This week, Ashton did some research and we talk about what offense means, where it comes from, and what we can do when we experience it in our life. How do you handle offense? We would love to hear your thoughts!
#adultingdecrypted #likeanadult #offended
00:00 Offence is complicated
01:35 It begins! Welcome back to the woodshed
03:26 Everyone shares their feelings on what being offended means
06:25 Some reasearch on what the feeling of, “offence” is.
09:44 Why we feel offence.
14:10 The foreseeability expectation
21:30 Ashton’s awkward story & Dad’s first job story
25:20 The Equity Expectation
31:35 The Reciprocity Ecpectation
33:00 Anxiety can lead to being more easily offended
35:10 Guilt can lead to being more easily offended
37:10 Expecting the world to be nice can lead to being more easily offended.
41:45 Having parents who struggle can lead to children who struggle with taking offence.
46:30 Gene’s Final thoughts.
47:10 Dad’s Final thoughts.
48:20 A wrap up and a question
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