The Gentle Dommecast
There are so many ways to practice female dominant sexuality (and male submissive sexuality) that fall outside the tongue-lashing, whip-wielding, leather-suited stereotype. Also, you never have to take yourself too seriously. Listen in as The Gentle Domme and assorted guests discuss different aspects of being, courting, dating, and pleasing a gentle femdom.
Episodes
30 episodes
Even Gilead Had Jezebel's
So, I’m not under any illusion that the men who call me on Niteflirt and tell me that they want to serve me ACTUALLY want to serve me, or that the ones who call me Goddess ACTUALLY have any particular respect or interest in me beyond their feti...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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9:27
The Gentle Domme Cries About the Election and Contemplates Cutting Off All Her Hair and Hating Men
That's what this is.
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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16:12
We're Back! Just in time for Locktober!
Is it Loctober? Or Locktober? I've unchained The Rough Subbe from my dungeon walls, and he's "agreed" to podcast with me again! This episode is all about chastity, including why the details never seem quite as sexy as porn (imagine that), choos...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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38:26
A Special Episode: My Kids is Trans. I Do Online Domination. It's Confusing.
Hello, my Darling Deviants!This is a special episode. The Rough Subbe is not here. It's just me! Reading a new blog post! I was reminded recently that I have not been doing enough writing, and I have been wanting to really talk in depth abo...
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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15:22
It's Loctober, Bitches!
I don't know why, but I'm channeling my inner Parker Posey in Dazed and Confused, and I just want to put you all down on the pavement and cover you with condiments while teasing you abou...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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5:03
Episode 25: A Painful Absence and Talking in Bed
Hello, everyone!In this long awaited episode The Rough Subbe and I make a podcast in bed. We talk about my not so recent injury, which has kept me away from my computer. We discuss my two Patreons! And then we talk about th...
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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24:17
Episode 24: Miss Vivian’s New Premature Ejaculation Patreon, "Homewrecking," and the Ethics of Phone Sex
In this episode we talk about my new Patreon, specifically for premature ejaculation fetishists. The Rough Subbe and I talk all about this kink—about if we have it, if so, why, and what a...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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30:18
Episode 23: Kinky Sex, Cole Porter, and Where Has the Gentle Domme Been?
We’re back! After our long hiatus, The Gentle Domme and The Rough Subbe have returned! At least for now. In this episode we talk about what makes sex kinky (for us), the holding up of hair, Cole Porter, who is the smuttiest, and where The Ge...
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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29:33
Episode 22: Sub Leaning Switching and Co-Topping!
Hello, my darling deviants!In Episode 22 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I are joined by a very special guest--our friend "Violet!" Violet identifies as a submissive who also switches, and although we are all friends, she a...
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44:32
Episode 21: Subspace, the Return of Cuckolding and a Special Face Slapping Treat
Hello, my Darling Deviants!It's episode 21 of The Gentle Dommecast! Pull up a chair and have a glass of champagne as we come of age!In this episode, Miss Vivian and The Rough Subbe discuss subspace, cuckolding (again), and there...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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38:48
Episode 20: Miss Vivian and TRS Get Fan Mail!
Hello, my Darling Deviants!What a treat! We got fan mail! TRS and I received the sweetest email from a new Domme who listens to our podcast. I asked her if we could address some of her questions on the podcast, and she said yes....
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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35:25
Episode 19: Punishments and More About Erotic Hypnosis (and Girthy Microphones)
In this episode The Rough Subbe returns! With regrets! And begging! Enjoyable begging!Today we’re talking about punishments and continuing to talk a little more about
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32:16
Episode 18: Getting My Kinky Groove Back and What to Do When You Want Kinky Play and Your Partner Doesn't
Hello, my Darling Deviants!I'm back for another episode with just yours truly. TRS and I had a very funny podcast idea, but we keep getting derailed by our Sunday night Succession watching. Maybe next time.In this episode I tell...
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24:07
Episode 17: Submission Vs. Kinky Play and the Importance of Being Honest With Partners
Hello, my Darling Deviants!This is another shorter podcast episode with just me, The Gentle Domme!In it, I discuss a recent interest discussion I had about a wife whose husband wanted kinky play that she didn't enjoy. <...
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18:00
Episode 16: Erotic Hypnosis and Being in a Kinky Rut
Hello, my Darling Deviants!In this episode it's just me! TRS was feeling tired, and I knew it had been far too long since I'd made a podcast for you. Plus, it's almost Halloween, which is my favorite holiday. So, I wanted to say Happy H...
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23:17
Episode 15: Back From Kink Camp. Or Miss Vivian Is Extremely High Maintenance
We're back from kink camp, and as promised, here is my follow up episode to our experience!I must admit that I feel a little bit boring, because, well....it turns out that I'm not really a good camper. I'm not even a good part-time camp...
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28:32
Episode 14: Vivian Goes to Kink Camp
Hello, my darling deviants! I have left you for so long! I apologize. I've been traveling a lot over the summer. I missed you!In this special episode, The Rough Subbe and I discuss our upcoming visit to kink camp! That's right! We're go...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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29:50
Episode 13: Taboos, Kink Shaming and Generalizations about Gentle Femdom
I FINALLY wrangled The Rough Subbe into making another podcast with me, only under threat that he was going to be replaced with another sidekick. (Because people are beating down my door for the job.) I might call this less of an ep...
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35:31
Episode 12: Erotic Hypnosis and Impact Play
It's Episode 12 of The Gentle Dommecast, and tonight you get me ALL to yourselves!The Rough Subbe has been so busy, and it's been impossible to coordinate our schedules AND feel like making a half hour podcast. I realized the last podca...
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20:36
Episode 11: Kink Events and Subbing vs. Bottoming
In Episode 11 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss the return of kink events post pandemic and the difference between submission and bottoming, specifically in F/m femdom.We decided to wing this one, and we went off on...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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34:07
Episode 10: Our New Kink (Stamina Humiliation) and Sexual Orientation
Hello, everyone! I know it's been a while. Life has been busy!In Episode 10 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss a new kink we've gotten into that we're dubbing "Stamina Humiliation." We happened upon it by accident, b...
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31:58
Episode 9: Chastity and Cuckolding
In Episode 9 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I discuss chastity and cuckolding!What talk about what "counts" as chastity, how we treat it in our relationship, finding a cage that's right for you, and what we both get out of...
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33:40
Episode 8: Fetlife
In Episode 8 of The Gentle Dommecast The Rough Subbe and I talk all about Fetlife! We discuss what Fetlife is, who might want to use it and why--or why not. We also talk about what we love and hate about Fetlife.On our list...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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34:56
Episode 7: Ruined Orgasms and Hard Limits
In this episode we discuss ruined orgasms and hard (and soft) limits!We discuss what a ruined orgasm is, how one might theoretically make one happen, why they can be fun, and what we both like about them. The Rough Subbe also gets a lit...
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28:49
Episode 6: Vivian Has a Literary Fantasy and HUMP!
We think it's Episode 6 of the podcast! We are correct.In this episode we went off track a little and discussed some things that were just on our minds. Okay. They were on my mind. The Rough Subbe just went along with me because I told ...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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23:11