The T.O.C Talk Podcast
The T.O.C. Talk — Table of Confidence
Welcome to The T.O.C. Talk—The Table of Confidence...where high-achieving women pull up a chair, take off the cape, and get real.
This is your go-to space for conversations that nourish your confidence, protect your peace, and help you lead from a place of psychological well-being not burnout.
Whether you’re leading a team, a business, a classroom, or a household, this podcast is here to support the woman behind the title. Each episode is designed to help you:
✨ REWIRE your focus
✨ RECLAIM your joy
✨ REDEFINE what success means to you
Here, we unpack real challenges, share strategies rooted in the REWIRED framework: Reflective, Empathetic, Wellness, Influence, Resilience, Energy, and Dedication—and empower you to make bold, aligned moves in every area of your life.
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You don’t have to have it all.
You just have to have what matters.
The T.O.C Talk Podcast
The Psychology Behind Seeking Before Speaking
Episode Title: Stop Scanning. Start Commanding: Reclaiming Your Voice with Reflection
Episode Summary:
In this powerful episode of The T.O.C. Talk—Table of Confidence, we’re naming the habit many high-achieving women know too well: scanning the room before speaking.
Whether it was a teacher, a colleague, or a moment that made you question your voice, those experiences can quietly shape how you lead, show up, and contribute. But here’s the shift—when you stop scanning for “her” and start commanding from the woman you’ve become, everything changes.
We anchor this episode in the first letter of the REWIRED framework: Reflection and walk through how to turn past wounds into present-day wisdom.
Because you weren’t made to shrink.
You were made to lead.
And not just lead but liberate.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
- What Social Identity Threat looks like in leadership
- Why scanning the room isn’t insecurity, it’s survival instinct
- How reflection helps you release old narratives and reclaim your voice
- A powerful REWIRED action step to help you stop shrinking and start commanding the room
- How to lead with purpose instead of performance
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Today’s REWIRED Affirmation:
“I release the grip of that moment. I reclaim my voice. I no longer shrink. I show up.”
Let’s rise together.
You don’t have to have it all.
You just have to have what matters.
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1 Peter 4:10 - "Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms." (NIV)