Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Am I a helicopter parent? The science of overparenting.

Cindy Hovington, Ph.D. Season 8 Episode 8

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In today’s episode, we dive into the science of overparenting and explore what research says about its impact on children’s mental health. I break down a recent meta-analysis that shows how overparenting is linked to higher levels of depression, anxiety, and emotional struggles in kids and young adults. We also explore Self-Determination Theory—the idea that kids need autonomy, competence, and connection to thrive—and how overparenting can unintentionally block these critical needs. 

I’ll help you reflect on what overparenting might look like at home, with real-life examples for younger and older kids. Tune in to find out if you might be leaning into helicopter parenting and how you can support your child’s independence, resilience, and confidence instead.

Sources:

Overparenting and offspring depression, anxiety, and internalizing symptoms: A meta-analysis

Read the blog on curiousneuron.com

https://curiousneuron.com/2025/04/25/are-you-overparenting-what-the-science-says-about-its-impact-on-kids-mental-health/

Watch on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/vnNUmfN-J_g

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