We can't change what we cannot see and do not understand. This is me doing life how I do life. What's the problem? There is no problem (to us), if there is no problem.
But the truth is, we know some things are not working right in life, but we don't understand why or what. Change has not and cannot even begin.
When we gain greater insight and understanding, then change has become. We have moved the stuff from the unconscious into the consciousness. It can never be the same again. It is visible. We have used a highlighter pen to make it very visible.
We now have choice. Some may choose to do nothing with the insight. The Change process is stalled and goes no further. Those who do something with the insight, move the change process along a continuum to the next level.
Change has truly began. It is not complete and we are still some way away from where we want to be; but fact is, change is happening. It is a process.
There is a Timeline to change. We are now firmly on the Timeline; the stages of change; the continuum. We will reach a place of transition. "I am still not where I want to be, but praise God, I am not where I use to be".
Let The Kairos Centre journey with you through the Change process to reclaim your life and be the best that you can be with this one time life that you get to live.
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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs) is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor, Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure webcam.
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