The Girl Defined Show
What is God’s design for women? In a world that is constantly redefining our worth and identity, we need to know that the only one who can define us is the One who designed us. The Girl Defined Show is for Christian girls everywhere, offering a distinctly God-centered view of beauty, femininity, identity, and worth. Join Kristen and Bethany every Monday for a hope-filled, counter-cultural, and totally down-to-earth conversation about God’s radically better vision for femininity.
Episodes
216 episodes
Is He a Godly Guy or Smooth Talker? How to Tell the Difference
Marrying a man of godly character sounds amazing... but how can you know if he’s actually walking the walk — not just talking the talk? You need more than good vibes and sweet words. You need real answe...
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Episode 208
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How to Spot the Legalism Hiding in “Godly” Womanhood w/ Leslie Ludy
Is it possible to pursue godly femininity without getting tangled in legalism, fear, or performance-driven faith? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with best-selling author and speaker Leslie Ludy to unpack the...
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Episode 207
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Cosmo Lied to You: The Truth About Sex, Identity, and God’s Design for Women
You’ve seen the headlines: “Her Wildest Night Yet!” or “10 Secrets to Epic Pleasure.” Cosmo and other mainstream magazines have been feeding women these so-called empowering stories for decades. But what if those stories aren’...
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Episode 206
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Masculine & Feminine by Design: The Biblical Breakdown - Part 2
We’re constantly told men and women are the same — just interchangeable parts in a genderless machine. But is that actually true…?What if gender roles aren’t sexist, but sacred?What if God meant for men to surge wi...
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Episode 205
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Masculine & Feminine by Design: The Biblical Breakdown - Part 1
We’re constantly told men and women are the same — just interchangeable parts in a genderless machine. But is that actually true… or just cultural noise?What if gender roles aren’t sexist, but sacred? What if God meant ...
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Episode 204
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Breaking the Porn Cycle and Finding Authentic Intimacy Instead w/ Dr. Joy Skarka
Women struggle with porn too.Have you ever experienced the fear and shame that follows the vortex of graphic movies, erotica, promiscuity, or porn sites? You may think you’re alone and feel like hiding. But you’re not alone—and th...
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Episode 203
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Practical Tips for Embracing Purity in a Dating Relationship
Let’s be honest—pursuing purity while dating someone you’re seriously into can feel next to impossible. The butterflies are real, the chemistry is strong, and suddenly you’re wondering... is kissing too...
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Episode 202
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Pursuing Crunchy Wellness as a Christian Mom w/ Elizabeth Parsons (of Purely Parsons)
Can you be fully "crunchy" while staying fully committed to Christ? Is there such a thing as being too crunchy? How do we juggle our health goals without losing sight of our faith?Elizabeth Parsons is here to help us navigate th...
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Episode 201
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An Honest Conversation About Saving Sex for Marriage
Is saving sex for marriage really worth it? Will the wedding night be totally awkward if we don’t "practice" first? And what about sexual compatibility—doesn’t that matter??We’re two Christian sisters who made the choice to wait u...
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Episode 200
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Should Christian Girls Send Nude Photos?
It seems like everyone is sending nude photos these days...even Christians. So what's the big deal? Isn't it good for me to keep a little spice in my dating relationship? What about the fact that I'm engaged and going to marry this guy? What's ...
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Episode 199
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4 Things Every Christian Girl Needs to Know Before Getting Married
On a scale of one to ten, how prepared do you think you are for marriage? Seriously. Most women who get marriage look back on their single years and WISH they had done more to prepare for being a wife. So...why not get prepared? Here are four t...
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Episode 198
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Our Best and Worst Valentine's Days EVER (in Singleness and Marriage)
Ep. 197 - This is a replay. Let's be honest. Valentine's Day isn't always what it's cracked up to be. Regardless of what we see on the Hallmark Channel, rarely do things turn out that perfectly. In singleness, we often feel bummed because we do...
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Episode 197
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Why Christian Women Should be Beautiful but not Seductive | REACTION
God created women be beautiful AND to posses the allure of feminine seduction. But beauty and seduction are not the same thing. In our celebrity society today, beauty and seduction have become synonymous. In this episode, Kristen and Bethany re...
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Episode 196
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29:08
Why Sex is a Huge Disappointment for Many Christian Women
Ep 195 - Many conservative Christian women saved sex for marriage only to wake up on the other side of their honeymoon feeling disappointed and disillusioned. What happened? Why is sex such a huge disappointment to many Christian women?
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Episode 195
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Modesty Used to RULE our Lives...Here's Why it No Longer Does
194 - Modesty used to be a foundational topic here at Girl Defined. We become known as the "modesty ministry." Looking back, here's what we got right and wrong about Christian modesty. NEW BOOK - MADE TO...
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Episode 194
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Protesting Against Men isn’t the Answer to Women’s Happiness
Today is the release of our newest book, "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity." Fighting men won't solve the deepest longings of a woman's heart. Turning to Christ and finding your complete identity in Him is the answe...
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Liberal Women are Refusing to Have Sex with Men
Ep. 193 - Liberal women have been in full on panic mode since Donald Trump was elected President of the United States. Many of these women are refusing to date men, have sex with men, get pregnant or have babies. They are in full on strike agai...
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Episode 193
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Answering Your Guys Questions | Girl Defined Reacts
Ep 192 - What's a good age to start dating? What is the purpose of a romantic relationship? These are some of the questions we answered in our 2016 YouTube video titled, "Answering Your Guy Questions About Dating, Bad Relationships, and Guy Fri...
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Episode 192
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29:08
Is Gender a Personal Choice? | Girl Defined Reacts
Ep. 191 - The issue of gender has exploded over the past few years. Can a man become a woman? Can a woman become a man? Should we support the trans movement? In today's episode, the two of us are looking back at one of our first YouTube videos ...
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Episode 191
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Do We Regret Wearing Our Purity Rings?
Ep. 190 - The two of us grew up at the height of the purity culture movement. We read the classic "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and every other Christian book on courtship. We dated intentionally, wore our purity rings religiously and saved our kis...
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Episode 190
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Girl Defined Reacts to their FIRST YouTube Video (Is it Okay to be Obsessed with Guys?)
Ep 189 - We’ve had other YouTube creators reacting to us since we posted our very first official vlog/YouTube video on May 25, 2016 titled “Is it okay to be Obsessed with Guys?” I think it’s time for the two of us to react to that video...
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Episode 189
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Kristen's Birth Story (After 12 Years of Infertility)
After 3 miscarriages and 12 years of infertility, having a baby seemed like an impossible dream.Then, to my complete astonishment, God answered our prayer! In the summer of 2024, I gave birth to our precious daughter, Caroline Marie.&nb...
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Episode 188
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Millennial Women Have Been Lied to About Marriage, Motherhood, and Work w/ Suzanne Venker
Ep 187 - Women have been told that men are the "standard of success" and we should do what they do. In the name of "equality" of course. Women have been pulled out of their homes, rejected their fertility, and are killing themselves to get acco...
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Episode 187
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"My singleness feels like a punishment and why I ask guys if they’re watching porn.” w/ Alex Clark
Ep. 186 - Alex Clark has risen to fame through her daily pop culture show, Poplitics. She's a conservative Christian woman with a deep desire to get married and start a family. Sadly, that hasn't happened yet. Despite going on dates and putting...
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Episode 186
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Is It My Fault I'm Still Single? Why aren't Guys Pursuing Me?
Ep. 185 - You're single, but you don't want to be. You want a man. You want a leader. You want a protector. You want a LOVER. So why isn't it happening? Why hasn't God brought marriage into your life? The nagging question for many....
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Episode 185
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