Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
This is the podcast for women who’ve built the career, the income, the independence but still want the husband, the babies, the partnership, and the emotional safety.
Hosted by international love coach Shilpa Cacho, this show exposes the patterns, fears, and survival mechanisms that keep powerhouse women single, stuck, or dating emotionally unavailable men.
You'll learn how to:
• Shift from anxious or avoidant patterns into secure, grounded confidence
• Become the woman that high-caliber masculine men commit to
• Open your body, heart, and nervous system to real love
• Date with clarity, emotional maturity, and self-trust
• Attract your SoulHusband™ the man who leads, chooses, and cherishes you
Expect real talk, science-backed frameworks, feminine embodiment, spiritual revelation, and the occasional “stop sabotaging your own love life” moment.
This is where successful women finally stop intimidating men and start inspiring devotion.
Connect with Shilpa:
Instagram: @ShilpaCacho
Hello@shilpacacho.com
Episodes
63 episodes
Do powerful women Intimidate Men?
This episode breaks down one of the most damaging myths high-achieving women believe about dating: “I intimidate men.”Relationship mentor and feminine embodiment coach Shilpa Cacho exposes why this belief keeps pow...
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28:39
Stop Calling Men Emotionally Unavailable: The Real Reason He Won’t Open Up to You.
In this episode, about attraction when you're in a relationship and how chemistry doesn't always mean he's the one for you. Shilpa Cacho breaks down:Why feeling instant chemistry with someone doesn’t m...
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44:01
Should I Stay or Should I Go? How to Know When It’s Time to Leave or Heal Your Relationship
Are you stuck in the painful in-between wondering if you should stay in your relationship or finally walk away? In this episode, Love Coach Shilpa Cacho sits down with Valerie, an anxious-attachment and somatic healing expert, to ...
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43:21
From Divorce Papers to Dream Man in 19 Months
Divorced, heartbroken, and convinced marriage might not be for her, Shilpa moved across the country—and 19 months after her divorce papers were signed, she married her Soulhusband™: a man 8 years younger, from a different culture, after 10 mont...
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45:59
Why People Judge You (and What It Teaches About Love & Self-Worth)
In this powerful episode, Shilpa Cacho unpacks one of the deepest fears that keeps women small: the fear of being judged, misunderstood, or even hated when you allow yourself to be truly seen. She shares her personal story of being shunned afte...
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25:33
Do You Really Need Chemistry on the First Date?
Shilpa sits down with her husband Isaac to answer a common dating question: “Do you always need chemistry on the first date?” Together, they break down the difference between artificial chemistry (the spark that skilled charmers...
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45:34
How to Stop Learning the Same Lessons in Love
Are you tired of dating men who won’t commit, chasing love that leaves you feeling empty, or staying stuck in the same heartbreak cycles? In this episode, Shilpa shares a powerful metaphor from her daily life that perfectly mirrors what happens...
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15:38
Feminine Magnetism
In this episode, I reveal the missing link between high-achieving women and the soul-deep love they crave: integrating your feminine magnetism with your masculine power. If you’ve been overthinking, attracting unavailable men, or feeling...
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26:27
Feminine energy alone won’t save your love life
In this episode, I reveal the missing link between high-achieving women and the soul-deep love they crave: integrating your feminine magnetism with your masculine power. If you’ve been overthinking, attracting unavailable men, or feeling...
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26:27
Feminine Energy Dating Tips: Attract a High-Value, Masculine Man Without Chasing
Are you tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, chasing breadcrumbs, or getting stuck in situationships? In this episode, Shilpa Cacho reveals the exact shift that allowed her to embody Femme Magnetism, the energy that dr...
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31:32
Why Men Rise (or Don’t) to Meet You: Embodiment, Boundaries & Feminine Energy
In this episode, Shilpa unpacks a powerful client story that every woman can relate to: a man canceling last minute, showing zero accountability, and offering only an “okay.” The real question isn’t why he acted that way , it’s how
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27:09
Cheating, Self-Worth & Why He’ll Never Leave His Wife
In this powerful episode, love and intimacy coach Shilpa Cacho gets raw and honest about cheating, self-worth, and the patterns that keep women stuck in relationships with men who won’t fully choose them. Shilpa answers two real listener...
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44:59
The Weight & Power of a Woman’s Voice
Why your silence isn’t just yours to carry and how reclaiming your truth rewrites generational destiny.The conflict in your relationship isn’t a problem. It's a portal to healing not only yourself but generational trauma. Sh...
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28:05
Why Successful Women Forget Their Worth When They're Dating
Are you a high-achieving woman who thrives in her career but settles in her relationships? You’re not alone. Shilpa unpacks the truth behind why even the most successful, self-aware women feel insecure, anxious, or unworthy w...
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24:52
The frequency of love
The real frequency of love.This isn’t just about romance. It’s about presence. It’s about the bittersweet ache of truly feeling how deep love always carries the echo of impermanence, and why most high-achieving women resis...
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27:25
I Don’t Care How Much Work You’ve Done – Here’s Why You’re Still Stuck in Love
If you're still cycling through the same relationship patterns, the work isn't done. Not in the way you think.She calls out the subtle ego trap of believing you’ve “done enough” enough therapy, books, ceremonies, modalities whil...
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31:01
6 Signs You’re Operating from Wounded Masculine Energy (Without Realizing It)
Are you a successful, self-aware woman—but still exhausted, anxious, and wondering why love feels so hard?In this powerful episode, love and intimacy coach Shilpa Cacho breaks down the hidden signs of women masculine burnout
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40:11
You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Be Loved—You Just Have to Be Feminine
In the heat of an argument or the ache of disconnection, something in you snaps shut. You go into control. Protection. Overexplaining. Fixing.You think you’re being “clear” or “honest”—but your body is bracing. Your heart is clo...
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41:29
Rage Is Sacred: Why Women Must Stop Playing Nice and Start Speaking Up
This episode is not just a story, it’s a reclamation. Of power. Of rage. Of the voice so many women are taught to silence. I share the real-time moment of being followed by a man in my neighborhood, how I almost talked myself out ...
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23:12
Bridging the Gap Between the Life You Have and the Love You Crave
If you’ve been feeling love is so close you can taste it but you’re stuck in overthinking, self-doubt, or old patterns… this episode will hit. Shilpa reveals the missing link between doing all the healing work and actually...
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44:46
The Good Girl is Dead: What It Really Takes to Become the Woman Who Attracts Sacred Love
It’s the truth behind what it really takes to attract sacred, soul-deep love.I talk about the invisible weight I carry as I guide my clients through their healing and what it stirs in my own nervous system as a coach, mother, and w...
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32:23
Your Feminine Power Can Rewire a Man’s Heart
I unpack the real reason so many smart, self-aware women still feel stuck, rejected, or frustrated in love—even after all the healing, therapy, and “doing the work.”We talk about:The hidden ways you still pedestal men ...
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1:00:23
Are You a Safe Space for Love?
What does it really mean to be a safe space for a man—and for yourself?Shilpa unpacks the deeper layers of emotional safety, feminine power, and the kind of devotion that transforms not just your relationships, but your entire l...
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50:30
The Hidden Ways Shame Blocks Love (and How to Break Free)
Shilpa share how shame keeps you blocked in loveFrom the darkest days of April to a full-body awakening, she shares how healing shame in the body is the missing piece for high-achieving women stuck in half-hearted love, people-pleasing, ...
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