Xanet Pailet
Today’s guest, Xanet Pailet, is a nationally recognized Sex and Intimacy Coach, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, and the founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats, where she has led over 100 couples’ intimacy retreats. After leaving a 26-year sexless marriage and a high-powered legal career, Xanet now helps committed couples who feel stuck, disconnected, or in conflict transform their relationships into ones filled with intimacy, safety, passion, and joy. Through private and international group retreats, she shows couples how to create emotional and sexual connection that lasts. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to truly reignite your relationship and keep the flame alive, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.
Her new book, The Sex and Intimacy Repair Kit: How to Enhance Communication and Create a Lifetime of Passionate Intimacy” will be published in March 2026 by Books That Save Lives.