The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast

Shift your thinking & protect your heart

March 30, 2021 Gary McFarlane Episode 26
The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast
Shift your thinking & protect your heart
Show Notes

It all starts in the mind. What starts in the mind, is tossed around over and over and over as you get on with your day, your week, your month (because of your cognition), will eventually percolate into your heart.  A mouth full, but did you get it?

People speak the things that are in their hearts. Behaviour (action) will spring forth. That is CBT principles.

Regular, frequent, habitual negative thinking, will eventually lead to behaviour (that is also negative). The corollary is that regular, frequent, habitual positive and wholesome thinking, will eventually lead to good, wholesome behaviour. Getting it?

Keep your heart (protect your heart) with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life.

Let The Kairos Centre help you with the provision of tried and tested tools to interrupt your negative cognition on a frequent and regular basis. So that in changing your Mind, you get to change your Life.

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs) is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor, Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure webcam.

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