The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast
Gary McFarlane helps you understand Sex, Porn & Love Addiction. This podcast dives into the neuroscience behind these issues, guiding you on the path to recovery. For more resources, visit: www.kairos-centre.com.
Helping you better understand the neuroscience of the brain and sharing what we now better understand about the brain's involvement, from childhood development. To help you effect change; find the real authentic you (whose truth self went off at a tangent in childhood); so that as you discover and become re-acquainted with the real you, having learnt to like yourself, you are equipped to be the best that you can be. Maximise the living of an increased quality of life; and on the journey, achieve recovery and sobriety from Sex, Porn & Love Addiction using The Kairos Centre Changement Recovery Online Webinar programme; bringing colour back to life - without shame.What may be the world's first fully comprehensive Video-on-Demand Webinar Programme to help you gain sobriety and Recover from Sex, Porn, Love Addiction patterns of behaviour.
First address the unresolved past uncomfortable events and then go after the Compulsive/Addiction activities.
Episodes
195 episodes
Why You Panic When Someone Pulls Away (Attachment Expert Explains)
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreIf you cling when someone pulls away, panic when a text goes unanswered, or want closeness and fear it at...
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Why "I Don't Need Anyone" Is Usually a Trauma Response, Not Strength
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre"I don't need anyone" often sounds like strength — but it's frequently a trauma response, not a personali...
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Which of the 4 Attachment Styles Are You? (Secure vs. Insecure)
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreMost relationship patterns — the ones you keep repeating without meaning to — trace back to one thing: yo...
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Why "Attachment" Is Actually Detachment (The Hidden Psychology)
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreThe Attachment That's Really Avoidance — Why Closeness Can Feel Like a ThreatWhy Some People Feel...
"What's Wrong With Me?" — The Question Every Sex Addict Asks
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreShame and self-criticism are often the real barrier to recovery — not the addiction itself, but the belie...
Relapsed Again? Here's How to Get Back Up (Sex Addiction Expert Explains)
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreLet's look at Episode 189 recording from another perspective.Sobriety rarely happens in a straight...
Sex addict - learn to get up, dust off & get back in
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreWhen you do Therapy/Counselling with The Kairos Centre, there are these 3 Stages which summarise the proc...
Sex Addiction damage to the Couple needs proactive Repair
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreSex Addiction prevalence in the couple's relationship is likely to create tension, conflict , hurt and da...
Got to, got to start to like myself; even to Love myself
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreNegative thinking is also a form of meditation - meditation on the wrong thing.CBT (Cognitive Beha...
Sex Addict - You really are not as bad as you think you are
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreYou really are not as bad as yo think you are. Honestly!Your sense of who you really are has gone ...
Sex Addict - Does life keep changing you!
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreConsider these Life Stages by Dr Thomas Armstrong, Ph.D (www.institute4learning.com):"Here ...
Sex Addict....more of this thing called Life Stage Changes
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreLife Stages (not Midlife Crises!) is about how Human Development is divided into distinct Stages. Here is...
Sex Addict - Self soothing through Life Stage changes?
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreHuman beings have a life cycle. Each stage is marked by subtle adjustments to cope with the social, econo...
"No way - I would never trash my own 'Values' over trivial conflicts - would I?"
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreLet's check that we are on the same page as we have a discussion about 'Values'. I am speaking abo...
Sex Addict - "I am not a Passive-Aggressive by my behaviours!" - Part 2
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreIt is worth listening again to the first part of this topic (in a recent past episode) - entitled: Se...
Enjoy this bonus episode from an interview about my life's journey!
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreGrab your popcorn, peanuts and a drink, this is a long episode. It is a bonus episode, bringing it...
Sex Addict - "I am not a Passive-Aggressive by my behaviours!"
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreWhat is passive-aggressive behaviour? Do you fight like this? Passive-aggressive behaviour is...
Sex Addiction may mean the true YOU never fully evolved and got ambushed
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreLet's talk about how well you really know yourself. Remember that the addiction behaviours are all about ...
As a sex addict - do you really know you?
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centre“I’m the author of my own life story.Unfortunately, I’m writing in pen ...
The world's finest Apple - who me?
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreThe Law of Sustainment refers to the principle that your ability to maintain progress towards your...
Sex addicts - say it all in poetry!
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreIn this episode, let's say it all in poetry.My Brain And Heart Divorced – John Roedel
"Cheeky Brain - What do you mean you were offline when I did...."
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreMany people think that pornography consumption is harmless. Studies, however, have proven that regular co...
NARCISSISM versus EMPATHY
On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreThe antidote to Narcissism is Empathy. (Sympathy and Empathy are very different). Narcissism and Empathy ...
