Adulting Decrypted

I'm Offended!(what that means and why it happens.)

September 15, 2021 Roscoe, Ashton, Gene, and Gideon Season 4 Episode 11
Adulting Decrypted
I'm Offended!(what that means and why it happens.)
Show Notes

This week, Ashton did some research and we talk about what offense means, where it comes from, and what we can do when we experience it in our life. How do you handle offense? We would love to hear your thoughts!

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SHOW NOTES:

00:00 Offence is complicated

01:00 Into

01:35 It begins! Welcome back to the woodshed

03:26 Everyone shares their feelings on what being offended means

06:25 Some reasearch on what the feeling of, “offence” is.

09:44 Why we feel offence.

14:10 The foreseeability expectation

21:30 Ashton’s awkward story & Dad’s first job story

25:20 The Equity Expectation

31:35 The Reciprocity Ecpectation

33:00 Anxiety can lead to being more easily offended

35:10 Guilt can lead to being more easily offended

37:10  Expecting the world to be nice can lead to being more easily offended.

41:45 Having parents who struggle can lead to children who struggle with taking offence.

46:30 Gene’s Final thoughts.

47:10 Dad’s Final thoughts.

48:20 A wrap up and a question

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