, let's deal with things on a 1444 01:11:51,243 --> 01:11:55,020 one-on-one situation and, you know, if it's something's 1445 01:11:55,041 --> 01:11:57,497 something big, yeah, we'll probably need to make a policy 1446 01:11:57,556 --> 01:11:58,420 or something out of it but. 1447 01:11:58,439 --> 01:11:58,902 If it's not. 1448 01:11:58,902 --> 01:12:01,109 It's not huge, you know. 1449 01:12:01,109 --> 01:12:04,238 If it's only one person every 10 years that's having this 1450 01:12:04,298 --> 01:12:06,225 problem, you don't need a policy for it. 1451 01:12:06,225 --> 01:12:09,394 Yeah, so all right. 1452 01:12:09,394 --> 01:12:10,698 Well, this has been really long . 1453 01:12:10,698 --> 01:12:13,082 I'm gonna have some fun editing this. 1454 01:12:13,082 --> 01:12:16,099 We went everywhere with it, but let's see here, get our thank 1455 01:12:16,139 --> 01:12:16,962 yous out of the way. 1456 01:12:16,962 --> 01:12:20,581 So our Patreon supporters Hallie, the original Jaded HR, 1457 01:12:20,621 --> 01:12:24,608 rockstar Bill and Mike, thank you very much for supporting us 1458 01:12:24,688 --> 01:12:25,229 on Patreon. 1459 01:12:25,229 --> 01:12:25,750 You can too. 1460 01:12:25,750 --> 01:12:27,539 I did look for reviews. 1461 01:12:27,539 --> 01:12:29,345 Very briefly, I only checked Apple. 1462 01:12:29,345 --> 01:12:32,380 I did not see any new reviews, so please review us. 1463 01:12:32,380 --> 01:12:34,479 That's how people are going to be able to find us. 1464 01:12:34,881 --> 01:12:35,604 Spread the word. 1465 01:12:35,604 --> 01:12:39,560 You know we're having near record months of downloads. 1466 01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:40,282 Lately. 1467 01:12:40,282 --> 01:12:42,605 We we've been like dozens. 1468 01:12:42,605 --> 01:12:47,141 For may, we were literally less than 100 downloads away from a 1469 01:12:47,181 --> 01:12:49,975 record, and we didn't publish an episode at the end of may like 1470 01:12:50,015 --> 01:12:52,362 we were supposed to, so we would have hit a record then. 1471 01:12:52,362 --> 01:12:55,136 June was a good month for downloads. 1472 01:12:55,136 --> 01:12:56,231 So not close well, not close to record, but it's. 1473 01:12:56,231 --> 01:12:56,465 June was a good month for downloads. 1474 01:12:56,465 --> 01:12:58,930 So not close, well, not close to record, but it's still a very 1475 01:12:58,930 --> 01:13:01,621 good month for downloads, and so hopefully we'll do. 1476 01:13:01,621 --> 01:13:04,667 Oh, actually, july probably is not going to be a good month 1477 01:13:04,768 --> 01:13:06,314 because we're not recording. 1478 01:13:06,314 --> 01:13:13,288 Our next episode is not going to be until August the 7th. 1479 01:13:13,954 --> 01:13:16,444 Speaker 3: Because Warren is going on a mini retirement. 1480 01:13:17,015 --> 01:13:19,143 Speaker 2: I am going on a mini retirement outside of the 1481 01:13:19,203 --> 01:13:25,217 country and I am going to be at all-inclusive resorts, so all 1482 01:13:25,257 --> 01:13:29,882 the alcohol I can drink, I am intending on being buzzed for 1483 01:13:31,104 --> 01:13:35,042 multiple weeks at a time and not getting beyond buzzed, but 1484 01:13:35,202 --> 01:13:36,286 having some good times. 1485 01:13:37,274 --> 01:13:39,220 Speaker 3: And you have to tell me if this happens to you. 1486 01:13:39,220 --> 01:13:44,301 Every time Kevin and I go on a cruise or a resort where there's 1487 01:13:44,301 --> 01:13:48,760 just like people you meet right , we always seem to find the 1488 01:13:48,940 --> 01:13:53,238 other HR people every single effing time and it's like 1489 01:13:53,279 --> 01:13:57,145 clockwork and they are usually the most unhinged people on 1490 01:13:57,185 --> 01:13:57,746 vacation. 1491 01:13:57,746 --> 01:14:03,614 Like we were just floating in the pool on our last cruise and 1492 01:14:03,635 --> 01:14:06,600 this woman floats up to us and she's a little drunk but very 1493 01:14:06,659 --> 01:14:10,297 talkative and very extroverted and after a couple minutes of 1494 01:14:10,318 --> 01:14:13,136 talking she's like a VP of HR at some company and we're like 1495 01:14:13,157 --> 01:14:13,739 we're in HR too. 1496 01:14:13,739 --> 01:14:16,944 That woman was like, oh, we're best friends now. 1497 01:14:16,944 --> 01:14:20,042 And I'm like, oh, and she was getting shots. 