Community of Grace
Preaching Ministry of Community of Grace - Amherst, NY
Community of Grace
Get Your Mind Right
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Matt Moran
I Peter 4:1-6
Since, therefore, Christ suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves with the same way of thinking. For whoever has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin so as to live for the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for human passions but for the will of God. For the time that has passed suffices for doing what the Gentiles want to do, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, and lawless idolatry. With respect to this, they are surprised when you do not join them in the same flood of debauchery and then malign you, but they will give an account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead. For this is why the gospel was preached even to those who are dead, that though judged in the flesh the way people are, they might live in the spirit the way God does. Let's pray. Father, we ask by the power of your Holy Spirit that you would speak to us by your word as we come together to hear it. Would you open our hearts and minds? Lord, where we are distracted or unfocused, I pray that you would help to bring our attention on this word, that you would feed us with what is needful for us today, that we would grow to be people who are increasingly mature followers of Jesus. So strengthen us by your word, we ask this morning. Amen. Okay, so picture with me that there is someone that you love who is about to step into something that you know through personal experience is going to be very challenging. So maybe they're joining the army and headed to boot camp. Maybe they are about to get married. Maybe they're starting a new job. Maybe they're about to experience their first Buffalo winter. Something that you know yourself is going to be very challenging. If you care about them and you know something about what they're getting into, then you often want to give them a pep talk. In love for them, you want to share with them what you already know about what they are about to get into. You tell them maybe what they should be thinking about before boot camp or the person they should talk to when they get that new job or the gear that they need for the winter. Because you care about them and want to prepare them. You want them to be as ready as possible for what they're going to endure. Well, that's kind of what's happening in our passage this morning as Peter instructs the church in preparation for the suffering that they're going to step into. This passage is instruction to these churches scattered across Asia Minor about how they ought to get their minds right for the situation that they are in. Peter begins chapter 4 by saying, since therefore Christ has suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves with the same kind of thinking. The Apostle Peter is saying to these churches, here is how to get your minds right. Start thinking right about what you're getting into. In other words, let's get real clear about this situation that we're in. The Christian life is a battle and we need to arm ourselves for it. And that preparation, according to Peter, is mental. We need to have the right mindset. He's writing to churches that were living in a culture that was opposed to them. They feel, and he calls them, exiles in this world. When we think about our own situation, it's not very different. So this morning we're asking, what is the kind of thinking that we need? What does our mindset need to be as followers of Christ in this world? The context is helpful here. Let's remember where we've been, where Peter's taken us already. If you go back to chapter 3, verse 22, the verse immediately preceding this, we read that Jesus has gone into the heavens and is at the right hand of God with angels, authorities, and powers having been subjected to him. Right now, at this moment, Jesus is reigning. He has ascended and he is reigning. We call this his session. And he has absolute authority over all things. And as the church, we await his return and we await the full consummation of his victory. And in chapter 4, verse 7, which is the passage immediately subsequent to ours today, we read Peter say, the end of all things is at hand. The end of all things is at hand. That is not to say that Peter was predicting that Jesus would return next week or next month or this year necessarily, but what he's pointing out is the key moments in redemptive history that have already taken place. The key moments in God's plan for the world that have already taken place. Jesus has come to earth. He has died on the cross. He has risen from the grave. He has ascended. He is reigning. All that has already happened. So to put us in that framework, we are living as followers of Jesus in light of what already has happened, anticipating what is yet to come. That's the situation that we're in. The end of all things is at hand. And in light of this, Peter is giving us very direct, very realistic points so that we ought to get our minds right as followers of Christ in a world that is not our home. It's encouragement, but it's also what you could call kind of tough love. Peter's being very realistic with these people. He wants the church to embrace their calling to suffer in this world. So three points this morning. The first one, the first one is that we must be willing to suffer to live for the will of God. We must be willing to suffer to live for the will of God. Read verses one through two with me. Since therefore Christ has suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves with the same way of thinking, for whoever has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin. So as to live for the rest of the time in the flesh, no longer for human passions, but for the will of God. Peter's already described the suffering of Jesus in the preceding chapter. In chapter 3, 17, and 18, he says to the church, it's better to suffer for doing good than for doing evil. It's better to suffer for doing good if that should be God's will than for doing evil. For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God. Arming yourself refers to the battle that is the Christian life and the mentality that we need. And Peter says we need a willingness to suffer and pay