Choosing the definitions you actually prefer 🎯 - solo episode

Hello Sunshine! 
A fresh hug from 2024! It's time to clean the closet - it's time to redefine your reality. This episode on the crystal ship we are approaching the topic of how you give life meaning, not the meaning is given to you. Super empowering, super fun! I talk about:
-  the occasion of Mars and Mercury in Capricorn 
- the mechanics behind definitions leading to emotions
- how to implement it
I hope you get as much exited as I am about fining my own definitions!
Unconditional love to you,
Soulway

Chapters

• 0:00 Intro
• 1:04 Structure of episode
• 2:10 Astrology, 2024 and the energy of the moment
• 4:00 Everything is meaningless
• 5:26 How to choose your preferred meaning
• 8:22 Examples
• 14:36 Outro

Transcript

0:02

I welcome you beautiful soul. My name is Soulway, and this is the Crystal Ship. We are on the soulway journey, and this crystal ship is made from the very magical, crystalline substance that automatically adjusts to your specific needs. So I invite you to have a look around and choose a place where you want to get comfortable and get ready for the journey. We might encounter unknown valleys of depths hidden, beautiful oasis of creativity and mountaintops, of inspiration and passion. And since we don't know where this exciting journey of becoming more of ourselves will take us, we can just also relax, surrender, and lean back and enjoy the ride. So there we are again. Hello, beautiful audience. Hello, you. I very much greet you wherever you are. If you're somewhere in transition, if you're at home, I send you a lot of light. I'm sitting here with my friend Owen. He's a cat, and he sits on the table next to me, and it's a big blessing to have him. Maybe you will have hear him a bit. We will see how active. Yes, but I felt like that his presence with this recording can only be of service to Actually, they. I'm going to talk about redefining your reality and how you can do that and why it is of importance. So first I'm going to talk about the Yeah, why right now? Then I'm going to look into how the mechanisms of definitions work and what actually the structure is. And then about like, yeah, the how to do it in the end. So right now as I'm recording this podcast, it's a Sunday, Sunday, the 14th of January, and we have just entered a new year. It's 2024. And yeah, it is a time I just had a little look into the astrology where Mercury and Mars entered Capricorn, which yeah, I read means that it's important to redefine and look at the definitions. And since that is something I do regularly and also love to do. I took it as a yeah. Promise to record this episode and yeah, astrology always just inspires me to look at the archetypes that are in my life to Yeah, I get some inspirations on where I can focus right now. I don't really necessarily believe that it is like that for everybody, but if you're open to this, you can also just take it as a, you know, like a little inspiration and say, okay, let's redefine reality in this time of the year also, because it's just the start of the year, it might help you. And in general, redefining is great because I realized for me, I like everything I talk and say I highly yeah, let you to have your reality and me to have my reality in the sense that if you see a different that's perfect and valid. But I'm sharing my perspective. And my perspective on this is that everything in life has no meaning. And that I mean, not in a negative way, but I would say that nothing has a built in meaning. There is no you know, you cannot double press on like a certain event and it will tell you what kind of value or meaning it has. In a sense, everything has the same value and in that sense is without meaning. And I see us humans having the big power to give things meaning, because that's actually what we do all the time. We say death is bad, money is good, or actually that's also not true. I guess a lot of people actually think money is bad, but that yeah, rain is bad and sun is good and all these things. So we have a lot of value systems that we most of the times inherit from the culture. We grow up from our parents and everything. Everybody we meet in our childhoods and we learn, okay, this is good behavior, this is bad behavior. And since if you believe in a tool, this is all just created by ourselves, you can all sort of say, actually I don't like this. Meaning I like this meaning. And then you can change it. And then something very powerful happens to your reality. You start to understand that you don't need to react in certain ways if you don't prefer it. Because if I ask you what needs what the word things, Allah means, you're probably like, I don't know what things I layers and yeah, you don't have an emotional response to it in a sense, so you don't have emotions to it. So you can reference it, you know, you don't, cannot give it a meaning really. You can maybe say that sounds a bit Portuguese or something. But what I'm trying to say is that when you don't have a definition for something, you don't have emotions towards it. But if I ask you what I don't know, a knife what knife means, right? You have emotional response maybe to it or war or flowers. You have an emotional response to it. And then you can look at that and see, okay, the definition comes first. And then after that, the emotional response comes. So the theory and