Soul Contract Mapping with Tammie Vecchiarelli

Tammie, a soul contract mapping practitioner, discusses her method of helping women heal past relationship trauma and break generational cycles of illness by addressing unprocessed emotions. She explains that emotions have an energetic frequency and can manifest physically if not released. Tammie shares her approach, which involves understanding chakra systems and releasing energy no longer serving the individual. She offers a 30-minute soul contract mapping session, with a buy one, get one free deal for listeners. Tammie emphasizes the importance of accountability and open communication in healing generational traumas and encourages listeners to become the highest version of themselves. Tammie shares her personal journey of overcoming anxiety and depression through spirituality, essential oils, and crystals. Tammy shares her personal journey of overcoming anxiety and depression through spirituality, essential oils, and crystals. So call in soul contract mapping. “Call IT in With Dar” 

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“Today, I’m so excited to welcome Tammie to the show! She’s the creator of Soul Contract Mapping, a powerful approach that helps women heal from past relationship traumas by releasing those unseen energetic cords that can hold us back. And she sees them,Tammie weaves together her gifts in intuitive development, chakra wisdom, and alignment with natural cycles to guide others toward deep healing and authenticity. She has such a beautiful way of showing us how to tap into our intuition, not only for profound personal transformation, but also for attracting the kind of life that feels true to who we really are. We’re in for a rich and soulful conversation today so call it in! 

Tammie, welcome in, Tammie. I'm so excited to have you with me today. I'd like you to tell us a little bit about yourself and how you broke the generational cycle of cancer.

Speaker Tammie 

Hi everyone. My name is Tammie, and I help women to heal past relationship trauma by using a modality that I created called soul contract mapping. And I help to break the generational cycle of cancer by understanding that form follows energy, that when we let emotions sit within our body, it starts to manifest physically within our body. 

Speaker Dar  

Would you tell our audience a little bit about form follows energy? Because I am just a big believer in that. And as we get into our topic, everybody, it's soul contracts. 

Speaker Tammie 

Yeah. So when I say form follows energy, I mean that our most our emotions have an energetic frequency to them, and whenever we don't actually process through emotions, they tend to sit within our body in various places, just like we have chakra systems that have different frequencies and associate with different parts of our body within organs. It's the same thing with our emotions. Our emotions can get stuck within different parts of our body and then eventually manifest as different types of illnesses.  

Speaker Dar  

So could you go into some detail about that, like the energetic keys to decoding trauma? 

Speaker Tammie 

Yeah, so I think part of it is with being a generational cycle breaker is understanding that sometimes the way that we're raised, sometimes the the families that we've had, one we've chosen them before we've come in, which goes into the soul contracts, but also sometimes the way our parents act is because of a cycle that they are continuing because of the generational gene keys. So to break out of it, we have to understand that, you know, sometimes our parents, our family members, are doing as best that they can. 

Speaker Dar  

That is very interesting when you talk about generational cycles and breaking those. Could you give us some case studies & keep your clients confidential, but talk about some of your client case studies. 

Speaker Tammie  

Yeah, so I have a client that is struggling right now, not her, but her child is struggling and is in a mental health issue right now, and with that, it's realizing that some of those cycles that are happening is because of the energetics behind what relationship they have together, and the things that are tying them together. 

Speaker Dar  

How about giving us another client case study or maybe your own study? 

Speaker Tammie  

Yeah, so for me an instance of generational trauma is when it comes to physical abuse. My mom went through physical abuse through most of her life, and she began to break the cycle when it came to not physically abusing me and my sister. She consciously made that choice. But then, of course, when you're raised in an abusive household, it's hard to know, you know, what is, what is right, what is wrong, and how you should kind of go about things. So with that, of course, I every parent tries their best, um, I incurred my own trauma, so it's continuing to break that cycle, even if it takes a couple of generations to get through that energetic cycle completely, 

 Speaker Dar  

I think that's wonderful that you are promoting that every parent actually does the best that they know how at a given time, and then it's for us you. If there's something that we need to release, it's up to us to release it and not be the victim. In this case, maybe kind of be the hero of your own story, 

Speaker Tammie  

Right? Exactly. And you know, like I said, every parent tries their best, and yes, the children also have to take on, you know, I've incurred this trauma. I have to heal this. I can't just blame my parents for it. At the same time, I think there is a balance where there needs to be a sense of accountability from the parents too, which I feel like that is a perfect instance for open communication, which I do feel like sometimes families struggle with, 

Speaker Dar  

yes, for sure, open communication. So will you talk about soul contracts? Maybe define it and then give us some examples. 

Speaker Tammie  

So soul contracts are what we come into this lifetime with. If that's part of your belief system, we come in having these pre planned things that we are going to do. And sometimes it's just for this lifetime. Sometimes, it is repeating or recycling through a cycle that we've already been through in a past lifetime. And what I do is soul contract mapping is release any of that energy that is no longer serving you, 

Speaker Dar  

yes. So when we talked before, we talked about maybe giving our audience an activity that they can do right now, just to increase their awareness and their energy, 

Speaker Tammie  

yeah, yeah. So I feel like a really important thing when learning how to do a soul contract map is starting out by understanding your specific energetics frequencies. Because the basics of what I do is I'm tapping into the chakra system. So if you have no idea about the chakra system, the different colors, the energetic frequencies. That's exactly where I would start. I would start out, for example, with the heart chakra, feeling into that energy and seeing, kind of what you find, see if you find any visions, and figure out what exactly is going on with that specific chakra. That's a perfect way to start out things. 

