Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Welcome to Victim 2 Victor - the space where healing from trauma becomes lived, embodied change.
I’m Anu Verma - trauma-informed coach, podcaster, executive producer, author, and survivor of childhood and relational trauma.
Through my work, I support people who are ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns and start building lives - and love - rooted in safety, self-trust, and confidence.
Inside this podcast and my coaching work, I help you:
• Understand how trauma shapes attraction and relationship dynamics
• Calm your nervous system and rebuild emotional safety
• Break cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and emotionally unavailable love
• Transform survival patterns into grounded self-leadership
You’ll hear honest conversations, lived stories of healing, and practical tools you can apply in real life - from nervous system regulation and somatic practices to rebuilding self-worth and rewriting your relationship blueprint.
If listening resonates and you’re ready for deeper, personalised support, I work with clients inside my 12-Week Victim 2 Victor Coaching Program, where we heal at the root - not the surface - and create lasting change.
✨ Ways to work with me or explore further:
Book a confidential discovery call:
https://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Explore The Chemistry Trap - a self-reflection tool to spot and break repeating relationship patterns:
https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Connect with me on social media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anuvermaV2V
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources:
https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy
You are not broken. You were conditioned - and conditioning can be healed.
You deserve a future that feels calm, connected, and deeply aligned.
Let’s get there together ✨
Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Why the Spark Isn’t Always Enough
We all know that rush - the butterflies, the magnetic pull, the thrill of connection that makes you think, “This could be it.”
But what happens when the spark fades, and you realise your lifestyles, values, or visions for the future don’t quite align?
In this episode, Ashika Lessani and Anu Verma dive deep into the difference between chemistry and compatibility - and why both matter, but in very different ways. Together, we unpack the truth about attraction, emotional intelligence, and the courage it takes to choose peace over potential.
We explore:
💫 What chemistry really feels like (and why it’s so addictive)
💭 Why compatibility quietly determines long-term peace and partnership
💎 The fine line between having standards and being judgmental
❤️ How loneliness can tempt us to settle for less than we deserve
🌿 Why standards are a reflection of self-respect, not entitlement
This episode is for anyone who’s ever questioned if their “type” is keeping them stuck — or if their standards are really boundaries in disguise.
✨ Tune in, reflect, and learn how to build love that feels calm, aligned, and real.
#DatingWisdom #SelfWorth #Compatibility #EmotionalIntelligence #ModernLove #Boundaries #Healing #SelfAwareness
Connect with me:
Take the diagnostic tool kit to stop repeating patterns in your relationships: https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Book a call with me: http://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources: https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy