You Don’t Feel Chosen Because You’re Always Available

Love This Way!

Love This Way!
You Don’t Feel Chosen Because You’re Always Available
Feb 08, 2026 Season 8 Episode 1
Shaleea Venney

Send a text

You don’t feel chosen
because you’ve made yourself endlessly available.

Access is not intimacy.
Availability is not value.
And love without intention will always leave you feeling invisible.

This episode is about shifting from convenience to choice —
without games, guilt, or going cold.

Support the show

Episode Artwork You Don’t Feel Chosen Because You’re Always Available 10:01 Episode Artwork Why Black Love Is Under Attack — And What We Can Do About It 12:03 Episode Artwork Who Benefits When You Doubt Yourself? 9:29 Episode Artwork Who Are You — and Who Were You Before Someone Told You Who to Be? 7:48 Episode Artwork You Ask for Real Love, Then Reject It When You See It! 9:14 Episode Artwork You Loved Them So Much You Forgot to Love You 9:24 Episode Artwork 2026 The Year You Finally Choose You (Because the Version of You That Settles Can’t Come With You) 10:04 Episode Artwork Home for the Holidays—But Not at Peace: The Loneliness No One Talks About 9:27 Episode Artwork When You Love Them the Most, They Love You the Least 9:48 Episode Artwork You Keep Calling It Love, But It’s Just Emotional Cannibalism 9:27 Episode Artwork The Death of Accountability: Why Everyone Thinks They’re the Healed One 9:57 Episode Artwork The Cost of Being the Other Woman: What It Really Takes to Break a Covenant 10:55 Episode Artwork The Case for Love: Why It’s Still the Most Important Thing We’ll Ever Have 9:39 Episode Artwork You Can’t Pray for Partnership While Living Like You’re the Only One Who Matters 10:04 Episode Artwork When You Think You Can’t Do Better, They’ll Make Sure You Don’t! 9:03 Episode Artwork You Want Loyalty From People Who Don’t Even Have Values 8:35 Episode Artwork Stop Chasing Happiness—Start Choosing Peace 9:27 Episode Artwork It’s not who you attract — it’s who you entertain! 9:32 Episode Artwork You’re Not Hard to Love—You’re Just Afraid to Be Seen, and Held Accountable 8:56 Episode Artwork Why You Keep Getting Played—Even Though You’re the Whole Package 10:06 Episode Artwork The Little Girl Who Got Lost in This World 10:34 Episode Artwork Men Aren’t Broken—They’re Starved 9:40 Episode Artwork You Don’t Want a Partner—You Want a Parent! 10:12 Episode Artwork Stop Asking If They Love You—Start Asking If They Respect You! 9:21 Episode Artwork They Don’t Hate Commitment—They Hate Accountability 8:54