Disagreements and arguments are going to happen within every marriage. We don't want to avoid them, we want to resolve them effectively. Sometimes we get stuck in our own negative patterns of communication. Listen in as Dr. Rachelle (Fire Wife) and Dr. Alma (Police Wife) discuss the what communication patterns are proven to lead to divorce by the famous relationship expert, Dr. Gottman. They also discuss how a first responder's job can impact some of the communication patterns you may observe at home.