Be Amazing Anyway

Morning Mantra: “Don’t worry about whether people like you, most people don’t even like themselves.”

It can feel icky when someone puts you down, argues or tries to make you feel bad.  Try not worry about what people think of you though or about the way they try to make you feel. If people want to see you as a "good" person, they will. If they want to see you as a "bad" person, absolutely nothing you will do can stop them.  This seems to be even more true in today's world of social media and it's negative influence.

Ironically, the more you try to show someone your good intentions, the more reasons you give them to knock you down- if they are committed to misunderstanding you.  It's like adding fuel to their fire of misunderstanding.  More words, apologies, deeds or sucking up won't put that fire out.  They are committed to it.  They are fanning the flames.

It can be really frustrating in some cases and really hurtful in others, but try and remember it rarely has anything to actually DO with YOU.  Their determination to dislike you is more about what they see in you that they lack, or because they are too emotionally immature to see another view, clap for another's success or let go of their pain.

Keep your head up high and be confident in what you do, who you are, and spend the energy elsewhere- somewhere you are appreciated, respected and loved.

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