also I think the practicality of it is when you changed the definition, really, like when you really from the bottom of your heart change it, you want to get a different emotional response to it and depending on how you see that actually, But I actually think that I would only get like to get positive response in my life because I realized that I've seen a lot of negativity. I'm very like, okay with it existing. It's it's, it's well and good. And the idea of it is also very, very worthy and it's good, but I just don't prefer it. I prefer to be happy and to be striving to be creative, to be fulfilled. And I am on the journey of streamlining myself and my definitions and belief systems. So there only in the sense bring me something positive, even from something that I inherently don't prefer. I invite you to just look at your definitions the next coming days, and every time you have a response on something that you would classify as a negative response, which like, let's say a response that you don't prefer, for example, you are in a traffic jam or you are experiencing some kind of being pushed away by someone or like a negative answer that you didn't get the job or you didn't invite, get invited to that place that you like just with like a curious mind. The okay. I just responded negatively. Negatively to this. So there must be a definition inside of myself that defines this event as something that might harm me. And then if you want, just find out if you feel like that's not when it's coming. Hello. And find something else. Find a new definition for yourself. Look at the definitions with knowing that everything that is has no built and meaning, and you are actually the one choosing the meaning and you are made to give the things meaning. So that's in a sense, or a superpower. And yeah, take responsibility for that because it is a big thing. Like you give things meaning and then the thing itself has the meaning. I mean, it also in a in a way like in a quantum physics way where the way we observe things changes the structure and the physics of the things. So knowing that I invite you to, to, to give everything you encounter a fresh look and see, does this definition really serve me or am I ready to find a new definition that actually serves me much better? For example, a new definition of death that you say it's okay if it's not happening now, but I'm actually gurus and excited. What's going to happen after that? Because I don't know and must must be fun and or I don't know, having to go to like a scary new job meeting being like, I'm unworthy. No, actually this is fun opportunity to discover myself from a new perspective. I'm very, very excited about this actually, because redefining your world will probably give you a lot of yeah, new experiences and you will feel that you're not in a prison at all. That you can say what means that and that. And even if you will, you know, go against society's values that actually might be something that you, that will give you a lot of power that you feel very empowered about and won't have yourself. Yeah, go along with these value judgments and you will realize how many things we just put into the world that are actually not from us and that you get even more yourself and even more, you know, like very streamlined, like specific about. Yes, actually, I like to wait. That's what I say when I when somebody lets me wait. I'm really like, I love this because normally I'm always busy, I have this and that to do. And then when I got to wait on somebody, I'm like, now I can relax. And it's she'll actually have some time to just sit and rest. So that's yeah, that's how you can implement it into real life. And I hope this helps you because it did help me a lot to really redefine my reality. If you want, You can also write it down in a sense, like in your diary, your new definitions, and also don't see, don't don't get annoyed or frustrated when you do find something new and then the same thing comes up again. You know, for example, you do find that, being rejected, it is something that will only give you a new opportunity for something else to come over into your life and then you get rejected and your reaction on it is still frustration. For example, I would encourage you to yeah, to in a sense, prove to yourself that you have really changed because if you really have changed, you will be reacted differently to the same event. Anyways, I am very happy to have spoken about this topic and I from my heart wished you a beautiful day and a lot of fun by realizing how you re redefine and define your reality. How you give everything meaning and yeah, just some curious eyes and some fun with it, even though if it might return back and the same situation will push the same buttons, just stay positive. Give it the new meaning you prefer and it will eventually change. And even if it doesn't, that's not what it's about. If I say waiting is actually fun for me, then it might be that it will never really wait again because then I don't need to experience that again. But every time I need I will wait. I'm going to enjoy it. And that's what it's really about in the end that you realize that you can give the things meaning and nobody in the whole world can define for you what things mean. It's really yours. Nobody else can. And that's your power. And they were hopefully inspiring you on this issue of Beautiful Day and.