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Do You Really Need Chemistry on the First Date?

Shilpa Cacho

Shilpa sits down with her husband Isaac to answer a common dating question: “Do you always need chemistry on the first date?” Together, they break down the difference between artificial chemistry (the spark that skilled charmers can create) and genuine connection (the kind that grows through vulnerability, trust, and shared values).

They share their own love story from early patterns of attraction and conflict, to how they learned to navigate disagreements quickly, support each other’s growth, and embody a relationship rooted in faith and truth. Shilpa highlights how unresolved wounds often pull women toward unhealthy “chemistry” with unavailable men, while Isaac gives the male perspective on what real effort looks like.

You’ll also learn why women must stop chasing validation, how to embody worthiness through somatic and spiritual practices, and why patience and openness on early dates often lead to the most extraordinary love stories.

Perfect for women tired of situationships, ghosting, and chemistry that burns out, this conversation will inspire you to shift from seeking sparks to building soul-level partnerships.

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