Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
This is the podcast for women who’ve built the career, the income, the independence but still want the husband, the babies, the partnership, and the emotional safety.
Hosted by international love coach Shilpa Cacho, this show exposes the patterns, fears, and survival mechanisms that keep powerhouse women single, stuck, or dating emotionally unavailable men.
You'll learn how to:
• Shift from anxious or avoidant patterns into secure, grounded confidence
• Become the woman that high-caliber masculine men commit to
• Open your body, heart, and nervous system to real love
• Date with clarity, emotional maturity, and self-trust
• Attract your SoulHusband™ the man who leads, chooses, and cherishes you
Expect real talk, science-backed frameworks, feminine embodiment, spiritual revelation, and the occasional “stop sabotaging your own love life” moment.
This is where successful women finally stop intimidating men and start inspiring devotion.
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Duh, Bitch! You're Powerful
Dating in Your 30s as a High-Achieving Woman
Dating in your 30s as a high-achieving woman doesn’t have to be a cycle of bad first dates, ghosting, and “men are trash” group chats. In this episode, love & intimacy mentor Shilpa Cacho breaks down why dating apps aren’t the real problem, how achievement has conditioned you to treat dating like a performance review, and what actually shifts when you regulate your nervous system and step into your feminine energy.
You’ll learn how to:
- Stop blaming dating apps and start owning your patterns in love
- Date with intention in your 30s without slipping into control, overthinking, or pedestal-ing men
- Attract emotionally available, masculine men while staying powerful and soft
- Tell the difference between high standards and protection mechanisms
- Date multiple men, pace intimacy, and spot red/green flags with clarity
- Hold space for a man’s emotions instead of shutting down or trying to fix him
Shilpa also shares her story of going from divorce to meeting and marrying her husband within 19 months, and how nervous system work, feminine communication, and identity upgrades helped her create a marriage that lasts.
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