The Todd V Show
The Todd V Show is a podcast dedicated to helping you decisively win at life’s greatest endeavors. Popular topics include building better social skills, self-improvement through deliberate action, finding and keeping relationships, and the art and science of achievement.
The Todd V Show
Why You're Not Getting Laid
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Todd V
In this episode of the Todd V show, Todd addresses a listener's challenges with online dating and offers insights into improving dating success by creating tension and value. He emphasizes the importance of pre-date preparation, managing physical escalation, and understanding rejection beyond superficial reasons.
Notes
- 0:00 – Introduction
- 0:51 – Introduction to Today’s Question
- 1:22 – Sam’s Question Breakdown
- 1:48 – Initial Analysis of Sam’s Issue
- 2:22 – Possible Reasons for Dating Challenges
- 3:26 – Game Skills and Online Dating
- 4:23 – The Role of Value in Dating
- 5:20 – Pre-Date Preparation and Its Importance
- 5:53 – Handling the Date Itself
- 6:41 – Improving Dating Interactions
- 7:09 – Creating Tension in Interaction
- 8:42 – Handling Physical Escalation
- 10:16 – Key Concept: Tension and Value
- 13:04 – Final Notes on Chemistry and Rejection
- 14:04 – Additional Context for Sam’s Situation
- 17:01 – Understanding Rejections and Rationalizations
- 18:28 – Common Issues and Final Advice
- 20:25 – Closing Thoughts
- 21:18 – Outro and Call for Questions
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