the price in the fight against sin. And Jesus is our example in this. We need to share that mindset and understand that there will be suffering when we live for the will of God. You could hear Peter say it like this, let's not be naive. Let's not be simple minded. Breaking sinful habits and ways of life will be painful. They do not simply disappear without a struggle. We have to understand that. In the physical world, in the physical realm, if you have ever tried to break old self-indulgent habits, it's always painful. It's always brutal. So eating a salad or going for a jog feels brutal, especially when you begin, you hate it. Over time, you've probably experienced this, your body adjusts and when you put on your sneakers for that jog, the body seems to say, okay, I guess we're doing this. There's a breakthrough in a sense as your body adjusts to physical pain. It's not exactly the same, but in a similar sense, the willingness to suffer breaks the controlling hold that sin can have in our lives. Now let's be clear, the power to do that is not self- generated, it comes from the Holy Spirit. But the one who belongs to Jesus and is following him has a new mindset. So this is speaking to someone who is willing to suffer in obedience to God and then once they do suffer, continues on to serve God. Many of you have interacted with the missionary couple that we support that works to evangelize Muslims and translate the scripture in the Komoro silence. And if you read their letters of support and their prayer letters, you can read about how they're translating the Bible into the mother tongue, they're sharing scripture and they're praying with these islanders. But as they do that, they're also very aware that regardless of how stimulating these conversations may be, these islanders will have to leave that conversation, go back to, leave that Bible study and go back to their Muslim homes and neighborhoods. And are they going to be willing to suffer for that new commitment to Jesus? If they are, that indicates that they have made not just an initial step of enthusiasm, but a real and true break with their old way of life. It means that being comfortable is no longer their number one commitment. So let's not be naive about what following Jesus is going to cost. The initial commitment that's made will certainly be tested later. And in love for these churches, Peter wants to prepare them for the suffering that making a break from sin will involve. That phrase, ceased from sin, whoever has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, that does not refer to some type of Christian perfection. The Bible teaches us that sin will be part of our human experience. We all suffer, we all stumble in many ways. But here's a helpful way of putting it that I read this week. Peter's point is that when believers are willing to suffer, the nerve center of sin is severed in their lives. The mature Christian, or the Christian that's growing in maturity, has made a commitment, I'm no longer living for human passions. But here's a contrast, but for the will of God. And once again, we see Jesus is our example and our inspiration. We see his suffering on the cross, and we are encouraged to adopt his mindset. Form yourselves with the same way of thinking. He's our example of full and complete submission to the will of God. Jesus is the one who said, my food is to do the will of the one who sent me. And the Christian who's indwelt by the spirit now has a different purpose in life. It's no longer for human passions. It's to live for the will of God. So human passions, think of it as just kind of the selfish assertion of my will and my desires. That's no longer the command center of my life. In full submission to the will of God is, if we're honest, if we look at ourselves, it's something that we're often afraid of, secretly afraid of. Because we think that will mean, we're afraid of what that will mean. We're afraid sometimes, I think, even to pray that. Afraid of what we might have to give up. Afraid of the loss of comfort or control. But God's will is that we might become holy, and that is for our good, his glory, and our joy. Earlier in the letter, Peter writes, he writes, as obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance. But as he who has called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct. So there's a spiritual reality. The Christian is indwelt by the Holy Spirit. But there's also a mindset here, and it's a mindset that we must refresh. Paul said it like this. You must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus. When a person submits to Jesus, when Jesus draws the sinner to himself, they receive a new nature, a new purpose. It no longer makes sense for your life to be dictated by your old passions, to live by the old ways of ignorance. I've kind of seen a picture of this in the last month. In this last month, so many of you have helped with our work down the street as we prepare to move into a new building. It's kind of like we're getting to see a before and after process in motion. And as this has been happening, as this work has been ongoing, friends from other churches have asked me, how's it going? And I've said, well, if you take over an over 60-year- old progressive church, there's a lot that has to go. There's a lot of pink and purple. There are murals on the wall. We filled three dumpsters up full of junk. There's a lot that has to be cleansed out of that place before it will be new and clean. And in some ways, it is like a picture of sanctification. Imagine going into a building like that and then painting the women's bathroom teal all over again, right? Imagine recreating the murals that were on the wall. We wouldn't do that. In Peter's language, that would be like conforming to your former ignorance. When we come to know Christ, a decisive shift takes place. Our mindset is now, I want to use whatever time I have left to live to glorify God. I want to live for the will of God. Peter says, so as to live for the rest of the time in the flesh, no longer for human passions, but for the will of God. The rest of the time in the flesh, for some of us, that may be many decades. For some of us, not nearly as long. But regardless, our lives in this passage are framed in light of eternity. The end of all things is at hand. And our mindset must be, I