Sex.Love.Power.: Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Polarity, and Waking Up In Love
Our pleasure can be the fuel for abundant, sustainable work, service, and play throughout our long lives.
Our sexuality can be a wholesome pillar of our daily experience.
Our marriages can be fueled by desire rather than duty.
Monogamy can be the hottest place on earth.
It’s a confusing time to be a heterosexual, monogamous couple. The love and passion you desire may be more an inner urge than something you really see people around you living. But there are a growing community of devoted couples creating monogamy as a conscious spiritual crucible. There are couples using their marriages to fuel their leadership and service and activism. Welcome to Sex. Love. Power. where we convene the conversations that unlock new possibilities in your life and relationship. I’m your host Michele Lisenbury Christensen. Over the past 26 years, I’ve helped thousands of couples create the love and sex they desire. Kurt and I, in 23 years of marriage and adventures together before that, have suffered, avoided, dared, and triumphed in countless ways. Now, I’m here to help you get more peace, more connection, and more passion in your days and nights, so you’ve got the energy and attention left over to be the change you wish to see in the wider world. Everything you want in love and sex and beyond starts with YOU, and it starts right now. Let’s tend your flame.
Sex.Love.Power.: Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Polarity, and Waking Up In Love
Food, Drink, Escape Hatches
Holidays. Holy Daze! This time of year, more than others, many people indulge and over-indulge. The effect on our relationships of drinking, eating, spending, using pot, and other “escape hatches” can be intensely negative, but also hard to pinpoint. In this episode, I’m getting specific about the damage my food addiction did in my life & marriage and giving you tools to address any compulsions or addictions you identify in yourself. I’ll also share what to do (and what not to!) if you suspect your sweetheart has a problem.
This episode spills:
- How to tell the difference between addiction and compulsion
- The effects of addictions or compulsivebehaviors on relationships
- What to do if you think your partner has an addiction or compulsion
- What’s possible on the other side of admitting there’s a problem
And more.
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Stepping into recovery has opened up new vistas for me... New possibilities. There’s a depth and a sweetness in my marriage, and also my relationship with myself and my relationship with the Divine, that I couldn't have even imagined when I first began.
- Michele Lisenbury Christensen
Hot Moments in This Episode:
- The elephant in the room when talking about love and sex 00:45
- How escape hatches can manifest 02:24
- Defining addiction and compulsion 03:30
- One thing that changed my dramatically 06:30
- The secret I even kept from my therapist 08:42
- What to do if my partner has an addiction problem 18:43
It’s really vulnerable to share the story of my addiction and to admit publicly how powerless I am about what I eat. But if sharing my story helps even one person see that they don’t have to struggle daily forever with their own addiction, it will absolutely have been worth it.
I deeply hope this episode has helped you yourself and/or a loved one with more compassion and hope.
You're always invited to ask questions and share your reactions and results from each episode. You can post in the question thread in the private community at http://society.lisenbury.com or leave us a voicemail at 206-659-9865.
My favorite books on recovery (notably, all by actual addicts, not just clinicians who try to help without having walked the path:
In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts - Gabor Maté
Recovery―The Sacred Art: The Twelve Steps as Spiritual Practice - Rabbi Rami Shapiro
Twenty Four Hours a Day - a daily thought I read first thing every single morning
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