Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
This is the podcast for women who’ve built the career, the income, the independence but still want the husband, the babies, the partnership, and the emotional safety.
Hosted by international love coach Shilpa Cacho, this show exposes the patterns, fears, and survival mechanisms that keep powerhouse women single, stuck, or dating emotionally unavailable men.
You'll learn how to:
• Shift from anxious or avoidant patterns into secure, grounded confidence
• Become the woman that high-caliber masculine men commit to
• Open your body, heart, and nervous system to real love
• Date with clarity, emotional maturity, and self-trust
• Attract your SoulHusband™ the man who leads, chooses, and cherishes you
Expect real talk, science-backed frameworks, feminine embodiment, spiritual revelation, and the occasional “stop sabotaging your own love life” moment.
This is where successful women finally stop intimidating men and start inspiring devotion.
Connect with Shilpa:
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Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
Is it Love or Trauma Bonding?
Love & Feminine Embodiment Mentor Shilpa Cacho breaks down one of the most misunderstood concepts in modern dating:
“Do I actually know what love feels like… or have I only experienced trauma bonding?”
Shilpa shares a raw, personal story about a past relationship she once labeled “soul-deep love” and how she later realized it was pure trauma bonding fueled by chaos, shame, childhood wounds, and nervous system addiction.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
- What trauma bonding actually is (beyond toxicity or dramatic fights)
- Why your body may confuse survival with connection
- How chaotic relationships activate your nervous system… and feel like chemistry
- Why you crave inconsistent men who pull away
- Why “nice,” consistent men feel “boring” or “no spark”
- How trauma bonding shows up in high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women
- The subtle ways women manipulate, chase, or abandon themselves for love
- What real, healthy love actually feels like in your body
- How to know if your attraction is trauma or truth
- What healing looks like (nervous system regulation, self-worth, feminine communication)
This episode is for you if:
- you’ve repeated painful patterns in dating
- you’ve loved men who couldn’t choose you
- you’re confused between chemistry and connection
- you’re healing after divorce or heartbreak
- you want marriage, family, and real emotional safety
- you want to understand why you’re attracted to the wrong men
If you realized you've never truly experienced healthy love, it is NOT too late.
Your patterns can be healed.
Your nervous system can shift.
You can attract a man who loves you with devotion, consistency, and clarity.
Work with Shilpa:
✨ Spicy Queen Academy — heal your heart, regulate your nervous system, rebuild self-worth, and end old patterns for good.
💍 Attract Your SoulHusband — for the woman ready for her forever love
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