Episode 23 | Balancing Act: A Heart to Heart with British Babe Nella Kitson

Summary
In this episode, Nella Kitson, a sex worker from the UK, joins the podcast to discuss her journey in the industry.  She shares her experiences in strip clubs, online sex work, and full-service work.  Nella also talks about working while balancing being in a committed relationship and how she manages her time effectively.  They  discuss the importance of setting boundaries between her personal life and work.  Nella also touches on the changes in sex work post-pandemic and the differences in regulations between countries and cities.  In this conversation, Nella  & Ellis discuss Nella's experience as a companion and how she prioritizes self-care.  Nella also shares her long-term vision for her companionship journey and how her partner fits into that vision.   The conversation concludes with a discussion on the future of sex work and the importance of advocacy.

Takeaways

• Different types of sex work have their own challenges and preferences, and it depends on the individual's personality and interests.
• Balancing a committed relationship and sex work requires effective time management and open communication with your partner.
• Setting boundaries between personal life and work is crucial in maintaining a healthy work-life balance.
• Having two phones can help separate personal and work-related communications and allow for better control over availability.
• Sex work regulations and practices vary between countries and cities, and it's important to understand and adapt to the local context. Prioritizing self-care is essential for companions to maintain their well-being and manage the demands of the profession.
• Open and honest communication is crucial for individuals navigating companionship while being in a committed relationship.
• The future of sex work relies on continued advocacy and efforts to decriminalize and destigmatize the industry.
• Companionship can be a long-term career choice, and individuals should plan for their financial security and retirement.

Nella Kitson UK | Independent British Escort
Nella's Twitter
Nella's Instagram

Mentions
The Happy Hooker: My Own Story by Xaviera Hollander

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Background

01:52
Favorite Type of Sex Work

03:37
Differences in Strip Clubs

05:49
Balancing Relationship and Sex Work

09:54
Managing Time Between Partner and Work

17:37
Support from Partner

20:25
Benefits of Having Two Phones

22:45
Establishing and Maintaining Boundaries

28:36
Being Vegan and Sober in Sex Work

35:09
Changes in Sex Work Post-Pandemic

37:52
Differences in Sex Work Regulations

41:04
Working Outside of the US

42:24
Differences in Sex Work in Different UK Cities

43:24
Working as a Companion and Prioritizing Self-Care

48:53
Long-Term Vision and Partner's Role

54:03
Navigating Companionship in a Committed Relationship

59:41
The Future of Sex Work and Advocacy

Follow me on social media for updates and more!

email address - exclusivelyyours@proton.me
@highdefgf and @theexclusivepod on Twitter
@the.hendrix.way on Instagram
https://ellishendrix.link
Video and audio coming soon to Substack - https://ellishendrix.substack.com