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Sexual Intelligence: More science stuff (5)

January 12, 2024 Gary McFarlane Episode 57
Sexual Intelligence: More science stuff (5)
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The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast
Sexual Intelligence: More science stuff (5)
Jan 12, 2024 Episode 57
Gary McFarlane

Let's focus on women - in this Episode:
 
What females need to know about themselves: Early sexual arousal rate will influence later addiction to porn. Females are more vulnerable to succumbing to sex addiction where they experienced frequent sexual arousal at an early age.

Alcohol consumption raises both sexes testosterone levels up to a point; but testosterone levels increase much more in females, with alcohol consumption. Females can then do out of character behaviours and become a very different person when they have consumed alcohol.

If females are not on birth control or near their ovulatory window (eg day 8 to day 14) and they have consumed alcohol, they could have the same testosterone level as a male. Even if she is not consuming alcohol during that ovulating window, she will still have a much higher sex drive than other females, during that ovulatory window. 

So, be aware of the impact of consuming alcohol during that period! Behaviour (sexually) may be very different. That may include dressing more provocatively or more flirtatious; yet, at the same time, be less self-aware. Females are much more vulnerable. Not a great combination!

Female anatomy makes them more vulnerable to STIs. The vagina has a thinner layer of skin; is moister and warmer for harbouring bacterial growth and yeast infection. STIs are often asymptomatic. 

Females may then experience such conditions as pelvic inflammatory disease or endometriosis; which can eventually lead to infertility. 
On average, females have eight times higher HIV risk and four times higher Gonorrhoea risk. That risk significantly increases with anal sex. HIV risk goes up 17 times with anal sex.
 
If they begin their menstruation early, it increases their risk of uterine cancer. Early promiscuity leads to increased risk of vaginal and cervical cancer. Non-breast feeding increases the risk of developing ovarian and uterine cancer.
Therefore, we observe that sexual activity in younger years, affects sexual health. (All credit to Joe Malone PhD, CFE, LWMC, CPT, The Sexual Integrity Scientist, https://www.drjoemalone.com/, Author: Battles of the Sexes, Founder: Sex IQ, https://www.sexiq.org/)

Presented by The Kairos Centre - Bringing colour back to life - without shame. Get the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelp
The Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; where you discover the real, authentic you. Please visit our website to learn more about this course and our services at www.kairos-centre.com or email info@kairos-centre.com

Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs) is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor, Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure webcam.

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Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry |

Show Notes

Let's focus on women - in this Episode:
 
What females need to know about themselves: Early sexual arousal rate will influence later addiction to porn. Females are more vulnerable to succumbing to sex addiction where they experienced frequent sexual arousal at an early age.

Alcohol consumption raises both sexes testosterone levels up to a point; but testosterone levels increase much more in females, with alcohol consumption. Females can then do out of character behaviours and become a very different person when they have consumed alcohol.

If females are not on birth control or near their ovulatory window (eg day 8 to day 14) and they have consumed alcohol, they could have the same testosterone level as a male. Even if she is not consuming alcohol during that ovulating window, she will still have a much higher sex drive than other females, during that ovulatory window. 

So, be aware of the impact of consuming alcohol during that period! Behaviour (sexually) may be very different. That may include dressing more provocatively or more flirtatious; yet, at the same time, be less self-aware. Females are much more vulnerable. Not a great combination!

Female anatomy makes them more vulnerable to STIs. The vagina has a thinner layer of skin; is moister and warmer for harbouring bacterial growth and yeast infection. STIs are often asymptomatic. 

Females may then experience such conditions as pelvic inflammatory disease or endometriosis; which can eventually lead to infertility. 
On average, females have eight times higher HIV risk and four times higher Gonorrhoea risk. That risk significantly increases with anal sex. HIV risk goes up 17 times with anal sex.
 
If they begin their menstruation early, it increases their risk of uterine cancer. Early promiscuity leads to increased risk of vaginal and cervical cancer. Non-breast feeding increases the risk of developing ovarian and uterine cancer.
Therefore, we observe that sexual activity in younger years, affects sexual health. (All credit to Joe Malone PhD, CFE, LWMC, CPT, The Sexual Integrity Scientist, https://www.drjoemalone.com/, Author: Battles of the Sexes, Founder: Sex IQ, https://www.sexiq.org/)

Presented by The Kairos Centre - Bringing colour back to life - without shame. Get the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelp
The Kairos Centre created one of the world's first comprehensive Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme; where you discover the real, authentic you. Please visit our website to learn more about this course and our services at www.kairos-centre.com or email info@kairos-centre.com

Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs) is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor, Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure webcam.

Support Our Show
 Linktree - https://linktr.ee/garymcfarlane

Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Root Causes | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry |