Tom the Preacher
He's publicly preached the gospel and defended the faith on campuses for over 40 years. Now he brings that wisdom and experience online where no topic off-limits as he helps us integrate God's truth into all aspects of life.
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Grieving? We Won't Move On, but We Can Go Forward
Losing a spouse, or any other major life trauma, hurts so deeply that we can magnify it above other truths that are just as important -- or maybe even more important. In Today's Daily Word and Prayer, I begin looking at some Affirmations I am m...
When God Isn't Safe, Remember: He's Good
When life throws us a curveball, we're tempted to think God isn't good. This is a test we must pass. That thought comes from our enemy, and the trap he sets has captured many; don't let it capture you! Join me for Today's Daily Word & Praye...
Grieving: Do I Even Want the Joy to Return?
I had both ups and downs this past weekend in my journey of grief after losing my wife, Roz. Even though this grief is terrible, it can feel good that it makes me the center of attention (that was the down experience). But later that night, I s...
Grieving Loss? Need a Purpose to Live?
Five weeks before God took her, my wife, Roz, wrote in her journal what she wanted to characterize her life before she would pass. It's pretty simple, it's what the world needs, and it's what you and I can give. Join me for Today Daily Word &am...
Grieving? Find New Purpose and Make Yourself Necessary
It's easy to fall into depression after losing a loved one who depended on you. Everyone needs to be needed. You were needed; are you still? Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer, where I will share how Scripture advises us to find a new ...
After Loss, Finding a Reason to Live
Everyone needs to be needed. My wife needed me. When she went to her eternal home, she no longer needed me, and a big part of my purpose went with her. When there's no one who NEEDS you anymore, you begin to wonder why you should keep living. A...
40 Days to Testing, Refinement, and Growth Since Roz Was Taken
40 is a significant number in the Bible.It rained 40 days and nights with Noah's flood.Moses was on Mount Sinai for 40 days.Israel wandered in the desert for 40 years.Jesus was tempted in the wilderness for 40 days.And it wa...
Grieving? Don't Make the Same Mistake I Made!
We've got to be careful how we handle our difficult times of sadness and grief. That includes being careful who we listen to -- even well-meaning people who care about us, but have not yet made much progress in overcoming their own trauma. Join...
Help Lord! I've Been Shaken
I'll admit it: losing My Wife Has Shaken Me. Something deep inside isn't the same. Scripture promises that those who trust in the Lord won't be shaken. Does being shaken mean I have no trust in God? If you are shaken by loss, does that mean you...
Five Weeks Later and I'm Still In Shock
It's been five weeks since my beloved Roz went to be with God. Every day, people ask how I'm doing. Something happened yesterday to remind me I still have a long way to go. Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer as I seek to step back and ...
Four Ways We Will Carry On Roz's Legacy
Roz was a wonderful person whose love added so much to those she knew. Now that she's gone, it's up to me and my family to preserve her legacy. If we do a good job, her godly impact will contiunue even though she is gone; if we are negligent, a...
I've Been Wounded by God! Why?
Today's message is not for those who are OK with a shallow relationship with God. It will make sense only to those who want to know Him more deeply. In Today's Daily Word & Prayer, we are going onto Holy Ground to discover why God would wou...
Grieving? Be Careful What Conclusions You Reach
Do you trust your own thoughts during times of deep grief? Personally, I don't. We have a spiritual enemy who seeks to exploit our pain by whispering lies to us -- lies about God, lies about others, and lies about ourselves. Believing these lie...
My Prayer for Those of Us Who are Grieving
Some problems can't be fixed. If you are grieving the loss of a loved one, you can't get them back. We can be grateful for the people who show us love and concern (and I am grateful for all those who have done so with me), but there's a grief t...
Six Ways You Can Help a Grieving Person
My beloved wife, Roz, passed away 28 days ago. In today's Daily Word & Prayer, I share with you some things I've learned about helping a grieving person (specifically, helping me).
Grief: What Happened to Time?
Our heavenly Father took Roz to heaven 27 days ago. It feels a LOT longer than that. Why does time feel so warped during this time of grief? What is God doing in us during these times? Join me for Today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn ...
Suffering, Grief, and Walking on the "High Places" with God
To be loved by your spouse is a special blessing from God. What about those who never married, or those who lose this source of love through death or divorce? Can God Himself be that direct source of love? Can that lonely person triumph? What p...
It's Not Unmanly to Cry, Nor is it Unchristian
Last week I was challenged by a man who asked me why I was embarrassed to cry. And he wouldn't accept a shallow answer. What is it about our culture, our upbringing, our expectations, and most importantly, our understanding of God and our Chris...
Getting the Most From Your Grieving: Some Dos and Don'ts
It's been three weeks since my beloved Roz went home to be with Jesus. I'm grieving, and I'm learning about grief. I believe God has things to teach me, and He has things to teach you through the two most significant experiences we will all hav...
My Grief Journey: Will My Faith Get Me Through This?
My wife died suddenly and unexpectedly three weeks ago. The pain of this loss has been unlike anything I've ever experienced. People say my faith will get me through this. I know what they mean, but I prefer saying God will be with me as my lif...
Sad? Yes. But Do I Have a Solid Hope? Absolutely!
I grieve the loss of my beloved wife, Roz. But I have assurance that she is in heaven with Jesus right now. My spirits are lifted when I see through the grief and consider this reality. I want you to see this same reality; I want you to experie...
My Grief Journey: An Unexpected Identity Crisis
Identity. It goes to the core of who we understand ourselves to be. From it flows our purpose in life, our values, our very reason to live. My identity as a husband, second only to my identity as a child of God, is not more. That sacred role an...
My Grief Journey: Finding God's Kindness to Me
The sadness is obvious; it takes intentionality to find the kindness of God in the midst of the sorrow. But God is kind. He was kind to Roz, and He has been kind to me... and I'm confident He is kind to you. Join me for today's Daily Word &...
My Grief Journey: Funeral is Over. Roz, I'll See You On the Other Side
Join me for my Daily Word & Prayer as I process the sudden loss of my beloved wife, Roz. Yesterday, we held her memorial service and buried her. People came from far and wide to honor her and to comfort me. I am so appreciative. But I had s...