Relationsh!t Podcast

The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.

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Body Count

December 10, 2025 • Marko & Steve • Season 12 • Episode 14

Got some sh!t to say?

In this episode, Marko and Steve dive headfirst into the messy, loud-whispered, and oh-so-queer conversation around “body count.” Does your sexual history shape how desirable you are as a partner, or is it just another outdated trope we drag into modern dating?

The guys break down why body count still comes up in queer conversations, unpack where the idea of being “pure” even comes from, and ask the big question: does being the so-called “pass-around party bottom” actually disqualify anyone from love, commitment, or marriage? (Spoiler: the girls have thoughts.)

Articles:

VeryWellMind.com | Should You Care About Your Partner's Body Count?
Healthline.com | What’s the Average Person’s Number of Sexual Partners?

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