Speaker Dar 

Okay, so we could, all right now just concentrate on the area of our heart, even if we don't know about chakras, let emerald green light maybe flow around that area behind our eyelids, and actually visualize what might be there for us. 

Speaker Tammie 

Yeah, exactly. That is exactly what you can do. And you know, as you're tapping in with that, you also might see colors of pink, because that's also associated with the heart chakra. And if any visions come up, any feelings coming up, seeing them, feeling them with love and releasing them so that the energy is released in turn. 

Speaker  Dar  Yes, and if you happen to have any Rose Quartz jewelry that kind of brings in the pink very nicely.  Yeah, so we gave our audience just a little bit of time to just do that quick activity, to just kind of take some nice rhythmic breaths and visualize the green and then the pink, and then write down anything that comes up. And maybe at first it's just, you know, some squiggles behind your eyelids. But try it again and see what you get. 

Speaker Tammie    

Exactly. I mean, to put a little context, my own personal journey. I struggled with anxiety and depression in my early 20s, and the beginning of my journey was connecting with essential oils and crystals and putting them on my chakras myself, and accidentally learning energy healing just because I thought about the colors and the frequency of it, and I started to have a massive amounts of shifts within my life, including remembering a past life. So it might sound silly, like sitting there and meditating and journaling, but really, what you're doing is tapping into your energetic frequency. 

Speaker Dar  

Oh, thank you for that personal example. And I'm just going to bring up that, Tammie, you talked about going from anxiety. I want to talk about going from anxiety to being a solo traveler. Can you tell your audience a little bit about that. I think they'll find it very interesting.  

Speaker Tammie  

Yeah, so in my early 20s, after I finished my undergraduate degree, I was so lost in life. I was depressed, I was anxious, I was struggling, and it wasn't until I found spirituality and that story that I just told you, that I really started to understand who I was, and continued on my healing journey to realize that part of it was that I wasn't energetically a match with the US anymore. And this led me down the path of moving to Poland four years ago, and very soon, like in a week and a half, moving to Italy. 

Speaker Dar  

Yes, I know Tammie had to squeeze in this recording because she is moving to Italy, which I find very exciting. What does a soul mapping session actually look like or sound like, 

Speaker Tammie  

yeah. So the way it looks is we come together on a video call, and at that time I say, What do you want to work on? And you might say, I want to work on inner child healing. So I start out by drawing two circles, one with your name, one with your inner child, and figuring out what exactly cords are tying you to anything within your inner child. And the way I do this with the drawings is I find different colors of energetic cords that are tying you to it, and I draw them out so the cords could be as thin as a spider's web or as thick as a ship's robe. So as I'm doing this, we're coming up and understanding what potentially could be holding you back energetically. It could end up that we start talking about a story specifically from your inner child, or the emotions that you're feeling, or the relationship that you have with the parent. 

Speaker Dar  

Wow, that sounds fascinating. Maybe this would be a good time for you to talk about your offer for our audience 

Speaker Tammie  

Yeah. So I would love to offer my 30 minute session as a buy one, get one, so that you have the opportunity, not only once, but twice, to experience soul contract mapping. 

Speaker  Dar  

Great. And how do we go about receiving that? 

Speaker Tammie  

Yeah, so all you have to do is email me at Tammie@Aurorarelationshiphealing.com. Say that you came from this podcast and that's it. 

Speaker Dar   

Well, that sounds easy enough, and everybody will post that in the show notes for you. So what else do you think you need to share with our audience that can give them the best benefit of what soul contracts are about and what working with you might consist of, 

Speaker Tammie 

yeah. So the thing that I feel like I need to say is it can be scary at times. I often have people who say, Oh my gosh, you're going to cut the cord from my mom or my sister, and I don't want that relationship to be released. That's not what it is. We're only releasing cords that your soul has decided that you're ready to release because it's no longer serving you. It's not that we're detaching you from people in your life. We're working on your energy just like you would with Reiki, so that you can become the highest version of yourself. 

Speaker Dar 

And what a wonderful concept. Don't we all want to become the highest version of ourselves? 

Speaker Tammie 

Yeah, exactly. I mean, I feel like spirituality has really given me this gift of finding who I am, and I really want to do this for other women too, because it's brought me on this crazy journey of life. And just imagine if everyone was doing what their soul came here to do. 

Speaker Dar  

Yes, awesome. Thanks so much for being with us today. I'm just really excited for our audience to tap into your knowledge and have a diagram of their soul mapping contracts and just get a little insight into where there might be cords that are still attached. 

Speaker Tammie: 

Yes, I'm so excited. Thank you so much for this opportunity! 

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