The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast

Sex Addict - the end is nigh - Don't take your foot off the gas

Gary McFarlane Episode 116

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Don't approach your one year (from last 'Acting out) sobriety, as an end to the work. Don't do 'out of sight out of mind'; 'I never want to see that Recovery Programme material again'. Don't do it like that - at the end.

'I can stop reciting my 'Pillars' now. I can stop....I can stop.... I can stop....yipppppeeeeee'

Well - Yes and No - you can stop certain things; but not others.

It is important to keep doing your Rewards & Treats.

It is important to mark anniversary sobriety dates (every year)

It is important to keep your Relapse Prevention Plan reviewed and updated

It is important that you still practice R.U.N

It is important to use your 'Pillars'

It is important to keep a Relapse Prevention card on your phone/wallet/purse with essential contact phone numbers updated

It is important to still subscribe to a Porn Blocker

It is important to 6 monthly review 'Triggers' and how they may have changed

It is important to have a further block of EMDR sessions to address current issues arising

It is important to review your 'Love Language' and how it may have changed

It is important to review your 'Core Emotional Needs' Exercise

It is important to review the 'Couples Recovery Plan' - that you signed and dated

It is important to review your 'Values' and the 'Values Exercise' and any ongoing compromises

It is important to review 'Pinches & Crunches' with your partner

..........to achieve a lifetime of Sobriety.

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Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.

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