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Ep.162 - The 8-8 Portal Will Test Your Boundaries, Lets Level The F*CK up Soul Diggers!

• Kim Mellor

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We are in the most powerful portal of the year, the Lions Gate, which brings chaos, challenges, beauty, and miracles—all arriving to reveal blessings depending on how we receive them.

• What slows most people down is their perception of events as "good" or "bad" when energy is simply energy
• Shifting perspective from judgment to gratitude stops the emotional rollercoaster of highs and lows
• August (month 8) numerologically represents money, success, and abundance
• Being in a year 9 means endings are happening to make space for new beginnings
• Other people's projections intensify when you're stepping into a bigger life
• People pleasers face a crucial initiation to break free from approval-seeking patterns
• Setting boundaries about who you allow into your energy field becomes non-negotiable
• Line 5s in Human Design particularly experience others projecting their "movie screens" onto them
• True wealth is an experience of self, a state of being that money naturally meets
• Your growth will trigger others' insecurities, creating stories about you they need to believe
• Practice discernment about what energy belongs to you versus what others are projecting
• Examine where you might be projecting your own limitations onto successful people
• Surround yourself exclusively with mentors who embody what they teach

Stay anchored in your purpose, don't explain yourself to anyone, and remember—you're here to live fearlessly and authentically as a Soul Digger.


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here we go, here we go, here we go, go go. We are in the most powerful portal of the year Lionsgate portal. Omg, have you been feeling it? Have you been in it? The chaos, the challenge, the beauty, the miracles, the magic, all of it. Welcome it all, welcome all, because it is here to reveal so many blessings, depending on whether, when you're listening to this episode, we are a few days away from the 8-8 portal, the Lion's Gate, which is such a powerful and miraculous time and it's often the time where we get tested and miraculous time and it's often the time where we get tested.

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And, honestly, the thing that slows people down in this journey of life is we're going for our dreams and saying fuck. Yes to life is our perception of what we make things mean and, ultimately, energy is energy. It's only good or bad if we perceive it to be. And so when I shifted my perspective from this is good and this is bad, I stopped riding the highs and lows, emotionally, of my journey, because life is what we make it mean. It's all about the stories that we tell ourselves. And so what if the story was? This is all happening for me. Thank you, thank you, thank you. What a lesson. What a blessing. Thank you for this challenge. I know that I am stepping into my boldest, bravest self, and, guys, you have to accept that this is a part of the journey. Taking responsibility for your life and what's appearing in front of you and how you navigate through them is like the biggest code, the biggest code. And so if you imagine you look up at the sky and it's blurring sunshine, the sky is clear, it's just blue. If you look at the sun for too long, you have to close your eyes because the light is so bright, so then you experience darkness because your eyes are closed. That is not bad. That is actually helping you to recalibrate so that you can receive more light. So when you open your eyes, you can look at the light for longer, and you can, you can, you can receive more, and that is that. That is the perfect analogy of what is happening at this time. And so when you're closing your eyes, protecting yourself from the light, it's not bad. It it's, it's all a part of it, and so you actually should be going through a challenge right now.

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If you've been calling in a bigger life which I know you have soul diggers hello, yeah, it's, it's a part of it. You just accept it and welcome it and like, oh gosh, yes, I am being carved into the most epic, extraordinary version of myself right now and so welcome it all, welcome it all. So, lionsgate portal, magical time, lean in, have fun, like we also are in a month eight, numerologically, which is about money, success, abundance, hello. And also a year nine. So a lot of endings, a lot of things are ending. I know what I'm ending in my life and it feels like yes, like so much is here for us all. So just say yes this week. Say yes, lean in, figure it out. You are freaking powerful.

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And also something I want you to also know to expect is other people's projections, the environment that you're in right now. People are used to you being a certain way. They're used to the amount of income, they're used to the stories, they're used to just the way that you are. And in order for you to step into this bigger level of life, you're going to change. People are going to say oh, say oh, wow gosh, that's a bit much. Who does she think she is? She thinks she's better than us?

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And for any people pleasers out there, this is your initiation, this is your deepest soul's calling to break free from that, because you have to break free from the circle that you're in right now if you want to evolve. And that can feel really fucking scary. Like, oh my god, but my, I've been friends with this person for x amount of years and you know I mean what. What can I possibly like? Let this person go, and I'm not saying let go of every single person in your life, but be mindful of who you allow in your field. It's really important to have these boundaries and standards and non-negotiables that you are raising and what you are no longer tolerating. So, of course, you can be friends with people. It's like who you actually allow into your inner circle, because we all have energetic cords tied to the people in our life, the relationships, right.

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So be honest, what or who do you need to let go of? That? You know you need to in order to rise, because you are rising girl. There is no other option. Like have you ever felt like misunderstood or misjudged? Or like people try and put you into a box that you never asked to be fit into? These are people's projections. Projections are when people place their fears, desires, expectations, judgments on you without even realising it. And why this matters is you know if you're walking a new path or you're growing in your path, or you're growing in your business, you're claiming your wealth, you're just being bold in your truth. Projections will happen. They will happen, and especially as a line five in human design I don't know if anyone else has a line five, I'm a five one.

