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And"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1684.299,"endTime":1687.179,"body":"I that's probably an engineering"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1684.299,"endTime":1687.179,"body":"thing there too, because I was"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1687.179,"endTime":1687.989,"body":"measuring something"},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1693.1200000000001,"endTime":1695.67,"body":"funny. Oh, that's"},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1693.1200000000001,"endTime":1695.67,"body":"very sweet, though."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1696.15,"endTime":1697.77,"body":"No, I'm a sweet"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1696.15,"endTime":1697.77,"body":"person."},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1697.8,"endTime":1700.56,"body":"You are a sweet"},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1697.8,"endTime":1700.56,"body":"person. Those engineers they're"},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1700.56,"endTime":1701.46,"body":"a sweet bunch."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1701.73,"endTime":1705.81,"body":"Don't tell anyone."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1701.73,"endTime":1705.81,"body":"Our stoic, logical thinkers no"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1705.81,"endTime":1706.41,"body":"emotion."},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1706.529,"endTime":1708.239,"body":"Nope. None at all."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1708.6000000000001,"endTime":1711.63,"body":"Okay, all right."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1708.6000000000001,"endTime":1711.63,"body":"Well, I guess we can end things"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1711.63,"endTime":1712.77,"body":"there. Thanks wifey."},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1712.93,"endTime":1714.31,"body":"You're welcome. I"},{"speaker":"Kayla Moncur","startTime":1712.93,"endTime":1714.31,"body":"love you."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1714.73,"endTime":1715.3600000000001,"body":"I love you too."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1721.06,"endTime":1725.17,"body":"I'm Aaron Moncur, founder of"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1721.06,"endTime":1725.17,"body":"pipeline design and engineering."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1725.6200000000001,"endTime":1728.17,"body":"If you liked what you heard"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1725.6200000000001,"endTime":1728.17,"body":"today, please share the episode."},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1728.92,"endTime":1731.8,"body":"To learn how your team can"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1728.92,"endTime":1731.8,"body":"leverage our team's expertise"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1731.8,"endTime":1735.4,"body":"developing turnkey equipment,"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1731.8,"endTime":1735.4,"body":"custom fixtures and automated"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1735.4,"endTime":1739.15,"body":"machines and with product"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1735.4,"endTime":1739.15,"body":"design, visit us at Team"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1739.18,"endTime":1741.94,"body":"pipeline.us. Thanks for"},{"speaker":"Aaron Moncur","startTime":1739.18,"endTime":1741.94,"body":"listening"}]}