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Ep 179: How to safely move through conflict (for avoiders and instigators)

Season 2 Episode 179

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We often have this idea that healing means we’re NOT having conflict. That the lack of conflict is a sign of a successful relationship or life. When we actually need to get more comfortable BEING in and moving through conflict in a way that heals and has us grow.

If you’re avoiding conflict (scared of how it will make you feel) or creating conflict (a survival response that has kept you safe) - you need to learn how conflict can open doors to more intimacy and connection.

In this episode, I invite you to discover the gift of friction and how to feel safe moving through it.



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Check out these related episodes:
Ep178: The hidden piece under our reactions
Ep136: How to get to the bottom layer of our relationship reactions
Ep154: Understanding and practicing honesty

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