want to live the rest of my life, however long God sees fit for that to be, for the will of God, regardless of the suffering or price that may involve. And the question really brings us to this point of self-examination where we ask ourselves, am I really living for the will of God? Is that what I'm about? Am I really living for the will of God? We talk about repentance often in terms of sometimes the illustration for repentance is a U-turn or an 180-degree change. I know that I have talked about repentance like that. It's a change of direction. It's a turning. That is correct. But there's also, as we grow in maturity, there is a repentance of realignment. It may not be 180 degrees, but there may be areas in your life where you need to be adjusted, where you are a couple degrees off. You don't necessarily need 180 degrees, but you're clinging to something and have become self-protected. Living for the will of God is not like a one-time decision that we make and then set on cruise control. We need a continual humility and prayer and submitting ourselves before the Lord to see if we're really living for His glory. And Peter says, that's going to involve suffering. We must be willing to suffer to live for the will of God. There's a second point that informs our mindset. We also must be willing to suffer not only to overcome sin, but at the hands of unbelievers. Look at verses three and four with me. For the time that has passed suffices for doing what the Gentiles want to do, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, and lawless idolatry. With respect to this, they are surprised when you do not join them in the same flood of debauchery and they malign you. We need a mindset that says, I'm willing to suffer for the will of God. We also need a mindset that says, I'm willing to suffer verbal abuse or maligning. That's like ridicule from unbelievers. And Peter says to the church very bluntly, that was then and this is now. The time that has passed suffices. He said, you had enough time when you lived like the Gentiles. When you lived like those who do not know God. In the way of the Gentiles is described as living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, lawless idolatry. It has particular reference to living in sensuality. It's heartbreaking to think how many people are simply taken out of the game because they have been unable to make a break with sensuality. If or when they come to church on Sunday, they are thinking about what they watched or clicked on or participated in on Saturday night. And the word of God is just very direct here. Peter is saying, it's time to be done with that. It's time to put that in the past. And when we make a break from sin, there will be suffering. There will be pangs of withdrawal on a personal level because the fleeting pleasures of sin are real. There are fleeting pleasures that come with an old lifestyle, but Peter is now talking about social suffering. He says, they're surprised when you do not join them. The idea here is it's a flood imagery. It's a idea of running with them, they are surprised when you do not go with the flow in the same flood of debauchery. First Peter says they are surprised, and they might be your coworkers, your teammates, your old friends, your classmates, your family members. Non participation can raise some eyebrows, especially if you used to participate in certain activities. But it won't end at surprise. Then they malign you. Then they scorn you. That means to criticize or to ridicule. Non participation often gets interpreted as passing judgment. So when you don't go to a certain party, or when you refuse to watch something, or when you don't go to the strip club, or when you stay sober, or when you refuse to participate in a certain conversation, when you stick up for a person who's being mocked, when you do not go with the general tide, first it will be surprising, and then you will be mocked, probably for being judgmental. There is a, Peter's saying, there's a mocking or an abuse that will come from non participation. The Christian's non participation has the power to prick the conscience. It's very interesting when we think about the letter as a whole. Not every person will malign or ridicule you. There are times when what you stand for may actually spur great conversation, where we have a chance to verbalize our Christian commitments. So sometimes if you look at chapter three, verse 15, verse 15 says, in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense for anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that's in you. Yet do it with gentleness and respect. That's a joy when your behavior or your way of life instigates or creates these type of conversations. People will be surprised and ask honest and genuine questions, and we need to be ready to give honest answers for honest questions. But other people will be surprised, and they won't ask questions, they'll ridicule you, and we need to be prepared for that. In the Greco Roman context, where this was originally written, that all that stuff, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, could have specific reference to some of the just typical customs of the day, some of the pagan festivals that people participated in in the ancient world. There were cultural traditions, rituals, holidays, things that happened at family gatherings that people were just expected to participate in. It's just the way of life. But some of those customs were now incompatible for a new follower of Jesus. There's not much that's changed there. Whether it's at school or work or a conversation, it's always going to be easiest to just go along and get along. But we're called the holiness, and Peter's saying that might be lonely. There might be verbal abuse, there might be ridicule, so be prepared. In his book, The Holiness of God, so that's probably 40, 50 years ago, R.C. Sproul told a story about a professional golfer who got to play a round of golf with President Gerald Ford at the time and Billy Graham. After the round, one of the golfer's friends came up to him and said, what was it like to play golf with the President and Billy Graham? The golfer just exploded in temper and started to curse and he said, I don't need Billy Graham stuffing religion down my throat. After a few minutes of anger and cursing, the golfer's friend