Relationsh!t Podcast
The weekly podcast, hosted by Marko and Steve is a vibrant and insightful exploration of dating and relationships through the lens of Black queer experiences. In each episode, they dive deep into the nuances of love, attraction, and intimacy while tackling the challenges and joys unique to the queer community. Marko and Steve bring their personal stories and lived experiences to the conversation, creating a safe, open space where listeners can relate, learn, laugh, and feel seen.
Episodes
43 episodes
Body Count
In this episode, Marko and Steve dive headfirst into the messy, loud-whispered, and oh-so-queer conversation around “body count.” Does your sexual history shape how desirable you are as a partner, or is it just another outdated trope w...
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Season 12
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Episode 14
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1:50:01
ENCORE: M@sturbation
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and will...
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Season 12
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Episode 13
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1:18:13
Are You Annoying?
This week, Marko and Steve dive into a painfully universal truth: we’re all annoying to someone. The guys ask the question none of us really want to answer — “Are you annoying?” — and break down the everyday habits, quirks, an...
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Season 12
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Episode 12
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1:32:24
Or@l Sex
This week, Marko and Steve dive mouth-first (yes, we said it) into a topic that’s as fun as it is foundational: the importance of or@l sex in your relationship or situationship. They unpack why good oral chemistry can make or break intimacy, ho...
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Season 12
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Episode 11
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1:34:59
Exes
Marko and Steve dive into the tricky world of exes — and how they can impact your current relationship. Should you stay in touch with an ex, or is that automatically disrespectful? Does your new partner get a say in whether you keep th...
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Season 12
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Episode 10
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1:23:59
ENCORE: Pet Names
Marko lost his voice during the Halloween festivities, so the guys couldn’t record a new episode for the week. So, in this ENCORE episode, they dive into the quirky world of relationship pet names, debating whether they're adorably affectionate...
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Season 12
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Episode 9
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1:16:23
Just Checking In pt. 1
Marko and Steve switch things up this week and take a moment to simply check in with each other. With so much happening in the world — from new ballrooms being built to Halloween right around the corner — the guys slow things down to s...
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Season 12
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Episode 8
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1:18:04
Making Out
Marko and Steve dive into the art of making out — why kissing can make or break a connection, and just how much a good (or bad) makeout session can tell you. They’re joined by their best friend and honorary third co-host, Eduardo (
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Season 12
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Episode 7
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2:03:28
Size Queens
Marko and Steve are tackling one of gay culture’s longest-standing debates — literally. This week, it’s all about penis size and the ever-fascinating world of size queens. Why are we so obsessed with measurements, and does it actually ...
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Season 12
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Episode 6
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1:36:28
S3xuality
After catching up on new music and the latest gay news, Marko and Steve welcome Travelle Barksdale (@bigboynerd) to the show for a powerful conversation about embracing your queer identity whe...
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Season 12
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Episode 5
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1:44:20
Moving for Love
Marko and Steve dive into the big leap of moving for love. Is love alone enough to justify packing up your life? What should your future together actually look like once you make the move? And—maybe the most important question—should y...
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Season 12
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Episode 4
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1:32:48
Nitpicking
This week, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell (@rellrome)—your Auntea and co-host of the Minoritea Report Podcast (@minoritearepo...
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Season 12
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Episode 3
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1:33:22
Lvbe
Marko and Steve slip into a slippery subject this week: personal lubricant. From water-based to silicone, flavored to specialty blends, the guys break down the different options and brands on the market. They share their own go-to choices, the ...
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Season 12
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Episode 2
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1:16:45
Summer Renaissance
Marko and Steve are back for Season 12 of Relationsh!t! After a much-needed summer break, the guys return to share all the details of what kept them busy (and relaxed!) over the past few months. From poolside lounging to unforgettable ...
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Season 12
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Episode 1
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1:20:00
ENCORE: Are You Gay Enough?
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve open up about the common feeling of not being "gay enough" for queer culture, discussing the pressures to conform to certain expectations to fit in. They’re joined by Will, co-host of the No Ma'am Pod...
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Season 11
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Episode 27
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1:33:56
ENCORE: Outside Influences
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the nuanced ways that external influences—like friends, family, societal norms, and even aspects of queer culture—can shape who we date and how we approach relationships. They explore how these ...
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Season 11
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Episode 26
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1:27:22
ENCORE: Moving at Different Speeds
In this heartfelt and candid conversation, Marko and Steve dive deep into the emotional terrain of relationships where one person is moving faster than the other—whether that means falling in love quicker, being ready for commitment sooner, or ...
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Season 11
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Episode 25
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1:36:40
ENCORE: Unrealistic Expectations
In this real and refreshingly honest episode, Marko and Steve get into the heart of why so many relationships struggle: unrealistic expectations and the lack of clear, consistent communication. They kick things off by calling out the myth of th...
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Season 11
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Episode 24
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1:33:31
ENCORE: S3x Toys
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve are joined by a special guest from the Minoritea Report podcast to dive into the world of s3x toys—breaking down ...
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Season 11
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Episode 23
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1:57:50
ENCORE: Parent vs. Partner
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the tricky dynamic of "parenting" your partner in a relationship. They explore how taking on a parental role—whether through constant reminders, micromanaging, or handling all responsibilities—c...
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Season 11
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Episode 22
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1:31:10
ENCORE: Complacency
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive deep into the dangers of complacency in relationships and how staying complacent in your single life can hinder personal growth. They start by defining complacency as a state of stagnation, and discu...
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Season 11
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Episode 21
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1:27:10
ENCORE: Social Media Relationships
In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the world of social media relationships—those picture-perfect couples and "IG thots" that flood Instagram with seemingly flawless moments. They discuss how these curated posts have shaped their ...
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Season 11
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Episode 20
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1:25:22
ENCORE: In These Streets
In this ENCORE episode of the podcast, Marko and new co-host Steve dive into the realities of being single, aka "in these streets," and contrast it with married life—discussing what "in these streets" might mean when you're in a committed relat...
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Season 11
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Episode 19
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1:33:40
