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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 46 — How To Overcome Jealousy (So You Can Have the Love Life You Really Desire)
How to overcome jealousy toward men who “do better” with women which keeps you from having the kind of life and relationships you desire.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- How being truly loved by even one great woman transforms your relationship to rejection, and the fear of “better men” taking something from you
- Why wanting another man to “dim his light” is a sign of insecurity, and how to shift into genuine masculine confidence and humility
- The surprising reason powerful men don’t exclude or compete—they include—and why this mindset makes you more attractive to women
- How to work with jealousy, fear of loss, and comparison in the moment, so these emotions help you grow instead of sabotaging your relationships
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
02:40 How Zan gradually overcame jealousy (it took years)
12:30 How jealousy hides in men: deep-rooted, subtle, and masked
13:50 Jordan experiencing the power of humility
28:25 When _you_ become the man other men feel jealous of
34:30 How Zan’s success with Diana came from his lack of possessiveness
39:05 The transformative power of feeling fear, loss, and uncertainty
Think of a time you were around a girl you liked, and another guy showed up who commanded her attention more than you did. If you could say anything to that guy, what would it be? Would you tell him to get lost? Would you ask him _how the hell he just did that?_
ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
Jealousy is one of those emotions men rarely admit to—and yet it quietly shapes so much of a man’s love life.
When Zan was younger, he felt it too. Jealous of the men who seemed to do better with women. Jealous of the women who chose them instead of him.
But over the years—through heartbreak, decades of travel, relationships with women who truly adored him, and the widening perspective that comes with age—something shifted.
In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan explore jealousy in all its forms: the envy men feel toward each other, the fear of loss that grips the heart, and the uncomfortable intensity of being in the “bear pit” with men who shine a little brighter.
Most importantly, *you’ll learn how jealousy, and the fear associated with it, can be a doorway.* Not something to suppress or something to be ashamed of—but something that, if you let it be felt fully, can transform you into a freer, more grounded, more loving man.
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