said, so Billy was pretty hard on you, huh? At that point, the guy was spent, his anger was exhausted, and he said, he didn't even talk about religion. I just had a bad round. Billy Graham, the point is, he was so associated with holiness, with the reality of God, that his presence had the power to prick the conscience of the unbeliever. Recently I was talking to a friend of mine, not someone in this church, but he was talking about how difficult it was as a Christian to find like-minded friends. And he said, most people that I meet, what they want to do in their free time or on the weekend is just escape their lives. The follower of Christ isn't escaping. We're living the rest of our time in the flesh to live for the will of God. That's different. That's going to mean surprise and in some cases ridicule. When we encounter the grace of God through Jesus Christ, it takes our lives in a different direction. Titus 2 says the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people and training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions and to live self- controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age. So we must be willing to suffer to cease from sin and we must be willing to suffer ridicule from unbelievers. And there's a final point here that I'll talk about briefly. We must understand that God's judgment is universal. That's the third part of this mindset. We must understand that God's judgment is universal. Look at verses five and six. But they will give an account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead. For this is why the gospel is preached. Even to those who are dead, that though judged in the flesh the way people are, they might live in the spirit the way God does. Titus reminding his readers that they may feel ostracized, but those who are mocking will one day give an account. In our actions, our response to suffering, and our response to ridicule or marginalization, they're not going to be judged in the court of popular opinion forever. At least not for long. We will give an account. They will give an account. And it will be before God, the holy judge of all things. Part of what this means is we don't need to take on the responsibility of judging and condemning the surrounding culture. So we understand there's already a universal day of judgment. Those who mock and scorn and ridicule will stand before God. But we all will. We all will. That is comforting in the sense that it is God who will have the last word. There will be vindication, and we don't need to create it. God will do that. It's also sobering. We'll be judged. When others scorn us or ridicule us or exclude us, the temptation that we'll face is just to kind of slide in and go along. But the temporary scorning will give way to a far more important judgment. And the mindset that we need to have is one that recognizes that God is the one that I will really give an account to. None of us are prepared to stand before God the judge on our own merits. And Peter goes on to say, for this is why the gospel was preached, even to those who are dead, that though judged in the flesh the way people are, they may live in the spirit the way God does. The gospel being preached to those who are dead is not referring to a second chance after death to believe. It's referring to believers who have now died. So it's referring to believers who have heard the gospel preached to them and subsequently did die. This was a source of distress for the early church. You may have thought that Jesus would return before any of their loved ones died. The church would have wondered, what happens to our loved ones who die? And Peter brings comfort. The gospel was preached to them. They heard about Jesus, who suffered and died in their place for their sins. The gospel was preached to those brothers and sisters, and they believed. And then they were judged in the flesh. They suffered hardship, persecution, physical suffering, probably very similar to what the church was currently experiencing. And then they died. And they are now living in the spirit and sharing in the resurrection. God's judgment is universal. He will judge the living and the dead. He will have the last word, and the ones who are saved are the ones who cling to the gospel. So Peter says, let's get your mind right. You need to be prepared to suffer for the will of God. You need to be prepared to suffer at the hands of unbelievers. And you need to remember that God's judgment is universal. That those who trust in the message of the gospel will be saved through judgment and will live with God in the spirit, sharing in the resurrection of his son. We're gonna take some time to pray. And as we do that, we're gonna do something a little bit different this morning. This is the last time that we're gathered here in this place under the authority of God's word. And for some of you, you know, you haven't been here that long. But for others, we've been in this place for 17, 18 years. And God has been faithful. And I just wanted to, before I pray, I want to give people a couple silent moments to just pray, to consider the word, and also to thank God for his faithfulness before I pray and we sing. So let's just take a couple minutes of prayer quietly together before the Lord, and then I'll pray for us. Lord God, we do thank you for your faithfulness to us this morning, as we hear your word, and to us over many years. Lord, we ask that your name would be praised in our congregation. We thank you that you have met all our needs and more and done far more abundantly than all that we could ask or think. We thank you for the ways that you have sustained and provided and led and protected. And Lord, we anticipate that in the days to come. And our desire, Father, is that we would be your holy people, representing you, functioning as a clear representation of people who have been transformed by the gospel. Pray that we would be a light in our community. Thank you for the ways that you've allowed that to happen here, and we pray that that would only continue and more as we transition down the street. And Lord, our desire is that many people would come to the saving knowledge of Christ here in this community. So bless us, we pray, for that purpose. We thank you for your faithfulness. In Jesus' name, amen. You stand up now and we'll sing together.