Shame keeps Trauma in place, because it gets in the way of us seeking out and getting the help that we need. In the UK a mental health diagnosis remains a sign of weakness. We readily seek help from a Doctor where we have a pathology in the body, but much less so for the more debilitating psychological pathology which stops us functioning effectively.
Thank you Prince Harry for recently bringing the role of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing) to a higher profile by showing to us that decades later, unresolved and unprocessed pathology can be healed. For many, Shame stops them getting help. Shame underpins the block.
Shame + Narcissisim = Sex Addiction and so the role of Shame needs to be understood and exposed. A process, such as EMDR, has a clear role. It works!
Process unresolved issues or 5, 10, 20, 30, 40 plus years, which may still be the trigger, setting up the desire to self soothe.
Let the team at The Kairos Centre Team show you how.
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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs) is a Relate trained and experienced Relationship counsellor, Mediator and undertakes Sex Therapy & Sex Addiction treatment. He is also a member of the National Counselling Society, the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC), stopSO, and an Accredited member of the Assoc of Christian Counsellors. He also practices EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as an Accredited EMDR Practitioner, working with clients globally via secure webcam.
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