1498 01:14:20,042 --> 01:14:23,484 She was like I know what you go through. 1499 01:14:23,484 --> 01:14:26,280 We're here to party and it was very fun. 1500 01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,283 This has happened three times. 1501 01:14:28,283 --> 01:14:34,528 The HR people on vacation pro tip for anyone who is not in HR 1502 01:14:35,095 --> 01:14:37,539 Go find them out, because we're the ones that are letting off 1503 01:14:37,579 --> 01:14:40,326 the most steam and we are most likely the most unhinged people 1504 01:14:40,405 --> 01:14:41,047 at the pool bar. 1505 01:14:42,755 --> 01:14:44,381 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm super excited. 1506 01:14:44,381 --> 01:14:49,488 This is my first vacation since 1999 without any kids involved. 1507 01:14:49,488 --> 01:14:52,384 So, yes, very excited about that. 1508 01:14:52,384 --> 01:14:55,923 But going to your point about unhinged HR, you know Feathers 1509 01:14:55,944 --> 01:14:57,027 and I were fraternity brothers. 1510 01:14:57,027 --> 01:15:00,265 We tailgate all football season long together and we're 1511 01:15:00,551 --> 01:15:03,184 together and people always like you two are in HR. 1512 01:15:03,184 --> 01:15:07,585 We're like we're a little wild and crazy and we get out there 1513 01:15:07,908 --> 01:15:09,860 sometimes and you two are in HR Like yep. 1514 01:15:11,775 --> 01:15:13,443 Speaker 3: This is why we are like that. 1515 01:15:13,614 --> 01:15:16,605 Speaker 2: So, yeah, we know how to party, we know how to throw 1516 01:15:16,646 --> 01:15:21,684 down, so yeah, but yeah, next episode will be August 7th. 1517 01:15:21,684 --> 01:15:23,922 So enjoy your break from us. 1518 01:15:23,922 --> 01:15:27,364 Please come back in August and we'll have some. 1519 01:15:27,364 --> 01:15:33,546 We we're planning what I think is going to be like a truly epic 1520 01:15:33,546 --> 01:15:34,208 episode. 1521 01:15:34,208 --> 01:15:36,202 That's just too good. 1522 01:15:36,202 --> 01:15:36,563 I meant to. 1523 01:15:36,563 --> 01:15:37,859 I meant to do it this week. 1524 01:15:37,859 --> 01:15:40,439 I just ran out of time, but I think I'll be able to come up 1525 01:15:40,458 --> 01:15:44,539 with some time to do all the the pre, the work that's going to 1526 01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:46,043 need to go into this ahead of time. 1527 01:15:46,043 --> 01:15:47,547 So yeah, it'll be. 1528 01:15:47,547 --> 01:15:50,818 I think maybe we'll try that one in August and then maybe 1529 01:15:50,858 --> 01:15:54,841 we'll do we'll also have a Office episode for the Alliance 1530 01:15:55,283 --> 01:15:58,185 coming up soon too. 1531 01:15:58,185 --> 01:16:02,791 So yay, wow, really long episode. 1532 01:16:02,791 --> 01:16:03,671 We'll edit it down. 1533 01:16:03,671 --> 01:16:08,219 Try and keep it around an hour, even though it's almost an hour 1534 01:16:08,219 --> 01:16:08,439 and a half. 1535 01:16:08,458 --> 01:16:10,182 What's wrong with us, I don't know. 1536 01:16:10,182 --> 01:16:11,024 Good episode, though. 1537 01:16:11,024 --> 01:16:12,488 Thank you very much to everybody. 1538 01:16:12,488 --> 01:16:15,686 But, as all, oh, I gave our Patreon supporters, but the 1539 01:16:15,766 --> 01:16:19,601 intro is Andrew Culpa and the music is the underscore 1540 01:16:19,943 --> 01:16:20,444 orchestra. 1541 01:16:20,444 --> 01:16:21,327 Devil with the devil. 1542 01:16:21,327 --> 01:16:23,322 So that's what I'm going to say . 1543 01:16:23,322 --> 01:16:24,979 As always, I'm Warren. 1544 01:16:25,381 --> 01:16:25,844 Speaker 3: I'm Cece. 1545 01:16:26,916 --> 01:16:28,462 Speaker 2: And we're here helping you survive. 1546 01:16:28,462 --> 01:16:29,497 Hr one. 1547 01:16:29,497 --> 01:16:31,404 What the fuck moment at a time. 1548 01:16:31,404 --> 01:16:38,881 Yay.