Sex.Love.Power.: Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Polarity, and Waking Up In Love
Our pleasure can be the fuel for abundant, sustainable work, service, and play throughout our long lives.
Our sexuality can be a wholesome pillar of our daily experience.
Our marriages can be fueled by desire rather than duty.
Monogamy can be the hottest place on earth.
It’s a confusing time to be a heterosexual, monogamous couple. The love and passion you desire may be more an inner urge than something you really see people around you living. But there are a growing community of devoted couples creating monogamy as a conscious spiritual crucible. There are couples using their marriages to fuel their leadership and service and activism. Welcome to Sex. Love. Power. where we convene the conversations that unlock new possibilities in your life and relationship. I’m your host Michele Lisenbury Christensen. Over the past 26 years, I’ve helped thousands of couples create the love and sex they desire. Kurt and I, in 23 years of marriage and adventures together before that, have suffered, avoided, dared, and triumphed in countless ways. Now, I’m here to help you get more peace, more connection, and more passion in your days and nights, so you’ve got the energy and attention left over to be the change you wish to see in the wider world. Everything you want in love and sex and beyond starts with YOU, and it starts right now. Let’s tend your flame.
Sex.Love.Power.: Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Polarity, and Waking Up In Love
Are you not asking for more for fear you’ll hurt his feelings?
As you listen to this episode, you'll hear about:
- How tamping down your dreams and ambitions for your relationship could adversely affect your marriage
- The reasons it’s hard to ask a man for something different in love or sex
- The game changing 7 tips that will get you talking to your husband about what you want more of
- How to claim more joy, lightness and pleasure in your life
- What happens when we’re in bed with the patriarchy
And more. Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Secret Society on Mighty Networks.
“For each woman, the journey to creating the relationship we really want starts with two things. One: enough devotion to the vision of passion and closeness that you’ve been gifted with, and two: enough skillfulness to be able to talk to your husband in a kind and visionary way. “
- Michele Lisenbury Christensen
HOT MOMENTS IN THIS EPISODE:
How not talking to your husband about things that would make your love deeper or your sex better could be keeping your bedroom from getting hotter. 01:18
Why women are so protective of men's feelings because of mistaken beliefs that men are sensitive to criticism or fragile in the face of women’s erotic desires. 03:09
The 7 keys to talking to your husband about what you'd like more of. 12:23
KEY 1: TIMING 12:27
KEY 2: CONSENT 12:41
KEY 3: INTENTION 13:19
KEY #4: RECIPROCITY 13:43
KEY #5: POSITIVE FOCUS 14:17
KEY #6: CURIOSITY 14:54
KEY #7: RESILIENCE 15:23
Tune in to Episode 009 to learn about another huge factor in why we don't get what we want from our partners even when we think we've asked a thousand times, and how we can reverse this problem.
Join the conversation by listening, share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Conscious Couples’ Circle on Mighty Networks.
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