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So people can often see me as the saviour, as the hero. They project their movie screen literally onto me and I've definitely played a part in that. You know, before I really was aware of this, I would kind of want to save people, you know as a part of my identity, because it made me feel good. And now I know the best way to help people is actually to not save them and to help them go inside of themselves and connect with that. You know, that power, that intuition that we all have, that is the most powerful thing that we can access. And as a mentor, I'm not available for anything else. Like, do not put me on a pedestal. Do not Like, I am not, I'm not coming to save anyone, I am just a mirror to your soul, guarding you back to your power, so as you're stepping in and claiming a new level of wealth, which is what I'm doing right now.

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And, by the way, wealth is not just about money. Wealth is an experience of self, it is a state of being, and money meets you there. Your energy has to go first and life meets you in that place. Oh, she's changed. What is happening to you? Oh, gosh, like people will inbox you and say I can't believe you're talking about money that way. I can't believe you're sharing this. And you know it's a part of the journey and it's why a lot of people don't want to expand, because it feels too uncomfortable, you know. But if you are a leader, if you're here to pave a new way and receive a 10 out of 10 life, an extraordinary, outstanding fucking life, you've got to be bold, you've got to be willing to be seen in your fullness of expression, because that is wealth.

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Wealth is a person that does not look in their bank account for validation, like I know millionaires who are afraid of spending money. That's not wealth to me. Like I do not want to sit in my million dollar mansion looking at my investments going oh my god, I've got millions of investments. I'm just going to sit in the corner and, yeah, wait for what? Wait for what you know? Again, we become victims of our reality if we do that. So I'm personally on this journey and really stepping into this new season of wealth and embodying wealth in a way that is fully fully expressed, claiming every single desire the love, the health, the money, the relationships, everything. It's fucking turning up a freaking notch.

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Soul diggers. People are just uncomfortable. They're uncomfortable with what they don't understand and your growth is going to trigger their insecurities. So the more visible or successful you become, the more others will create stories about you to make sense of their own smallness, of their own feelings. And I've definitely noticed this. I have been really sensing these energetic cords of you know different relationships in my life that, like I know, I can feel that they sense my frequency is stepping up and so I'm being projected on and that's that kind of what. That's what led me down the path of like researching more about the five line, because you know my old identity as a people pleaser. That's what stopped me from fully stepping out. And, of course, my soul chose this exact soul blueprint to break free and have that experience of free will and breaking out of any box.

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Right, and yeah, I just, I was just. I've just been noticing, I've been noticing and loving and setting boundaries and I just feel this like internal calibration of no bullshit. This is no bullshit. There's only a full fuck yes, available in my life and it's really important because it can feel heavy. It can feel heavy when people are projecting their stuff and offering advice that you didn't ask for. And should you really do that and can you think of that?

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And this is why it's so important to surround yourself with mentors in environments where people are growing, where people are where you want to be, and, ultimately, I'm only here to follow mentors who are an embodiment of what they teach. And there's actually very few people that I resonate with nowadays, but there's a few, there's a few key people that I'm now like yes, okay, you're locked in. I'm like laser focused, like I'm in your field, I'm tunnel vision, because I know I'm also here to lead others. And so those people in my life and in your life, they're waiting for you to go first, to be the evidence so that you can teach it. And that requires bravery, it requires being bold and being courageous, right? So if you feel like you're being projected onto and you're allowing it to impact you on what you do or how you feel about yourself.

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Practice discernment. This is happening for you. Remember everything is good. It's all energy. So know what is yours and know what is not yours. Don't ever explain. You do not need to justify your growth to anyone. Stay anchored in your why, root in your purpose and your vision. Have safe spaces Again. Surround yourself with people who see you, not the story of you, and also you know you can use this from your own perspective.

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Right, who in your life or who on social media are you projecting onto? Maybe there's someone who's making seven figures. Are you judging them? If you've got a story about them, guys and like, unless you actually know them intimately, the rest is just made up. It's a story that is keeping you small.

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So this is another thing that I've been doing is like really seeing everyone in their power, releasing any perception and just going, wow, okay, wow, oh, okay that that person's giving me a little bit of a charge. I want to project something onto them. Let me alchemise that within myself, because how can I receive millions of dollars if I'm judging someone else for how they've made millions of dollars? Of course, it's not going to happen because the perception I have of them is really a perception of myself and my own bullshit stories, right? So, yeah, we've got to take responsibility for like our perceptions of other people and use it as fuel. Let it show you how powerful your presence actually is and how people are paying attention. People are paying attention to you and your level up, so give them a good, freaking show.

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You are walking the path that is less travelled. You are solding, as you're here, to live fearless, authentically, unapologetically. The more you expand, the more projections may arise, especially if you're a five line, not because you're doing something wrong, but because you're activating something within someone else. So I invite you in, in, in, in to yourself, to your soul. Be in environments where you really who do you resonate with? Who do you really freaking resonate? Who's embodied? Just be in their world. Shut out everyone else and your, your dreams and your life literally depends on this. Guys, this week, this portal is fucking epic. Lean in, go for it, because we get one life. Let's freaking live it, baby.